Long-distance Relationship Filter: There is a good chance my boyfriend may be moving to a town an hour an a half away from me (for a job). Need advice for how to prepare for a long distance relationship, as well as tips for how to make being far from him most of the time manageable. [more inside]
posted on Jul 7, 2008 - 20 answers

ArrangedMarriage Filter: I'm from a culture that encourages arranged marriage and have been thinking about asking my parents to start looking. [more inside]
posted on Jul 4, 2008 - 40 answers

Suggestions for books etc for someone living with a romantic partner who has severe depression and ADD? [more inside]
posted on Jul 3, 2008 - 4 answers

I want to have a normal sibling relationship with my youngest sister. How can I begin to do this? [more inside]
posted on Jun 29, 2008 - 30 answers

Everyone at work makes fun of me. How can I deal with it? [more inside]
posted on Jun 27, 2008 - 46 answers

My friend is willing to become a friend with benefits. Should I do it? [more inside]
posted on Jun 25, 2008 - 22 answers

GirlfriendFilter: I'm here, she's there. She's out having fun and I'm not. How do I stop feeling jealous? [more inside]
posted on Jun 25, 2008 - 19 answers

Is my relationship going nowhere? And how might I go about asking him what his intentions are without freaking him out? [more inside]
posted on Jun 23, 2008 - 30 answers

How do you let go of love? [more inside]
posted on Jun 23, 2008 - 32 answers

Brokenrelationshipfilter? Two weeks ago I found out that my girlfriend of a year had been seeing an acquaintance of my best friend for the past two months. They're over, and she told me, asking that we stay together. I'm not sure now if we're going to or not, but we agreed to six months more to see if we can make it work. I'm pissed, frankly, and she's suffering from horrible post-breakup depression; crying, insomnia, apathy, the works. I do, I believe, love her, but I'm having trouble seeing how we'll get through all the smoke in the air. I'm well aware that I'm the only one who can make this decision, but rationality isn't my strong point right now, and I could use some outside perspective. [more inside]
posted on Jun 22, 2008 - 61 answers

Is my boyfriend cheating on me or am I being paranoid? [more inside]
posted on Jun 21, 2008 - 46 answers

Fiancee best friend is bisexual. I have issues dealing with it. [more inside]
posted on Jun 21, 2008 - 27 answers

How do I help my man get some of his confidence back after a career change that everyone's treating like a demotion? It's been two years and I feel like I'm forgetting the caring and capable man I fell in love with. [more inside]
posted on Jun 21, 2008 - 20 answers

She might be leaving for good in one month, or not leaving at all. We find out in one month. How do I not ruin the next month for myself and her by being miserable about it? [more inside]
posted on Jun 20, 2008 - 10 answers

RelationshipFilter: Help me find some good time activities to do at home with a prospective girl friend. [more inside]
posted on Jun 20, 2008 - 39 answers

I know a great deal about how romantic relationships develop with insecure people, but very little about what happens when the participants are already comfortable in their own shoes. [more inside]
posted on Jun 18, 2008 - 13 answers

How to nicely but firmly tell someone I am completely and totally uninterested romantically and at this point, pretty averse to friendship, too? [more inside]
posted on Jun 16, 2008 - 27 answers

I'm in a long-term relationship with an girl, and things are both great and awful. She's seriously dependent, I need my alone time. She wants a farm house in the middle of nowhere, I want to be close to the city. I'm the always-connected gadget-fiend type, she thinks tech is dumb. We could probably compromise on these, but we have some relationship scars and problems in the bedroom. But, we're on the same page on most moral issues, have a ton in common, and she's beautiful. Things have been rough for a while, and I'm starting to feel like our problems and differences make this relationship detrimental to both of us. I don't want to throw away The One, though. Is it time to fold? [more inside]
posted on Jun 14, 2008 - 34 answers

Not only have I never had an official relationship, I've also never had an official breakup. Guys seem to prefer falling off the face of the earth than telling me "I don't like you." Why is that? [more inside]
posted on Jun 13, 2008 - 26 answers

Horrible breakup. Looking for fun pop music / musik / musique in other languages to stimulate my ears without having to know what's being said. [more inside]
posted on Jun 7, 2008 - 43 answers

Relationship Filter: Should I get back with my girlfriend? We broke up last night : ( [more inside]
posted on Jun 7, 2008 - 21 answers

Please help me find a way to explain to my SO that while I absolutely adore him, it'll be hard for me to drop everything and leave to be with him in another country in a year's time. We've discussed this previously and I agreed, but I wasn't anticipating the sort of exciting workload I now have, and would loathe to leave behind. I'm a ball of confusion and anxiety. [more inside]
posted on Jun 7, 2008 - 18 answers

So, my girlfriend and I have been in a long-term (almost 4 years) relationship with one another but, unfortunately, about a year and a half ago our sex life ground to a halt. [more inside]
posted on Jun 5, 2008 - 66 answers

