My first lesbian experience quickly became assault. What do I do to take care of myself now? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 3, 2009 - 18 answers

A medical issue has caused memories of rape to resurface and ruin my sex life. I have no money for therapy. Do I have any options other than being a mess and making both me and boyfriend totally miserable? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 11, 2009 - 22 answers

I was raped in a foreign country. Going home is not an option. What can I do to cope? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 9, 2009 - 43 answers

I need recommendations for a group for survivors of violent crime and or sexual assault. I am in the Glendale/Burbank area. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 22, 2009 - 2 answers

How can I come during sex with my boyfriend? I find it impossible to reach orgasm unless I'm doing it myself, with extreme, violent fantasies. I've tried fantasizing about the same stuff during sex, but it's hard to reconcile with the reality of my gentle, loving boyfriend, even if we have rough sex or (to a degree) act out the fantasy. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 26, 2009 - 21 answers

It seems like the only thing that can get me off is extremely unpleasant written erotica (details inside, to keep the front page clean). Do I have a problem? Should I see a therapist? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 30, 2009 - 47 answers

I'm completely confused about why this is bothering me so much. Can you help me figure it out? My wonderful adorable boyfriend of several years has recently begun a D&D campaign with his friends, and their typically evil characters go around murdering, stealing, and raping. Why oh why do I have no problems with the first two in games, but become incredibly frustrated when I hear about that third? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 10, 2008 - 103 answers

How to help a parent and her adult children cope with an assault that happened 40 years ago? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 17, 2008 - 8 answers

How to deal with a sensitive personal situation with an ex? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 9, 2008 - 13 answers

TraumaFilter: what worked for you in overcoming PTSD, anxiety, depression? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 23, 2008 - 23 answers

Was I raped? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 30, 2008 - 65 answers

What can I do to help a friend who was a victim of sexual assault? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 30, 2008 - 15 answers

I was raped earlier this year while doing long-term volunteer work in a foreign country... Do I tell the organization? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 24, 2007 - 39 answers

My friend has been accused of rape, which I think is absurd. Need legal advice for him (especially from anyone familiar with the U.S. military court system) and emotional advice for me. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 25, 2007 - 30 answers

What can I expect if I report a rape to the police? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 3, 2006 - 25 answers

My on-again-off-again girlfriend of ~oneyear confided in me recently that she was raped when she was eleven by a boy approximately 4-5 years her senior. My question has two parts, one concerning my responsibility toward her and the situation I have just learned about, and one concerning my newfound apprehension with regard to her sexual preferences. [much] [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 9, 2006 - 26 answers