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TL;DR: The guy I'm dating non-exclusively is still sleeping with his ex. I can't decide if this is a red flag or not. For the record, I have been the one insisting we keep things open. [more inside]
posted by krakenattack on Feb 28, 2013 - 36 answers

Can you help me to better distinguish cheery lovebird songs vs. the squawks of ailing canaries in my dating coal mine? [more inside]
posted by argonauta on Jan 30, 2013 - 89 answers

Do you give your SO the benefit of the doubt or do you trust your gut feelings? [more inside]
posted by feastorfamine on Nov 15, 2012 - 30 answers

How can I tell when someone is hitting on me, and what red flags can I look for? In general and also specifically for Europe. [more inside]
posted by hotchocolate on Jun 7, 2012 - 13 answers

How do I gently and nicely dump him? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 31, 2011 - 52 answers

When my girlfriend gets stressed out, she dumps me. Should I put up with this? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 18, 2011 - 47 answers

As part of my job, I interview lots of engineering candidates (but the field doesn't really matter). One of my concerns is hiring manipulative personalities (blaming, perpetual victim, passive/aggressive, covert-aggressive, untreated personality disorders, etc). What are the best things to ask to spot trouble ahead of time? [more inside]
posted by ssqq on Oct 21, 2010 - 38 answers

If you have ever been involved with someone who turned out to be dangerous, what were the things you realize in hindsight were warning signs? [more inside]
posted by tel3path on Sep 18, 2010 - 65 answers