Asking for my Mom: how does a non-smoker who has a severe allergic reaction to cigarette smoke mitigate the effects at a social event when they are outnumbered 6:2?
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posted by katemcd
on Jun 16, 2012 -
29 answers
Flatmate filter: I'm planning on having a calm discussion with one of my flatmates this weekend about some issues I know she has about the house, but that haven't been discussed in the open. I would like tips on remaining calm and collected in the moment.
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posted by mooza
on Jun 3, 2012 -
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What methods have worked for you in terms of keeping a rational mind when you feel yourself becoming (rationally or irrationally) angry?
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posted by oink
on May 31, 2012 -
16 answers
I was eligible for a sizable bonus on February 1, 2012, the one year anniversary date of my start date. The offer letter said I'd get an email listing the criteria on which the bonus would be based by the end of February 2011. I never got the email. Requests for the criteria went unanswered. So have emails and phone calls since November.
Is this something I could present to a Labor Relations panel for resolution? I have tons of qualitative and quantitative data on the work I've performed, essentially in a vacuum.
Any thoughts would be much appreciated. Thanks.
posted by holdenjordahl
on May 5, 2012 -
13 answers
How are the relationships between the American military personnel and the local population in Germany?
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posted by Carius
on Jan 25, 2011 -
17 answers
What do I do about an attention-hungry relative? I am worried about how she will act at an upcoming funeral!
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posted by hellameangirl
on Aug 19, 2010 -
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A work colleague of mine lost her mother to cancer to one year ago tomorrow. I wanted to give her a card just letting her know that I am thinking of her and am aware that it must be a difficult day for her. Is it appropriate for me to do this? She has not been talking about the fact that the anniversary is tomorrow, I just happen to remember the date. If it is a good thing to do, what should I say on the card? Thanks for your help
posted by elis
on Nov 12, 2009 -
24 answers
When an embassy acts as a proxy, representing the interests of a third country, what kind of compensation is made to them?
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posted by cmonkey
on Apr 24, 2009 -
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Blurring the Work Life/Private Life Filter - The guy who is my supervisor invited me to come hang out with him & some of his buddies this weekend. Per an email from him, it will be Gaming/Sports Watching/General hanging out, along with drinking and *ahem* smoking.
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posted by ekstasis23
on Nov 5, 2008 -
12 answers
How do my co-workers and I deal with the owner of the start up company we work for when he doesn't want to change his ways?
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posted by jrdnbaade
on Mar 14, 2007 -
10 answers