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Is this a red flag in my 3 month old relationship?

I have been dating this girl for three months now. I think she is a sweet classy girl. The only problem I have with her is this: During past three months there were three occasions in which she wanted to go to a family event. At first she said that she was going to a family party. Then later she said that she made a mistake and that was actually a big party where half the city were invited. I texted her this morning asking her to hang out tonight and she said fine. Then this afternoon she said she rather hang out tomorrow and pack her things up for a trip she is going to go in 9 days. She just called me a few minutes ago telling me that she is invited to an event on FB which she just realized because her FB did not send her any notifications and she is thinking of going or not going. She always says she is not sure if she would go but ends up going any ways. [more inside]
posted by mbn1455 on May 22, 2014 - 13 answers

Should I call my girl friend or should I wait for her to call back?

Should I call my girl friend or should I wait for her to call back? [more inside]
posted by mbn1455 on Apr 21, 2014 - 24 answers

Is continuing to sleep with an ex ever not a bad idea?

TL;DR: The guy I'm dating non-exclusively is still sleeping with his ex. I can't decide if this is a red flag or not. For the record, I have been the one insisting we keep things open. [more inside]
posted by krakenattack on Feb 28, 2013 - 36 answers

How do you spot Dating Warning Phrases?

Can you help me to better distinguish cheery lovebird songs vs. the squawks of ailing canaries in my dating coal mine? [more inside]
posted by argonauta on Jan 30, 2013 - 89 answers

Did giving my SO the benefit of the doubt made me blind to the red flags

Do you give your SO the benefit of the doubt or do you trust your gut feelings? [more inside]
posted by feastorfamine on Nov 15, 2012 - 30 answers

Where's the Gift of Fear for the workplace?

What did you first notice about your supervisor, coworkers, subordinates, or office environment when you were about to take a job that turned out to be a negative experience? [more inside]
posted by ziggly on Oct 25, 2012 - 69 answers

Getting hit on, red flags, and Europe

How can I tell when someone is hitting on me, and what red flags can I look for? In general and also specifically for Europe. [more inside]
posted by hotchocolate on Jun 7, 2012 - 13 answers

How to nicely DTMFA?

How do I gently and nicely dump him? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 31, 2011 - 52 answers

When my girlfriend gets stressed out, she dumps me.

When my girlfriend gets stressed out, she dumps me. Should I put up with this? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 18, 2011 - 47 answers

How to avoid hiring manipulative people

As part of my job, I interview lots of engineering candidates (but the field doesn't really matter). One of my concerns is hiring manipulative personalities (blaming, perpetual victim, passive/aggressive, covert-aggressive, untreated personality disorders, etc). What are the best things to ask to spot trouble ahead of time? [more inside]
posted by ssqq on Oct 21, 2010 - 38 answers

Give me the benefit of your hindsight!

If you have ever been involved with someone who turned out to be dangerous, what were the things you realize in hindsight were warning signs? [more inside]
posted by tel3path on Sep 18, 2010 - 65 answers

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