So, this dude has been sending me extremely mixed and just plain weird signals for awhile. I've decided to get to the bottom of this. Problem: I'm hella awkward. Help me start this conversation, MeFi! [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 24, 2009 - 11 answers

Have been dating this guy for almost three months, am feeling very serious about him, and he about me. There’s just one thing: he doesn’t laugh. Hardly at all. Almost never. I am trying to figure out if I should move forward with a relationship which is wonderful in pretty much every other way. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 17, 2009 - 30 answers

Looking for people's experiences with submitting romance manuscripts to the usual houses and the aftermath. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 12, 2009 - 6 answers

Romantic brunch ideas in Houston? On a Sunday? [more inside]
posted by abdulf on Nov 7, 2009 - 4 answers

Is this girl "out of my league"? I met an attractive (in every sense) girl recently, and we have a lot in common - except earning potential (and maybe to some extent family/social background). [more inside]
posted by KMH on Oct 27, 2009 - 51 answers

Is He Just Not That Into Me: Part Deux [more inside]
posted by cscott on Sep 23, 2009 - 31 answers

I'm looking for stories from folks, especially ladyfolks, who have been on the receiving end of random acts of romance. Tell me, when were you surprised by a romantic act? What was it? What were the circumstances? [more inside]
posted by stuboo on Sep 16, 2009 - 37 answers

21 Male & socially incompetent; How do I become more fun and interesting? Should I pretend to be happy so people will hang out with me? [more inside]
posted by AugustEnds on Sep 11, 2009 - 32 answers

RedGreenShowFilter: I've got a bunch of crisp paperback romance novels I've scavenged from dumpsters around town, and I'd rather turn them into something than read or try selling them. What can I build using them? I'm thinking clear box tape instead of duct, so the corny covers will still be visible. Bonus points for something handy. [more inside]
posted by Quarter Pincher on Sep 8, 2009 - 15 answers

Subtle but sweet love stories! [more inside]
posted by low_horrible_immoral on Aug 14, 2009 - 34 answers

What is proper dating etiquette? [more inside]
posted by mintchip on Aug 5, 2009 - 20 answers

What are ways of saying "I like you" that don't sound so... clinical? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 30, 2009 - 60 answers

Having difficulties with online dating...help a guy out! Just had one of the most frustrating, disappointing dates ever. I've changed names, but that's it. [more inside]
posted by arkhangel on Jul 9, 2009 - 45 answers

How to channel Facebook info into another chance at a date? [more inside]
posted by cmoj on Jul 1, 2009 - 13 answers

Find me stories (books, movies, links, anecdotes) of how two ordinary, quiet, straight middle-aged people met, and learned to care for each other. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 27, 2009 - 14 answers

Can cynical old me still find passionate love? Or should I readjust to some kind of grown-up relationship? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 14, 2009 - 8 answers

Is there such a thing as a dating site for ONLY big breasted women? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 3, 2009 - 23 answers

Identifilter: A modern-day east-asian movie about a girl who was apparently built as some kind of bomb or war weapon? [more inside]
posted by Phyltre on May 27, 2009 - 3 answers

I'd like to read some mindless romance novels. I'm looking for books that have the drawn-out, difficult, possibly unrequited string-you-along love of a television series. [more inside]
posted by IWoudDie4U on May 21, 2009 - 28 answers

Quick 2-3 day honeymoon within driving distance of NJ? New to the area, and out of ideas. Likes beaches, dining, spas, natural beauty, and romantic evenings. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 3, 2009 - 9 answers

Help us (straight couple in our late twenties) fix our sex life so we can stay together. [more inside]
posted by monkeygenius on Mar 31, 2009 - 33 answers

Going to be on honeymoon in NYC in June and want to prepare a memorable and thoughtful surprise for my new wife. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 31, 2009 - 11 answers

Population Filter: I have a problem that's been bugging me for a while. Looking at the qualities I tend to be attracted to, can you help me figure out the ballpark number of potential matches? [more inside]
posted by Phalene on Feb 16, 2009 - 19 answers

I am in love with a romantic. Help! [more inside]
posted by psylosyren on Feb 3, 2009 - 34 answers

Are you a person whose romantic life started comparatively late--say, in your mid-twenties or later? Tell me your story! [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 31, 2009 - 14 answers

Horrors-of-Dating-Filter: Defining the relationship: How soon is too soon? And what about early-relationship-stage gifts for birthday and Valentines? [more inside]
posted by adjockey on Jan 21, 2009 - 29 answers

What should I do about a long-term attraction? Also, my mother recently died. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 12, 2009 - 16 answers

I turn 29 in a couple weeks and would like to be in a relationship. What can I do differently? [more inside]
posted by learninguntilidie on Jan 9, 2009 - 97 answers

Have you ever fallen out of love with your partner, worked at it, and fallen back IN love with he or she? If so, how did you do it? What would you recommend? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 4, 2009 - 18 answers

