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Is this normal?

I'm currently taking a second break from a relationship with a guy who suffers from Bipolar type I, OCD, paranoia (possibly paranoid schitzophrenia), and ADHD who also has heart problems. We've fought non-stop for most of 7 months and only for the last month or so has there been any extended amount of enjoyable time. Is there anything left in this relationship to salvage? [more inside]
posted by Accidental1 on Apr 14, 2010 - 61 answers

God doesn't punish you for watching American Idol

I want him to quit judging me and blaming me for how he feels about his life. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 13, 2010 - 17 answers

Vacation Disparity

My girlfriend and I have vastly different amounts of paid vacation time. What do I do with all the excess? [more inside]
posted by backseatpilot on Apr 12, 2010 - 23 answers

Good writings about the psychological aspects of a D/s relationship

Can you recommend some good writings about the psychological aspects of a D/s relationship, the process of getting to know one another and submission. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 11, 2010 - 7 answers

I'm just not that into you.

Please help me dump someone that I'm not actually seeing. [more inside]
posted by Solomon on Apr 7, 2010 - 26 answers

How to choose a grad school while balancing loans, career paths, and a serious relationship?

Do I go to grad school, and if so, where? Struggling with the best approach to the decision-making process. [more inside]
posted by pants on Apr 5, 2010 - 15 answers

Help me stop thinking about their exes?

How do I get over the difference in our levels of experience with respect to relationships? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 3, 2010 - 9 answers

Where can I get those Shallow Hal goggles?

How can I stop being shallow or focused on looks? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 2, 2010 - 46 answers

My girlfriend keeps initiating contact with her ex-boyfriend and I don't like it.

My girlfriend keeps initiating contact with her ex-boyfriend and I don't like it. I know she's doesn't want to get back with him and I know she is not going to cheat on me. One of the reasons I don't like it is because he seems so indifferent to seeing her, but she just keeps initiating contact. He has made it quite obvious that she is of little importance in his life now and he has moved on, maybe he feels like she treated him badly. But every now and then she wants to get together, why can't she just leave him alone!? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 28, 2010 - 19 answers

Constant feeling that boyfriend would be interested in other people than me

Constant feeling that boyfriend would be interested in other people than me [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 28, 2010 - 18 answers

Should I reunite with my ex-boyfriend?

(relationship filter] Please help me choose between true love and great sex. Of course, I don’t really mean that. But I do need help making a decision and whatever I decide to do, someone’s heart is going to be broken. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 25, 2010 - 47 answers

Breakups Suck

After some soul-searching, I've decided I need to break up with my live-in boyfriend. Our lease is up in August, and I'm worried about how to deal with living together when we're no longer "together" while we're looking for new apartments. I'm sure many of you have gone through this, so any anecdotes or advice would be helpful. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 22, 2010 - 28 answers

We need help planning our vacation!

Help us plan our vacation! [more inside]
posted by elquien on Mar 21, 2010 - 10 answers

Couples therapy

Seeking recommendations for an awesome couples therapist in Philadelphia. [more inside]
posted by Jon-o on Mar 21, 2010 - 2 answers

A Classic Case of Cold Feet?

We've been going out for three months and suddenly he's starting to freak out. He's got all the symptoms of the classic cold feet you see in the movies. Our relationship is still very new but good, and loving, but he's building up all this irrational stress about being in a committed relationship is cutting off his options and he's afraid he'll hurt me because he can't trust himself if he's tempted. [more inside]
posted by sweetmarie on Mar 17, 2010 - 25 answers

I married a fidgeter. Help me live with it!

Help me be less bothered by my husband's habit of worrying things and gnawing on them. [more inside]
posted by deludingmyself on Mar 17, 2010 - 29 answers

Help me move through this PLEASE

Insight, advice, perspective required for relationship dramas/attempt to become emotionally unstuck (longggggg) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 16, 2010 - 12 answers

Confused about relationship and need advice...please.

My heart says stay, my head says go - should I break up with him, yes or no? Please help... [more inside]
posted by floweredfish on Mar 16, 2010 - 59 answers

Relationship troubles

I think I ruined my relationship and am devastated. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 14, 2010 - 35 answers

Doomed?

Is this relationship doomed? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 11, 2010 - 59 answers

How do you tell someone that you can't be with them "right now?"

I like him. He likes me. We have been best friends for years, but I just got out of a serious relationship and realized I strongly care about him...but I know I am not ready to be a girlfriend again. I don't want him to wait for me, but I would like a shot at us when I am ready to date again. How can I tell him I care and am interested, but need to not date him right now? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 10, 2010 - 23 answers

Disclosure-of-confidential-information-by-a-partner-filter. Am I overreacting?

Disclosure-of-confidential-information-by-a-partner-filter. Am I overreacting? [Long] [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 10, 2010 - 33 answers

Long distance to short distance?

What are some best practices for taking a relationship from long distance to not? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 9, 2010 - 11 answers

After the relationship ended, I said I didn't want to be friend and it's been difficult. Help me re-frame this to myself.

After the relationship ended, I said I didn't want to be friend and it's been difficult. Help me re-frame this to myself. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 7, 2010 - 12 answers

Girlfriend followed me to a new city and we moved in together. It’s not going well.

Girlfriend followed me to a new city and we moved in together. It’s not going well. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 6, 2010 - 23 answers

Am I making the same relationship mistakes?

Am I making the same relationship mistakes: Getting over 'the one' and facing future relationships (sorry, long long post) [more inside]
posted by nadmer on Mar 6, 2010 - 15 answers

Does he actually like me as a person or is he only interested in sex (29 yr old girl w/no experience)?

