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Social Anxiety & Roommate Living

How do I live with roommates (mega-extroverts at that) when I'm introverted and kinda crazy? [more inside]
posted by lollipopgomez on May 27, 2013 - 22 answers

Bronx Housing Help

A friend is in an abusive situation with her current roommates and I would like to be able to provide some resources to help find alternate housing and tips on how to deal with the bad situation until she can find something else. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 3, 2013 - 6 answers

Help me with SSI information

A relative of mine is on SSI (and has been for a decade). He has always lived with family members until recently. He just moved to a different state (WA) and rented a room in a house occupied by a couple. The rental house owners put him on the lease. Of the couple, only the female is on the lease. When he went to the SSA office to change address, the worker wants the couples income and expense information before they will approve his SSI transfer. Is this normal? [more inside]
posted by batikrose on Apr 5, 2013 - 6 answers

Sharing Spaces with Roommates

What is a normal way to share common spaces among four roommates? If there isn't a norm, how do I (should I?) approach a roommate about her things in common spaces? [more inside]
posted by mild deer on Mar 22, 2013 - 15 answers

It's yo' cat / It's yo' problem!

CatLivingFilter: One of my roommate's two cats has become very attached to me, probably because my roommate (by his own admission) inherited the cat from an ex relationship and never really liked it that much. That's cool--I like cats, and cats like me. What I don't like is that the cat has become so attached that it will yell inconsolably outside my door, scratch at my door, and sometimes even bash into my door in despair of not being in my room. This has become a major sleep disrupting problem for me. What can I reasonably expect my roommate to do to respond to this situation? [more inside]
posted by The Sock Puppet Sentience Movement on Feb 14, 2013 - 35 answers

Sharing a car with roommates. What's the right price?

I bought a new car. What is a reasonable and fair way to split car usage expenses with roommates? [more inside]
posted by chrysanthemum on Dec 31, 2012 - 16 answers

1001th question about dealing with a roommate's boyfriend

My roommate and I both moved in to the apartment a few months ago. Her long-term boyfriend lives two hours away -- I knew about this beforehand, and was prepared for frequent visits. But it's exceeded my expectations, and I don't feel very comfortable. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 4, 2012 - 33 answers

Roommate troubles: how to be diplomatic when I'm just really annoyed? (Chinese roommate filter - cross cultural perspectives appreciated)

Roommate troubles: how to be diplomatic when I'm just really annoyed? (Chinese roommate filter - cross cultural perspectives appreciated) [more inside]
posted by Rinoia on Nov 4, 2012 - 26 answers

Please help me get this flea problem solved

How would you handle this? I need to get my roommate to: 1) accept there are fleas in the house and that his dog has a really bad case of them; 2) accept that if there are fleas, that it's a problem that we need to try to fix; 3) treat his own room. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 25, 2012 - 29 answers

Roommate's GF has effectively moved in... what to do?

At what point is a roommate's SO effectively considered "moved in"? And how do you deal with that? [more inside]
posted by symbollocks on Oct 16, 2012 - 28 answers

Keep Track of My Food

Is there a good way for my family to keep inventories of our refrigerator and freezers? [more inside]
posted by EtzHadaat on Sep 4, 2012 - 9 answers

How to exit gracefully from an unworkable & unaffordable living situation?

Back in May I cosigned a lease for an apartment with a friend of a friend running from July to July. Thanks to changing circumstances since then, I can't afford it and I have no choice but to get out of the whole arrangement by September, before university starts back up again. The province I'm in has extremely pro-tenant rental laws, so transferring the lease will not be a problem. What concerns me is dropping this bomb on the cosigner, who is 4000 km away until, well, just when I'd have to leave. Since we were introduced in April for the purposes of being roommates, he's also shown himself to be far more naive than he appears when it comes to stuff like this. But I've also committed a huge error in judgement by signing for this place, and I feel guilty for helping to convince him. I've accepted I'll have to burn more than one bridge. But I'm way too overwhelmed by the hundreds of responsibilities have piled up on my shoulders, and need to tell him very soon. How do I make this as quick, painless and guilt-free as is possible? More on the "changing circumstances" inside: read just the bold bits if you're short on time. [more inside]
posted by denmarkstreet on Jul 21, 2012 - 6 answers

It's not EVERY cat, just yours

I think I'm allergic to my roommate's new cat. What can I do? [more inside]
posted by dekathelon on Jun 23, 2012 - 25 answers

We want to politely ask our roommate to leave and are wondering about how to do this nicely while also avoiding any possible legal issues in California

We want to politely ask our roommate to leave and are wondering about how to do this politely while also avoiding any possible legal issues in California [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 13, 2012 - 10 answers

Practicalities regarding moving apartments and finding roommates

Tell me about the practicalities of finding a new roommate/apartment. [more inside]
posted by lewedswiver on Jun 1, 2012 - 6 answers

Cleaning Schedule that Works?

