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How do I get "certified" as having a disability?

I'm better now, but I feel that I was disabled before and want to re-file my taxes. Do I need to prove this, and how does that work? What does it take to prove disability, especially retroactively? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 24, 2014 - 6 answers

Boyfriend's ex is seriously ill

My boyfriend's ex has leukemia. While she could recover if her bone marrow transplant is successful, there is a strong possibility that she could die. My boyfriend is very sad about her illness. This seems completely natural, and I want to be supportive. But at the same time, I am uncomfortable with what he has told me about his feelings. Are these feelings romantic? If not, how can I support him? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 27, 2014 - 37 answers

Help me hire a programmer

I am working on my dissertation, and I need to hire someone to write some code that will scrape content off of a password-protected site that uses AJAX. I don't really know how to go about doing this. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 27, 2014 - 17 answers

Should I send this letter to a search chair at a SLAC?

I am considering rescinding my application for employment at a SLAC - I am fairly certain they have invited candidates to interview since my initial follow-ups, but have been wholly unresponsive to my questions. The goal of this letter is to change their behavior so that they are not rude during future job searches. I think I would have liked this job, but do not want employment there if the search process is indicative of department dynamics. Letter enclosed. If you think I ought to send it, any suggestions for revision are welcome. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 31, 2014 - 72 answers

How to support a spouse through weight-watchers?

My spouse has made a conscious decision to try weight watchers. She is terrified of failure. How can I help? What are some goals that I can set? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 8, 2013 - 27 answers

Just got engaged. Problem, I still think about the one that got away.

I just got engaged to an amazing guy. He's funny, smart, interesting, stable, settled in his career, and is going places...basically, a "10" by any and every objective measure. The problem is that ever since we've gotten engaged, I keep thinking of the first and only guy I've ever felt was "the one" I was destined to be with, and the problem has only exacerbated since my fiancé wants to drop his life for a year in California to be closer to me as I finish up college. Snowflake details inside. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 5, 2013 - 102 answers

how about that DOMA, huh?

I went to a dinner party the other night and was totally miserable. I literally had nothing to say the whole night. I'm going to another one this weekend and I need something to talk about. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 26, 2013 - 20 answers

Speeding on the highway and lost my warning ticket!

Last Saturday, I was speeding on the highway leaving West Bloomfield, Michigan on my way to Cincinnati, Ohio. A police officer pulled me to the side and forgave me for the transgression by issuing me a speeding ticket warning that carries some sort of monetary penalty that my parents have to pay for. I lost the ticket stub itself and don't remember where I was on I-275/if I was even on I-275 and my Mom said that if I don't get it to her ASAP the fines will triple and I'll be grounded. Do any of you guys know if there is a central repository of tickets issued in Michigan that I can go to to see the warning ticket number since locating the exact spot on Google maps is difficult? If not, what can I do?
posted by anonymous on Jun 24, 2013 - 17 answers

How do I deal with someone I dated for six weeks two years ago...

... who was not my friend beforehand and dumped me dishonestly and, it seems, also rather callously? This happened 2 years ago (!) and it should be SO over by now, but in the past year our circle of common acquaintances in this small college town has multiplied in such a way that he is even - literally - in my food sometimes. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 19, 2013 - 24 answers

Just started anxiety medication, having severe anxiety attacks

I just started taking 5mg of cipralex three days ago and am currently having the worst anxiety attack of my life. It's almost physically painful. Is this normal? I haven't felt like this since I had a seriously bad trip on mushrooms!! [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 16, 2013 - 29 answers

What are good boundaries for married opposite sex friends?

I have a close male friend and our closeness bothers my husband, which bothers me because I care about how he feels. Happy couples, what are things you think are okay and not okay for your spouse to do with someone else? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 30, 2013 - 58 answers

I'll just start sleeping with my shotgun then...

Boyfriend wants to help lifelong thief friend without becoming a victim. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 13, 2013 - 34 answers

Advice about a traffic violation, mandatory court appearance.

How much will this traffic violation cost me? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 31, 2012 - 13 answers

Should I be concerned about fiancees trivial, frivolous 'white' lies?

