I called for a house meeting to address a housemates abusive behavior towards me but have determined that the best option for me is to simply remove myself from the situation and move out. Do I call off the meeting or do I still have it and then tell the house later that I want to move out or something else?
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posted by defmute
on Mar 19, 2013 -
23 answers
At work I'm using a Macbook Pro with OS X 10.7.4, running Outlook 2011. Today, I have to ship off this computer to get an upgrade and security update, and they will be wiping out the contents of the hard drive. They've left us very minimal instructions to back up any files we need. For me, the absolute most important thing is having access to all of my old emails and their attachments. So, QUESTION: how do I backup all of my emails in Outlook so that I'll be able to access them on my newly-wiped computer? Where are email files stored on my computer? How can I back up the attachments on the old emails? How do I avert total disaster?
posted by naju
on Feb 22, 2013 -
11 answers
My parents fight. A lot. My brother is able to drown out the fights somehow and stay neutral. I am not--I get in between the fights and support my mother. And this obviously, does not sit well with my father, who calls me names and tells me he doesn't love me and blames me for fights. What should I do?
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posted by rhythm_queen
on Dec 8, 2012 -
29 answers
My usually-bold cat is suddenly scared of everything (sudden movements, noises), and acting like he is seeing something that is not there.
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posted by angermanagement
on Dec 6, 2012 -
18 answers
How do I cope with the fact that there is very likely a large spider running free in my apartment.
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posted by HMSSM
on Jul 2, 2012 -
19 answers
I'm an depressed employee in what I think could be defined as a toxic work environment. Another opportunity is popping up elsewhere - why does it feel so hard to jump ship?
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posted by anonymous
on Jun 8, 2012 -
23 answers
How can I battle depression and insomnia (I think they're related, actually) without meds or doctors?
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posted by bryanthecook
on Jan 6, 2012 -
36 answers
Pregnant and Scared: How to have a baby and a life? Advice desperately needed: Were you somehow able to fulfill your dreams (travel, career, etc.) with a baby, especially if you were middle class (or lower) economically? If so, how did you do it?
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posted by anonymous
on Oct 18, 2011 -
65 answers
My 7-year old daughter is afraid of a child with a facial deformity at her school. Does anyone have suggestions for helping us overcome this?
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posted by astrid
on Sep 4, 2011 -
35 answers
I'm peeing a LOT and drinking a ton of water. All blood work has come back normal. So what could it be, besides diabetes?
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posted by tamagogirl
on May 29, 2011 -
44 answers
What can I do about my dog who has been hiding under chairs and blankets shaking everyday for the last week.
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posted by ljs30
on Apr 9, 2011 -
19 answers
Why do I get panicky and want to quit right after getting full-time work? How can I stop this from happening?
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posted by anonymous
on Nov 10, 2010 -
20 answers
i feel like there are two of me and i am constantly fighting myself
it is exhausting (big ol' long crazy post inside)
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posted by inmyhead
on Aug 6, 2010 -
23 answers
Got an internship in San Jose, CA. Have to move to another city for 2,5 months. Really, really, really scared about details (transportation, roommates, the actual work itself) instead of enjoying the opportunity and preparing myself for a good experience. Help?
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posted by kuju
on Apr 29, 2010 -
18 answers
I'm scared of going to the dentist. How do I find one that will understand and how do I prepare myself for going to my first appointment in years?
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posted by anonymous
on Oct 16, 2009 -
22 answers
I decided on my obgyn last minute, when the one I wanted wasnt taking new patients. My pap came back abnormal and I had to have a biopsy. They found I have moderate cervical dysplasia. I am scheduled to get a LEEP procedure.
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posted by anonymous
on Mar 2, 2009 -
15 answers
Okay. I've been dating my boyfriend for 7 months, and living with him for 3. We've been having some problems, and I'm seriously considering moving out, so... what do I do?
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posted by big open mouth
on Feb 27, 2009 -
46 answers
I feel like I'm going through a breakup - only it isn't with a person, it's with an intangible thing. I know intellectually that I'll get better, but it's just been the first few days and I'm hurting so much. How do I heal?
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posted by divabat
on Jul 1, 2008 -
13 answers
So today, I was driving down the road in pretty thick traffic and had to hit my brakes really hard to avoid a crash. As always, with every adrenaline related incident, I got this very sudden tingly feeling all over, most notably in my neck. What is the physical cause of this? Muscles tightening, increased blood flow or something completely different?
posted by chiababe
on Mar 15, 2005 -
12 answers