I live with two roommates and need to provide a new cleaning schedule. The once a week, one person does everything, seemed ok until someone started missing weeks. [more inside]
posted by InterestedInKnowing on May 31, 2012 - 13 answers

Finding a roommate: beyond Craigslist edition

Where/how to find a good roommate? [more inside]
posted by catatethebird on May 23, 2012 - 10 answers

My house is a dump.

I live in a complete dump. How can I make the best of my crappy living situation while I look for a new place? [more inside]
posted by windbox on May 14, 2012 - 34 answers

How much should I expect to get repaid?

How much should I expect to get repaid? [more inside]
posted by Captain Chesapeake on May 5, 2012 - 38 answers

I just want it on paper that he stole a security deposit

Just found out that the NYC Statute of Limitations is 6 years. The roommate stole my security deposit 6.5 years ago. Is it too late? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 30, 2012 - 12 answers

Major in Sanity.

I am either starting doctoral studies this fall or downsizing to a graduate student lifestyle in preparation for entering a program next fall (2013). What kind of living arrangement is likeliest to give me the best combination of economy and sanity? [more inside]
posted by Nomyte on Apr 9, 2012 - 20 answers

Roommate's approach to fixing his dog's bad behaviour is through telling him "don't do that", and my cat is in constant fear.

Roommate's dog is untrained and terrorises cats. The roommate won't do anything really (except verbally address his dog "don't do that") Needless to say the dog does many things that are bad besides terrorizing my cat and another roommate's cat Like a parent with an out of control child, what do you do??? [more inside]
posted by pixienat on Apr 6, 2012 - 34 answers

Should I give up my life alone?

Has you ever gone (voluntarily, without pressing financial/other need) from living alone to living in a roommate/group house situation again? Is it worth it? [more inside]
posted by downing street memo on Apr 6, 2012 - 23 answers

How to deal with a pot-intolerant roommate?

My roommate is going to try to kick me out of the apartment for breaching one of his rules twice. I am struggling with communicating how sorry I am and how much I would like to stay. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 28, 2012 - 46 answers

Upstairs, Downstairs

She needs to sleep early without any noise, mom and I need to use the kitchen which inevitably causes noise. Help! [more inside]
posted by oceanview on Mar 19, 2012 - 35 answers

Landlord has told me my room is already leased/unavailable for next year? What?

My landlord just informed me that my room is unavailable for next year since he already signed someone else... and I've no idea what to think of this. [more inside]
posted by isaynay on Mar 13, 2012 - 35 answers

Help me with finding a housemate.

Older MeFites: how did you find a housemate or shared house, and how did it work? Details within. [more inside]
posted by Wordwoman on Mar 9, 2012 - 20 answers

Roommates dog craps in my room - roommate doesn't care.

How can I convince my roommate to put her dog away when she leaves, especially when it isn't potty trained and craps everywhere? [more inside]
posted by isaynay on Mar 2, 2012 - 56 answers

Potential domestic violence/abuse roommate situation?

I think I'm in a potential domestic violence/abuse roommate situation. Help! [more inside]
posted by dubious_dude on Feb 28, 2012 - 43 answers

Let's hang out ... but only at my place

Looking for advice about how to deal with spending a disproportionate amount of time at one person's house when in a relationship ... while my situation may be unique, I'm hoping others have done the dating-while-living-with-folks thing, or the dating-with-a-horrible-roommate thing, or dating-someone-who-doesn't-drive thing. I can feel myself getting resentful, and that's not fair - it's no one's fault. [more inside]
posted by athena2255 on Feb 23, 2012 - 22 answers

Roommate issues - how to level?

Personal issues with new roommate; two males. How do we resolve this and move forward? [more inside]
posted by dubious_dude on Feb 15, 2012 - 39 answers

(possible) smoker roommate

One of my roommates thinks the other has started smoking in our non-smoking apartment. How do I handle this in the least dramatic way possible? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 11, 2012 - 17 answers

Dealing with a passive aggressive landlord.

