So, I just started dating someone exclusively on Sept. 1st. I leave on the 16th to visit Germany for a month. Aside from emailing back and forth, give me some ideas that will help both before and during my extended time away from my boyfriend that will help the relationship rather than hurt it. [more inside]
posted on Sep 8, 2008 - 10 answers

Relationship Filter: My boyfriend needs "space". Now what? [more inside]
posted on Aug 31, 2008 - 48 answers

As a present for my boyfriend's birthday, I'm planning to empty out a drawer at my house and fill it with stuff he can use when spending the night at my place. What should I buy to put in the drawer? [more inside]
posted on Mar 10, 2008 - 33 answers

Ex-Filter: How do I rebuff an old flame's friendship with being rude? (Longish) Backstory within... [more inside]
posted on Feb 4, 2008 - 20 answers

My friend's ex-boyfriend is a manipulative, lying scumbag. Should I warn his new girlfriend what she's getting into? [more inside]
posted on Jan 2, 2008 - 66 answers

What's the best way to find a boyfriend (gay) / Cuddle buddy in New York?
posted on Jul 28, 2007 - 9 answers

I'm never 'in the mood' at the same time as my boyfriend and it's taken a serious toll on our intimate relationship. What can I/we do to get me in the mood? To help our sex life? [more inside]
posted on Jun 5, 2007 - 19 answers

Relationship Filter: How do I stop myself from tallying stuff up then try to make myself dismiss it because I don't want to make our relationship into a scorecard but not being sucessful and end up feeling confused and emotional? And how do I talk about it with my boyfriend? [more inside]
posted on Apr 11, 2007 - 25 answers

How to maintain a relationship where we've had lots of time together when I start as an associate at a law firm in NYC, and will have very little time? [more inside]
posted on Jan 21, 2007 - 3 answers

Do my boyfriend and I have a chance at long-term happiness if we lack a hot "spark" when it comes to our sexual attraction for each other? [more inside]
posted on Apr 20, 2006 - 63 answers

Well, it seems like the relationship is over, it's over, it's oooohver. What, if anything, can I do to distract, deflect, defer, deal with the pain? How do you say good-bye? [more inside]
posted on Sep 26, 2005 - 21 answers

How do you know your relationship is worth fighting for? Or, how do you know when to call it quits? [more inside]
posted on May 11, 2005 - 25 answers