726 posts tagged with relationship by Anonymous.
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My entire life is up in the air

I feel empty and unfulfilled in every major aspect of my life. Please help me see a way out. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 21, 2010 - 12 answers

Friends 4 now benefits later?

How to tell a friends with benefits that you dont want the benefits for now but perhaps may want them later? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 15, 2010 - 10 answers

I want goo-goo eyes, not "goo-goo-ga-ga".

When I met my boyfriend, he was dry and witty, but now that we're comfortable, he has started to cutsey-talk constantly, and I don't like it. I wonder if this babytalking softie is who he really is on the inside, and the dry jokes were just a social defense mechanism for the rest of the world. Obviously in a relationship you'd want your partner to be their true, vulnerable self; but what if you might actually like their tough, social front better? How to deal? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 14, 2010 - 40 answers

wandering into a poly mess! i'm down

A couple for me, poly for her -- how does entering into somebody else's polyamorous context 'work'? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 11, 2010 - 10 answers

De profundis clamavi ad te

Ghosts-of-relationships-past-filter: How do I forget an old girlfriend, years gone by? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 11, 2010 - 20 answers

Should I make contact and apologize after all this time?

Ruined things with a couple people in high school. Older and wiser now. I feel I need to make contact and apologize, but is that a bad idea? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 6, 2010 - 42 answers

Help me give my friend relationship advice!

My friend's in a pretty toxic relationship. Help me give him good advice [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 3, 2010 - 13 answers

how to live together in a healthy way

lovers moving in together filter: looking for some practical tips. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 3, 2010 - 30 answers

How do I reply to The Breakup Email?

I was just dumped via email. I'm actually okay with that for the most part as it seemed like an appropriate venue based on our relationship. I want to be as classy and cool about this as possible. Do I reply to the email? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 2, 2010 - 38 answers

Pressure to settle down from ... high rents?

Is it possible? Pressure to settle down from ... high rents? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 2, 2010 - 23 answers

Fiance's Mother... oy!

Is it wrong to ask my fiance to find an assisted living facility for his Mother? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 28, 2010 - 45 answers

He lives on the west coast. I live on the east coast. Do I try or do I move on?

He lives on the west coast. I live on the east coast. Its the most passionate relationship I have ever been in, except we never talk when we're apart. Do I try or do I move on? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 27, 2010 - 14 answers

Do I choose the possible future baby or the awesome present relationship?

Do I give up love now in favor of a future I may not even want? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 25, 2010 - 16 answers

Help me help myself and my alcoholic girlfriend.

Help me help myself and my alcoholic girlfriend. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 25, 2010 - 11 answers

Help me decide whether to get out of a convoluted relationship.

Help me decide whether to get out of a convoluted relationship. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 24, 2010 - 38 answers

Please don't ask me on a date.

I know a guy in person that I've been chatting with online. In person, I'm not attracted to him at all. But I am intellectually turned on by the conversations we have. (Anon because I talk to this guy on the internet.) I don't want this to go any farther. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 23, 2010 - 15 answers

Should I leave my wife?

Should I leave my wife??? I have doubted my feelings for her from day one... story below... This is lengthy, sorry... [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 20, 2010 - 54 answers

Rock and roll all night, party every day? Seriously?

I'm being romanced by a wonderful man. Problem is, he's a super-social extrovert, and I am your classic introvert who needs lots of alone time. Communication is good about this, but I am worried that I am somehow "holding him back". [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 20, 2010 - 14 answers

Moving out of state, negotiating with girlfriend.

Moving out of state, negotiating with girlfriend. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 19, 2010 - 27 answers

Once-happily married man comes to find out he's a selfish jerk!

I'm married. I left. Intellectually I think this is a mistake. I KNOW I'm being selfish and short-sighted. That doesn't change how I feel right now though. I could really use some perspective. Some advice. Let me bore you with my story..... [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 18, 2010 - 76 answers

I trust you as far as I can throw you

Help me get over my trust / love issues I feel with my current boyfriend. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 14, 2010 - 19 answers

How do you know if your relationship is right?

Am I beanplating or can a relationship with these "issues" last? How can I deal with my relationship anxiety? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 10, 2010 - 14 answers

Adapting boyfriend's hobbies, is it a good or bad thing?

Adapting boyfriend's hobbies, is it a good or bad thing? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 9, 2010 - 29 answers

Boyfriend not interested

How to talk to my partner about sexual fantasies when he’s avoiding the subject? (Kinda NSFW, I guess?) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 6, 2010 - 29 answers

Should I tell my girlfriend about my nosejob?

At what point should one disclose prior plastic surgery to a significant other even if never asked directly? Is it a breach of trust to not volunteer something material like that after a certain amount of time? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 27, 2010 - 23 answers

My first long distance relationship with my first serious girlfriend. Bad idea?

I'm young, in a serious long distance relationship with an amazing girl, but don't have much relationship experience. I don't know where to take things. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 25, 2010 - 7 answers

How to handle the breakup of a long term relationship?