My fiancee is lying fairly often about trivial, frivolous things. Should I be concerned, or am I just hopelessly insecure? (special snowflake inside) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 25, 2012 - 32 answers

Inter-office conflict

Please help me manage/cope with this grad school inter-office conflict. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 23, 2012 - 12 answers

What to expect from a fibroadenoma removal?

I am having a benign fibroadenoma removed from my breast. What can I expect during and after the surgery? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 22, 2012 - 6 answers

Common Sense is Not So Common?

Can you help me cultivate common sense? I am very book smart - gifted/high IQ, excel at work, etc. I am relatively street smart - no walking down dark alleys at night, etc. But I fail spectacularly at common sense, and I've given a few examples below. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 1, 2012 - 76 answers

Can't seem to get ahead...need your experience and expertise.

I got moved to a new department at work-- only to find out I'm working harder and with less of a break for the same pay. I feel I'm getting punished for being a good worker. How do I civilly and professionally tell my boss this without being canned? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 18, 2012 - 15 answers

Work-y Love Triangle: Help Me Keep It Simple.

I like him, I am pretty sure he likes me, yay! Complications: we essentially work together, and he theoretically has a girlfriend. Tips/suggestions needed for navigating this situation with maturity, honesty, and a minimum of hurt feelings. Stories and anecdotes about similar situations--with good outcomes or otherwise--VERY welcome. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 7, 2012 - 63 answers

Am I really this shallow?

Doubts after a breakup: hit me with that frying pan one more time and I might actually get it. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 16, 2012 - 43 answers

In Tokyo and back in the dating game: help me be the most amazing first date ever!

FirstDateFilter, Tokyo Edition: I've been out of the dating game for some time and am looking for some creative afternoon date ideas in Tokyo. (I could also use any general first-date wisdom to help me regain a little bit of my dating confidence.) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 27, 2012 - 8 answers

How much time should I give my relationship?

How much longer should I give my 3.5 month relationship? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 25, 2012 - 75 answers

Should I break up with my boyfriend?

Should I break up with my boyfriend? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 12, 2012 - 101 answers

Is it creepy to Google people? [non-dating-filter]

Do you think it's creepy when you find out someone has Googled you? Semi-related to previous questions about Googling dates, but my date isn't the Googler. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 8, 2012 - 46 answers

How do I read signals from someone who doesn't seem to have any?

I'm involved in a new relationship with a guy that I like. He's what I would describe as very self-contained. Quiet, comes off as pretty shy, and requires a bit of effort to get to know. Things have recently started to get physical, but I'm finding myself frustrated because I have no idea how to read this guy's signals and moving things forward is up to me. What does complete silence mean? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 18, 2012 - 30 answers

I'm being flogged publicly ..is my accuser handling it legally

I did the wrong thing...but do I have any rights in this situation? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 13, 2011 - 22 answers

I’m torn between what I do and what I always thought I would do

I’m in my late 20s and still wrapped up in self-indulgent “what should I do with my life” questions that I can’t seem to resolve. Sorry for a rambling question - please help. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 9, 2011 - 22 answers

I'm looking for "triage" for our relationship, including recommendations for Seattle-area therapists.

I am looking for "triage" for our relationship, including recommendations for counselors in the Seattle area. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 27, 2011 - 25 answers

What should I tell my new counsellor?

I'm considering therapy for the first time. How to clearly express what I want to work through there, and what to expect? Snowflake details inside. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 24, 2011 - 6 answers

Can I get a loan against my inheritance?

My father died in February and I have an inheritance coming, probably around the end of the year, but at this moment that isn't soon enough to keep the wolves from the door. It seems silly that I know I have this mid-five-figures amount coming, and may become homeless before I get it. Does anyone have any ideas about how I can get some breathing room? For instance, is it possible to get a short-term loan using the inheritance as collateral? Any other creative ideas?
posted by anonymous on Oct 10, 2011 - 21 answers

Can you tell me how to get my bum get cleaner than your average whistle?

How can I best prepare my rear end for "special" anal sex? (NSFW) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 17, 2011 - 16 answers

How do I plan & embark on a RTW trip as an HIV+ gay man?

