There was a book I bought YEARS ago on the bargain shelf. I would love to have it again, the trouble is I can't remember the name. I do remember that it was written in the style of Socratic (???) dialogue... the unknowing young girl was asking the older one questions. And it was written by a lady who had been very popular in costume design and I believe she owned a large collection. Ring a bell?
Please tell me stories about cheating or being cheated on. Or, pretend to be a sociopath for a few minutes, and give advice on how to successfully cheat and get away with it. [more inside]
Quick, blush-inducing question: remember the diner scene in Silver Linings Playbook? I would like more scenes from movies/TV like that (basically, a conversation which plays out like an impromptu tango, and in which one/both parties finds themselves unexpectedly/uncomfortably/obviously aroused).
Can the hive mind confirm that men need a dark side to seduce women ? I’m a nice guy and I’ve not been lucky in love. Have I not been lucky in love because I’m a nice guy ? [more inside]
How do I be seductive? [more inside]
Will be flying into Toronto this Saturday for a conference until Wednesday. I will be in the Front St. area. I like to walk, transit and wander, so tell me where to go. [more inside]
We've been married for 5 years now and since the beginning my wife has had male lovers although we've always played together...how can we keep the tension going for longer before we all get to the bedroom? [more inside]
My new boyfriend has become incredibly paranoid about my literary interests. How can I put him at ease? [more inside]
How do i teach my husband how to seduce me? maybe a book or something? NSFWish [more inside]
Suggest some non-mainstream songs about sex, the erotic, and especially seduction. Bonus points if Australian. [more inside]
I have just been seduced by a relatively older, more experienced, kinky woman who's keen to show me the darker side of pleasure. I'm a relatively inexperienced younger woman. What could I do so that *she* gets some fun out of it too? [more inside]
I'm looking for a science fiction short story, probably from a science fiction magazine from the mid-1990s, involving time travel; a female graduate student from the future visits a contemporary ladies' man to figure out why he, alone in a family of very successful people, never excelled at anything in life. [more inside]
I met this girl, and we were sorta-dating for a couple of weeks, before eventually she decided she wasn't up for dating anyone at the moment and we had the "just friends" talk. I'm fine with that, but would like AMF's advice on best practices for making her have second thoughts. This is less of a bad idea than it might seem, I promise. [more inside]
What is the appropriate flirty answer to "Do you believe in fate?" [more inside]
How do I get with this girl? [more inside]
Ladies, tell me how you seduced a man. Gentlemen, tell me how you were seduced. [more inside]
Has any member of the hivemind had any success using the many techniques and/or attitudes featured on shows like "The Pick up Artist" or books like Neil Strauss' "the Game" and "Rules of the Game"? [more inside]
No sex in several weeks (damn dissertation) and my girl deserves more. How can I give it to her with a great big bow on top? [more inside]
What pick-up lines have you used, witnessed, or been the victim of that actually worked? Please include context.
Need opinions about setting a scene for seduction. [more inside]
After reading Aceys question today in which she was asking for advice for an 18 year old, Skylar answered: "I wish that I had better understood the nature of attraction and seduction, things I am only getting to know now as I get older. When I was younger I waited for people to approach me because I didn't have the courage to do it for myself. Now I realise how a few simple rules of psychology apply in many potential romantic encounters and I have gained a lot more confidence in those situations." [more inside]
Help me seduce a guy. [more inside]
FoodPornFilter: Help me make a sensual meal. (Mildy NSFW text inside, possible TMI) [more inside]
I saw a great unsigned print tonight, and am really curious to know who the original artist was. The print was roughly 4'x3', with a dark seductive background. Two women were seated at a table, one was staring toward the viewer at a candelabra, the other was leaning away from the viewer, over the table, provocatively, drinking from a glass of wine. [more inside]