How to deal with / move on from a long term relationship when your partner suddenly loses passion in said relationship? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 22, 2010 - 27 answers

Hey, that's not what you told me last time!

(you are not my lawyer filter) My lawyer has 35+ yrs of experience in family law and is also a guardian ad litem. I am involved in a family case regarding legal custody in a state whose preference is for joint legal custody (not joint physical). He told me in the past that I had a good case for sole legal custody. Now that I am a defendant in a motion for joint legal, and the circumstances of the case have not changed, he is telling me something different, or avoiding most of my questions. How do I approach this? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 18, 2010 - 10 answers

How do I stop being so doubtful and fearful about relationships?

Relationships cause me anxiety, from ones I hear about in songs to ones I see on tv to my own. How do I overcome this? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 17, 2010 - 11 answers

God doesn't punish you for watching American Idol

I want him to quit judging me and blaming me for how he feels about his life. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 13, 2010 - 17 answers

Good writings about the psychological aspects of a D/s relationship

Can you recommend some good writings about the psychological aspects of a D/s relationship, the process of getting to know one another and submission. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 11, 2010 - 7 answers

Help me stop thinking about their exes?

How do I get over the difference in our levels of experience with respect to relationships? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 3, 2010 - 9 answers

Where can I get those Shallow Hal goggles?

How can I stop being shallow or focused on looks? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 2, 2010 - 46 answers

My girlfriend keeps initiating contact with her ex-boyfriend and I don't like it.

My girlfriend keeps initiating contact with her ex-boyfriend and I don't like it. I know she's doesn't want to get back with him and I know she is not going to cheat on me. One of the reasons I don't like it is because he seems so indifferent to seeing her, but she just keeps initiating contact. He has made it quite obvious that she is of little importance in his life now and he has moved on, maybe he feels like she treated him badly. But every now and then she wants to get together, why can't she just leave him alone!? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 28, 2010 - 19 answers

Constant feeling that boyfriend would be interested in other people than me

Constant feeling that boyfriend would be interested in other people than me [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 28, 2010 - 18 answers

Should I reunite with my ex-boyfriend?

(relationship filter] Please help me choose between true love and great sex. Of course, I don’t really mean that. But I do need help making a decision and whatever I decide to do, someone’s heart is going to be broken. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 25, 2010 - 47 answers

Breakups Suck

After some soul-searching, I've decided I need to break up with my live-in boyfriend. Our lease is up in August, and I'm worried about how to deal with living together when we're no longer "together" while we're looking for new apartments. I'm sure many of you have gone through this, so any anecdotes or advice would be helpful. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 22, 2010 - 28 answers

Help me move through this PLEASE

Insight, advice, perspective required for relationship dramas/attempt to become emotionally unstuck (longggggg) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 16, 2010 - 12 answers

Relationship troubles

I think I ruined my relationship and am devastated. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 14, 2010 - 35 answers

Doomed?

Is this relationship doomed? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 11, 2010 - 59 answers

How do you tell someone that you can't be with them "right now?"

I like him. He likes me. We have been best friends for years, but I just got out of a serious relationship and realized I strongly care about him...but I know I am not ready to be a girlfriend again. I don't want him to wait for me, but I would like a shot at us when I am ready to date again. How can I tell him I care and am interested, but need to not date him right now? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 10, 2010 - 23 answers

Disclosure-of-confidential-information-by-a-partner-filter. Am I overreacting?

Disclosure-of-confidential-information-by-a-partner-filter. Am I overreacting? [Long] [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 10, 2010 - 33 answers

Long distance to short distance?

What are some best practices for taking a relationship from long distance to not? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 9, 2010 - 11 answers

After the relationship ended, I said I didn't want to be friend and it's been difficult. Help me re-frame this to myself.

After the relationship ended, I said I didn't want to be friend and it's been difficult. Help me re-frame this to myself. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 7, 2010 - 12 answers

Girlfriend followed me to a new city and we moved in together. It’s not going well.

Girlfriend followed me to a new city and we moved in together. It’s not going well. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 6, 2010 - 23 answers

Why does the idea of sex make me so uneasy?

How to overcome feelings of sexual inadequacy? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 3, 2010 - 15 answers

Boyfriend has fat fetish and monogamy issues - how to deal with it?

Boyfriend has fat fetish and monogamy issues. How to deal with it? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 1, 2010 - 47 answers

What can we do differently?

How do I correct an intimacy problem in a relationship? The affection is gone, and I'd like to bring it back but I feel guilty because I know he wants more alone time. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 28, 2010 - 38 answers

How do I keep my relationship with a former friend stress-free in a new work situation?

How do I set up boundaries between myself and my friend after our friendship had a nuclear breakdown and we are bound to work together again? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 10, 2010 - 10 answers

Time Needed for Sexy Fun Time

SexyTimeFilter: My wife and I are in our mid 20s and are starting to see a decline in the amount of sex we're having. By the time bedtime rolls around, we just want to hit the sheets, not roll in them. When do you have sex to avoid this, and what other things do you do so that sex isn't the last thing on your list? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 9, 2010 - 41 answers

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