Please recommend erotica for women with dry, tart tastes. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 4, 2009 - 18 answers

I'm looking for movies about love that are not of the Titanic type. That is, they are about two people who learn to love each other over a long period of time. Maybe at first they don't particularly like each other - or they are just together by necessity, or they are just friends and never think about love. Any ideas? [more inside]
posted by vizsla on Jan 3, 2009 - 53 answers

This question reminded me that I have a trashy paperback romance novel memory of my own that I would like to track down. It was about a female highwayman and its cover art was mostly in shades of dark green. [more inside]
posted by matildaben on Dec 12, 2008 - 5 answers

Bookfilter: Help me remember this trashy romance novel from my adolescence. [more inside]
posted by messylissa on Dec 11, 2008 - 8 answers

What are your recommendations for a romantic holiday in Europe? [more inside]
posted by alopez on Dec 8, 2008 - 19 answers

Anyone have recommendations re funny, satirical/barbed but also charming, romantic novels? [more inside]
posted by laumry on Dec 3, 2008 - 33 answers

Looking for fun, quirky, romantic fun in Houston or on the way from Houston to Austin. [more inside]
posted by kristymcj on Nov 19, 2008 - 5 answers

Okay. There is a girl I like her birthday is @ the end of this month. She's an amazing person. We went out once while she was home last summer (she was home for like a month), she's coming back in christmas but her birthday is in like 2 weeks. (I'm 19 she's 21). I'm pretty sure she's interested in me, but not ceretain. How do I reinforce (romantically) in my birthday card to her that I'm interested in her but not in a creepy or stalkerish way?
posted by BoldStepDesign on Nov 10, 2008 - 17 answers

Relationship Filter: Are we just not good for each other, or am I actually just screwed up from my family and last relationship? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 4, 2008 - 25 answers

Looking for books explaining local customs re: romance/relationships in Southern Mexico (Oaxaca). Preferably reasonably modern. [more inside]
posted by jimmyjimjim on Oct 21, 2008 - 3 answers

Just saw Nick and Norah's Infinite Playlist. I feel like the storyline, (i.e. guy/girl is hung up on his/her good-looking-yet-lame ex, meets a smart cool new person, and ends up rejecting their old flame for said new love interest when old flame gets jealous / comes around too late), has been used plenty to the point of cliche. Problem is, I can't think of any examples! Can anyone give me some? Thanks!
posted by H Carl on Oct 10, 2008 - 29 answers

How can I pursue a friends-first relationship in a deliberate-dating scenario without being seen as a non-starting cold fish for not getting romantic/amorous sooner? More hyphenated descriptors inside. [more inside]
posted by Barbecue on Sep 15, 2008 - 25 answers

Is it possible for friends to develop a relationship that's more than friendship even if one of them is happy with the way things are right now? [more inside]
posted by hadjiboy on Sep 13, 2008 - 41 answers

Europe: Where does it Snow for Xmas? [more inside]
posted by mary8nne on Aug 31, 2008 - 11 answers

I'm looking for book recommendations along the lines of David Schickler's literary fiction. Fresh, tender, sweet, sexy, steamy, intimate, unabashedly earnest, contemporary literary romance. What has all that and more? [more inside]
posted by cowbellemoo on Aug 26, 2008 - 3 answers

I am looking for some new movies to add to my sob collection. :) [more inside]
posted by gwenlister on Aug 9, 2008 - 67 answers

I'm looking for movies and television shows that featured memorable, star-crossed heterosexual couples. The man and woman must either: a) never get together, or b) get together only to have everything go horribly. No long-term relationships or on-and-off again romances, please. Bonus points for obscurity, but well-known examples are also appreciated. Examples: - Red (K. Kieslowski) - Titanic Thanks for your help! :-)
posted by coizero on Aug 1, 2008 - 64 answers

Depression has knocked my passion (for everything) out. Gwargh. What do I do while I get therapy sorted? [more inside]
posted by divabat on Jul 21, 2008 - 13 answers

Recent acquaintance and I, definitely clicking, but things are headed into friendship waters. Can this be diverted? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 17, 2008 - 46 answers

I fell in love with my best friend, who is a guy. I’m a young bisexual guy. Apparently, he is not. Did the “wrong thing” and told him about how I felt, and was rejected, but things seemed okay afterward. However, I’m still hurting, I’m feeling delusional about it, and sometimes I think that he inadvertently isn’t helping… how do I live with my best friend now? Help me, Metafilter! [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 7, 2008 - 25 answers

I'm getting married in just over 2 weeks time. Some time ago my fiance said he wanted a prenup, and after some resistance I assented. Nothing happened until last week. Now we're in the process and I'm finding it so repellent and depressing that I'm questioning...well, everything. What can I do? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 1, 2008 - 83 answers