Asking for a friend. She currently lives with 3 other people in a single family household in the Boston area. Recently her landlord/roommate sent the entire household a very passive agressive email and she'd like some opinions on how to deal with it. [more inside]
posted by thekiltedwonder on Feb 7, 2012 - 52 answers

Nice, non-psychotic, anal-retentive, seeks similar.

I am 27 and male. I've lived in shared housing my entire adult life: dorms, rented rooms, group houses, shared apartments. I want to finally live like an adult.™ How? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 6, 2012 - 27 answers

Should I be mad at my roommate because she disturbed my sleep?

Do I have a right to be bothered by my roommate watching TV in our living room? [more inside]
posted by sunrisecoffee on Jan 7, 2012 - 30 answers

Have I made a tragic subletting error?

I'm worried I've entered into a completely unreasonable subletting agreement, and don't know how to get out or to solve the situation. [more inside]
posted by good day merlock on Jan 5, 2012 - 29 answers

First-time cohabiter looking for advice on merging lives

First-time cohabiter with some questions on merging money/stuff/habits post-move. Advice appreciated. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 2, 2012 - 16 answers

Someone has to deal with this shit

Who should pick up the poop? Owner of the dog, or roommate who gets home first? [more inside]
posted by pluot on Dec 1, 2011 - 60 answers

My friend and roommate is driving me crazy, and it makes me feel like a bad person!

How can I help my very depressed roommate/old friend without being dragged down into her vortex of drama? [more inside]
posted by andhowever on Nov 11, 2011 - 9 answers

Movin' out?

Help me hack my living space or the way I deal with it... or decide to move out! [more inside]
posted by carolinaherrera on Nov 10, 2011 - 30 answers

How to survive a smoking household as a non-smoker?

I've moved into a new shared-house living situation, and contrary to what the live-in manager explicitly told me, the roomies smoke cigarettes in the house. I'm not a smoker and tobacco smoke really bothers me. What to do? [more inside]
posted by hackwolf on Nov 1, 2011 - 17 answers

How do I stop my mattress from reeking?

Removing Beer on Mattress? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 24, 2011 - 5 answers

How to undo being thoroughly out-manipulated?

My roommate unilaterally decided to force me out of the apartment. She and 3 new tenants already signed a new lease. What are my options (if any)? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 4, 2011 - 41 answers

How to cook for one, when living with many

People who live with others but cook for yourself: What do you cook? How do you cook it? Requesting recipes and tips, please. [more inside]
posted by Busoni on Oct 1, 2011 - 10 answers

Coping strategies for the quietly ticking firework?

I'm looking for coping strategies or appropriate vents for long-repressed irritation with minor things, such as frustrating professors, unfortunate policies, more-sociable roommates, and the stuff of life. While I'm ok with impersonal set-backs and serious personal challenges, these minor interpersonal irritants seem to be driving me closer and closer to open confrontation, and I don't know how to channel it properly while retaining some measure of my natural calm and distance. [more inside]
posted by reenka on Sep 19, 2011 - 20 answers

Desperately Need to Move, But No Luck Finding a Place After Almost 3 Months

So I am still looking for a place to live. This is so stressful and frustrating, and the worst part is I only have about three weeks before I must move out. I'm seriously not sure what else I can do right about now. [more inside]
posted by Fire on Sep 19, 2011 - 35 answers

Too much sharing=resenment

How can my roommate and I share food fairly? [more inside]
posted by queens86 on Aug 30, 2011 - 34 answers

Dealing with roommates?

How do I deal with feeling isolated in my own home? Kind of a long story. [more inside]
posted by nickhb on Aug 23, 2011 - 20 answers

Leaving the nest?

Moving out questions! [more inside]
posted by sprezzy on Aug 20, 2011 - 10 answers

10 days until rent is due!

I have been very happily living in a 3BR apt in Seattle (lower queen anne) with a couple for almost 2 years, and today they're moving out to a house together. In 10 days rent is due. I have posted on craigslist for new roommates to move in. I've asked a few friends to help me screen people, but I'm still freaking out because I'm extremely nervous about choosing new roommates! I really like being close friends with my roommates, so this feels like dating. I'd love any advice & experiences you could share! [more inside]
posted by palegirl on Aug 20, 2011 - 19 answers

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