I don't like labeling my sexuality, but other people seem to want me to do so. How do I deflect them? [more inside]
posted on Aug 8, 2008 - 49 answers

I fell in love with my best friend, who is a guy. I’m a young bisexual guy. Apparently, he is not. Did the “wrong thing” and told him about how I felt, and was rejected, but things seemed okay afterward. However, I’m still hurting, I’m feeling delusional about it, and sometimes I think that he inadvertently isn’t helping… how do I live with my best friend now? Help me, Metafilter! [more inside]
posted on Jul 7, 2008 - 25 answers

I'm gay, and I'm afraid that I only like straight guys. [more inside]
posted on Dec 8, 2007 - 24 answers

Please help me remember the name of a 1970's Mexican film about homosexual kidnappers. [more inside]
posted on Jul 19, 2007 - 8 answers

What is the best (if any) way to deal with anti-gay Christian protesters on my campus? [more inside]
posted on Apr 2, 2007 - 62 answers

Where's a nice place for two queer women to hang out, eat, or dance in San Antonio this weekend? We're staying at a hotel about half an hour west of downtown, and we'll have a car. [more inside]
posted on Mar 22, 2007 - 10 answers

Mid twenties, reasonable income, moving to London. Where should I live and what should I know? [more inside]
posted on Feb 23, 2007 - 20 answers

Can't remember title of an autobiographical book about a woman who lived as a man for a period of time. [more inside]
posted on Oct 17, 2006 - 5 answers

I am looking for a good science-fiction website or blog with reliable reviews, preferably covering gay/queer issues.
posted on Sep 25, 2006 - 3 answers

I've never dated a girl before. Where do I start? Oh, and I am one, too... [more inside]
posted on May 31, 2006 - 24 answers

Best gay bar in the Twin Cities metro area, Minnesota? [more inside]
posted on Apr 17, 2006 - 7 answers

I've been happily (well, to various degrees) living my life as a lesbian (mostly of the soft-butch/butch) variety for many years. I think I might be genderqueer. Now what? [more inside]
posted on Mar 12, 2006 - 15 answers