Does he actually like me as a person or is he only interested in sex (29 yr old woman w/no experience)? [more inside]
posted by wcmf on Mar 4, 2010 - 56 answers

Why does the idea of sex make me so uneasy?

How to overcome feelings of sexual inadequacy? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 3, 2010 - 15 answers

talking about Big Plans in a relationship

Talking Big Plans in a relationship -- how do I distinguish the excitement of approaching life for two from the prudence to not jump the gun, so to speak? [more inside]
posted by elephantsvanish on Mar 2, 2010 - 7 answers

Boyfriend has fat fetish and monogamy issues - how to deal with it?

Boyfriend has fat fetish and monogamy issues. How to deal with it? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 1, 2010 - 47 answers

What can we do differently?

How do I correct an intimacy problem in a relationship? The affection is gone, and I'd like to bring it back but I feel guilty because I know he wants more alone time. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 28, 2010 - 38 answers

How-to date a sexy vain woman who wants attention from the world when trust levels are low?.

I'm 30 she's 25 and we have been dating for 1 year and living together for 3 months. She has decided she wants to do a "figure competition" (not to be confused with a fitness competition or bodybuilding competition). Given all of the trust issues in our relationship how can I come to terms with this? [more inside]
posted by stealabove on Feb 22, 2010 - 74 answers

[YANALFilter] A+B = Awkward financial situation

15K loan + breakup = who owes what? [more inside]
posted by buzzkillington on Feb 21, 2010 - 24 answers

Is it worth crossing an ocean just to say goodbye?

Relationshipfilter. My long-distance boyfriend broke up with me earlier this week. I'm supposed to be flying out to see him at the end of the month. Should I still use them, or swallow the loss and move on? [more inside]
posted by fight or flight on Feb 11, 2010 - 49 answers

Is the Past more hurtful to the Future?

I've been married for just a little while now. I still have issues with handling my husband's "past." He took my virginity early in our relationship. He was with other women before me.... I don't know how to deal with this heart-sinking feeling when i think about his life before me. Advice would be gratefully appreciated.
posted by shortbus on Feb 11, 2010 - 36 answers

How do I keep my relationship with a former friend stress-free in a new work situation?

How do I set up boundaries between myself and my friend after our friendship had a nuclear breakdown and we are bound to work together again? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 10, 2010 - 10 answers

How should I move on? Should I even move on?

What road to take during a devastating breakup? Be the supportive, hopeful, girl that will stay until the storm calms down OR move on with my life and leave the love of my life? [more inside]
posted by penguingrl on Feb 10, 2010 - 27 answers

Time Needed for Sexy Fun Time

SexyTimeFilter: My wife and I are in our mid 20s and are starting to see a decline in the amount of sex we're having. By the time bedtime rolls around, we just want to hit the sheets, not roll in them. When do you have sex to avoid this, and what other things do you do so that sex isn't the last thing on your list? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 9, 2010 - 41 answers

Arranged Marriage: My wife prefers tradition over me

I agreed to a long-distance arranged marriage to the woman who is now my wife and I think I made a mistake. How do you know when to cut your losses? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 9, 2010 - 37 answers

Why is being single suddenly the worst thing in the world?

After years of being perfectly happy when I'm single, I'm suddenly frantically desperately lonely. How do I fix this? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 9, 2010 - 16 answers

How to encourage my boyfriend to work on his drinking problem?

Boyfriend is a problem drinker - but not necessarily an alcoholic. What can I do to help him? And how do I protect myself here? [more inside]
posted by blackcatcuriouser on Feb 8, 2010 - 43 answers

Is Dancing Inherently Romantic?

Dancing: how do girls feel about it? And also a problem with my jealousy. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 8, 2010 - 21 answers

The guy I love is depressed, how do I deal with it/take care of myself?

My boyfriend's severe depression is coming back and I'm having trouble dealing with his withdrawing because of it. How do I deal with this in a way that is healthy for both of us? [more inside]
posted by sherber on Feb 6, 2010 - 16 answers

Round Two, this time with consideration

Dated my ex for a year, split up for 1.5 years. Recent developments re-awakened my feelings. How to explore this while being considerate to him and our friendship? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 5, 2010 - 10 answers

[relationship filter] How do I get my girlfriend to believe me when I say that I don't hate her family?

[relationship filter] How do I get my girlfriend to believe me when I say that I don't hate her family? [more inside]
posted by DrDreidel on Feb 5, 2010 - 26 answers

Wait, what, we're back together now?!

Getting back together with an ex-girlfriend while living long distance: is this a tenable situation? Have you successfully mended a relationship with "interesting" history under difficult circumstances? (yes, much more inside - it is a relaxnFilter question, folks) [more inside]
posted by Gaeacon on Feb 4, 2010 - 14 answers

Keeping in contact while away

I need some suggestions for some nice things to do for my girlfriend while I'm traveling for business (and more generally, how to better keep in touch). [more inside]
posted by backseatpilot on Feb 4, 2010 - 14 answers

He is pushin me away, but does not want me to leave :'(

My S.O.'s life is falling apart and has decided to break up with me, however, S.O. has requested that nothing change. (LOOONG, so sorry) [more inside]
posted by penguingrl on Feb 2, 2010 - 73 answers

Is it acceptable to judge one's behaviour/attitude through his actions?

Is it acceptable to judge one's behaviour/attitude through his actions? [more inside]
posted by red_rika on Jan 30, 2010 - 32 answers

How can I get my GF to understand a relationship problem without hurting her?

I'm having major problems with my girlfriend of 2 years. I want to work through my share of issues but I'm afraid that she won't see or do her part. Is there a way to explain these issues to her without hurting her? [more inside]
posted by cman on Jan 29, 2010 - 32 answers

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