Don't be desperate. Okay, how? [more inside]
posted on Jun 4, 2008 - 22 answers

I'm in a relationship with a wonderful person who has Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. Does anyone have any advice on how to support him and myself? [more inside]
posted on Jun 1, 2008 - 8 answers

Is it necessary to have a crush? [more inside]
posted on May 19, 2008 - 29 answers

I'm 29, male, and with no significant relationship experience. I've been dating the same girl for a few months now and I'm still not sure, although she seems to be. How do I tell whether a relationship is worth sticking with? [more inside]
posted on May 16, 2008 - 24 answers

I'm stuck in a relationship I shouldn't be in and don't know how I can end it. [more inside]
posted on May 16, 2008 - 25 answers

For couples with kids, where both of you work: how do you do it? [more inside]
posted on May 10, 2008 - 60 answers

I'm living overseas and am interested in dating a guy that I've met here. The problem is that he lives in a community where the men have a reputation for loving and leaving foreign women - how do I know if he's different from the rest? [more inside]
posted on May 9, 2008 - 17 answers

Relationship-Filter Should I tell her I am still in love with her? I am currently a 24 year old male who broke up with his girlfriend of 2 and half years almost three months ago (we broke up on February 16th to be exact). To make a story short, I realize that i want her and still love her and would like to work things out with her but i am not sure whether i should tell her for a variety of reasons....here are the details [more inside]
posted on May 8, 2008 - 25 answers

What kind of conflict resolution do you use in your relationship? There are it seems to me at least two types: 1. rules that you agree on as a couple to use during a conflict so as to address the conflict but also resolve it constructively 2. rules/approaches that you use unilaterally to approach a conflict [more inside]
posted on May 8, 2008 - 24 answers

How can I learn to talk through my emotions when I'm very upset instead of shutting down? [more inside]
posted on May 7, 2008 - 25 answers

Relationship filter: My best friend, who was my first boyfriend, is dating a woman who doesn't like me, and the antipathy is mutual. From weekly phone calls, we now talk less than once a month. Should I keep pushing to keep the friendship, or stop trying to stay friends? [more inside]
posted on May 6, 2008 - 29 answers

Single mom/Single parent: How does one go about building a lasting relationship with a single mother, to show her that you will not only be there for her, but also for her son? (She's 22, and he's under five I'm assuming.) [more inside]
posted on May 5, 2008 - 10 answers

I get irrationally and hypocritically upset at my partner. Should I tell him why I'm upset, even though it's crazy? How do I stop getting upset in the first place? [more inside]
posted on May 5, 2008 - 21 answers

The type of guy I like to spend time with isn't the type I like to have sex with. What now? Probably NSFW! [more inside]
posted on May 5, 2008 - 31 answers

Relationship filter... [more inside]
posted on May 2, 2008 - 19 answers

I have a great girlfriend. She's beautiful, intelligent, funny, thoughtful, open-minded and communicative. Her future is bright and I am happy to be with her even in our worst moments. How is it, then, that I spend so much of our time together bringing her down over small things she says or arguing over minor issues? [more inside]
posted on May 1, 2008 - 40 answers

Seems like I cannot figure out what to do with the 24 hours I'm given. Help me make use of every minute I have by doing positive and fun things, and at the same time, move on from my failed relationship. [more inside]
posted on Apr 30, 2008 - 19 answers

Is it worth telling my best friend, who just got engaged, that I'm secretly in love with her? [more inside]
posted on Apr 17, 2008 - 116 answers

Lovelifefilter: I have a chance to reconcile with my ex, how can I not blow it? [more inside]
posted on Apr 17, 2008 - 33 answers

Do I stay or do I go? A former flame wants to be a friend, and I'm honestly at wit's end about what to do. [long explanation] [more inside]
posted on Apr 13, 2008 - 26 answers

What is my relationship lacking that I feel the urge to stray every now and then? I've been in a relationship with a 20 year old girl for 3 years now. I'm 23. We started dating when she was 17. [more inside]
posted on Apr 12, 2008 - 12 answers

Help me understand what it is like to work at home so I can be a better girlfriend and roommate. [more inside]
posted on Apr 10, 2008 - 26 answers

Moving on from a first love - at 26 years old. [more inside]
posted on Apr 10, 2008 - 11 answers

How does it sound to you when someone you are in a relationship tells you "Hate Me" when they are breaking up with you?
posted on Apr 3, 2008 - 28 answers

Does reading "How to win friends and influence people" will help me win friends and influence people?
posted on Apr 1, 2008 - 18 answers

RelationshipFilter - A friend gave me one of those "How to Stop Your Breakup" books - do these techniques really work? [more inside]
posted on Mar 30, 2008 - 33 answers

What can I expect in a Younger/Older relationship? [more inside]
posted on Mar 25, 2008 - 13 answers