Help me Don Juan Kenobi, you're my only hope; or How do you stay flirtatious, witty, and mysterious when you REALLY like someone? [more inside]
posted on Jun 4, 2008 - 11 answers

My dad died recently, and the resulting grief and intense emotional state I'm in have ramped up feelings I have for an unattainable person... a crush. I'm happily married, and this is confusing and painful. [more inside]
posted on Feb 21, 2008 - 14 answers

What to do now? I'm a single, mid-thirties female, and I have a crush. Oh, wait. It's a lot more complicated than that. I'm sorry this is so long... [more inside]
posted on Jan 16, 2008 - 37 answers

About a year ago I met a dealer at a casino in another city. After a couple of subsequent visits, I mustered up the nerve to talk to her during while she was off-duty my last night there, and we got along well enough. It didn't take long until she mentioned her boyfriend, though, so how should I approach things when I visit again in a couple of weeks? [more inside]
posted on Nov 13, 2006 - 53 answers

Why is it embarrassing not to have romantic interest reciprocated? [more inside]
posted on Sep 4, 2006 - 20 answers

[Gayfilter] I have a huge crush on a guy I've dated once, and he's moving abroad in three weeks' time. How can I let him know I desperately want to keep seeing him without coming across as a psycho? [more inside]
posted on Aug 30, 2006 - 10 answers

I am seeking advice/opinions on the situation with my crush. So many questions - is it a hopeless situation? [more inside]
posted on Aug 4, 2006 - 23 answers

So there's this guy at work that I'm getting a crush on... [more inside]
posted on Jun 11, 2006 - 24 answers

I have an unrequited crush and need to get over it and stop obsessing. But how? [more inside]
posted on Apr 22, 2006 - 18 answers

There's this guy I like and have liked for a long time. I don't know if he has any idea how I feel, or if it would scare him away if I just asked him "Hey, I like you a lot, how do you feel about that?" I only know him online, we've never met, but it feels like we've known each other forever. Do I risk the cherished friendship we have by taking this step, or do I keep the status quo and hope that someday he'll realize that I'm always here for him, waiting?
posted on Oct 16, 2004 - 33 answers