How do I plan & embark on a RTW trip as an HIV+ man? I'm about to turn 25 and thanks to healthcare legislation I've been given a small window of time to travel unencumbered by the fear of loosing health insurance. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 24, 2011 - 6 answers

Summer in the City

Explain to a country kid the etiquette of smooching in the city. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 4, 2011 - 23 answers

School or Work?

University student unsure of whether or not I should spend an extra semester in school or work full-time to save up for my future in the music industry and life in a new city. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 31, 2011 - 7 answers

Need help with divorce strategies when you have a child you want to move out of state with...

Need help with divorce strategies when you have a child you want to move out of state with... [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 19, 2011 - 19 answers

operation (eventual) graduation

I already had employment lined up for after graduation, but I just discovered that I won't in fact be graduating this spring. Now what? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 24, 2011 - 8 answers

Lien on me...

Roofer wants to come back and request double the amount already paid on a signed contract, and are threatening a lien on the house, what can we do? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 21, 2011 - 19 answers

Explain business ethics, and how they are applied today.

Is my new employer (a spice company) acting ethically in its business practices? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 17, 2011 - 11 answers

Scammy political billboard of questionable legality: what to do?

There's a misleading political billboard up in my small Massachusetts town, implying photo ID is required for voting. This is not true. I'm hopping mad & trying to figure out what would be an appropriate response to this situation. (More info & a photo link below.) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 9, 2011 - 30 answers

Diamonds are a girl's best friend, but how old are they?

I have this bracelet with diamonds that was inherited to me. Can you tell me circa when was it made? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 5, 2011 - 10 answers

Am I disabled enough?

I am considering filing with my university's office of disability services as a disabled student. Should I? But of course, there are complications. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 22, 2011 - 16 answers

Make us feel better about the bar exam

My husband just finished taking the Tennessee bar exam and just found out that they changed the way they grade it - and it's in opposition to his test taking strategy. Help us down off the ledge! [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 24, 2011 - 11 answers

Next time, call your mother when you need bailing out.

How far to go for semi-estranged relative in big legal trouble due to their own foolishness? Anonymous because I need some plausible deniability. More inside. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 17, 2011 - 48 answers

Where to submit an audio drama you created

Are there any contests, websites, or similar things out there where I can submit a radio drama (audio dramatic monologue) that I created, and possibly share it with others? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 9, 2011 - 7 answers

No gift from Mother-in-Law

My elderly 84 year old mother-in-law did not get my husband or I a Christmas present this year. She did get the only other person she has contact with, a lady that comes in once a week to clean for her, a Christmas present this week. Last year she did not get her son (my husband) a present (she asked him what he wanted and he told her to take care of herself would be gift enough) but she did get me one. Please understand it is not getting a gift that has crushed me, but "it's the thought that counts" is what is painful to me. I do everything for her - pay bills, laundry, fill weekly medicine box, take her to doctor appointments, do grocery shopping, pick-up medicine, help with her bath, I even take her dog to the vet. When I went down this Christmas morning and gave her a Christmas gift she said "Why did you do this?" and of course I said because it is Christmas (my husband and I have been married for 15 years and the tradition has always been the same!). She did not say a word about a gift for us. My husband apologized for her when I told him, but how can I put this in perspective and not take it personal? (Why did she get her cleaning lady a gift?)
posted by anonymous on Dec 25, 2010 - 30 answers

Help! I’m Crushed-Out!

I would like to pitch woo to (at?) the boyfriend this holiday season. And I would love your suggestions. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 6, 2010 - 19 answers

Would a ribbed condom hurt a hymen?

What type of condom is best for sex between a virgin male and a virgin female with and intact hymen? Would textures help or hurt? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 12, 2010 - 34 answers

Talking to serious girlfriend about not going to her dad's funeral?

Talking to serious girlfriend about not going to her dad's funeral? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 30, 2010 - 90 answers

Singing the crybaby blues

How much crying is too much? (aka Help me speak to my boyfriend, please?) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 23, 2010 - 63 answers

Dating someone you work with/working with someone you're dating

How do I try and pursue a relationship both creatively and romantically? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 7, 2010 - 3 answers

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