My boyfriend and I haven't been together for a very long time, but it has already started to feel very serious and I see the potential for a longterm future together. We are both extremely close with our families and I know that family life and children are a huge priority for both of us. We're on the same page there. However... By extraordinary coincidence we both suffer from the same rare, semi-inheritable disease.
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posted by anonymous
on May 10, 2013 -
25 answers
My wife is pregnant with our first child, she is 22 weeks along. She is slim but has quite large legs, which have always had some prominent veins on her calf. At our first meeting with the midwife she told us to get support tights, and keep an eye on it.
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posted by Cannon Fodder
on May 10, 2013 -
11 answers
I'm 7-and-something weeks pregnant with my first (very much wanted) pregnancy, and the morning sickness is just brutal. Are there any tricks you know for dealing with it when none of the usual ones seem to work? And how bad counts as 'bad' for the purposes of getting medical help?
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posted by anonymous
on May 6, 2013 -
31 answers
I'm just about 8 weeks pregnant (very much on purpose) for the first time. Physically, I feel almost normal - symptoms have been extremely mild and fleeting. The combination of worry, gratitude, disbelief and excitement is overwhelming. How did you navigate this uncertain yet sweet time?
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posted by anonymous
on Apr 22, 2013 -
25 answers
I have finally hit the point where I'm unable to wear the shoes that have carried me through the first two thirds of this pregnancy. I'm looking for shoe suggestions that meet the following criteria:
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posted by House of Leaves of Grass
on Mar 23, 2013 -
18 answers
That's pretty much the situation. Depending on how the pregnancy date is calculated, my wife is 6-8 weeks pregnant. Otherwise, the midwife said the amniotic sac and embryo looked OK. We are going out of town for two weeks, so can't get a follow-up until then. Should be be worried? What should we expect?
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posted by soulbarn
on Mar 4, 2013 -
24 answers
I'm 38. My partner is 53 with a 20 year old vasectomy. I spent ten of my most fertile years in a lesbian relationship and I feel like I've missed my chances to conceive. What are my options? How much is it likely to cost? And what can I expect my insurance to cover?
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posted by dchrssyr
on Feb 17, 2013 -
11 answers
Trying to get preggos AND also trying to be patient. But, would like to prepare just in case. When should I go in to a doctor to discuss fertility, and who/what kind of a doc should I discuss this with? (OB/GYN? A reproductive specialist?)
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posted by Rocket26
on Feb 11, 2013 -
21 answers
My husband and I think we may start trying for our first child within the next year. I'm looking for books and other resources to help inform myself about the biological and health side of the equation, as well as psychological, relationship, and general life consequences of having a baby.
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posted by wansac
on Feb 10, 2013 -
10 answers
Healthy 26-year-old woman in DC with private health insurance, planning to start trying to get pregnant at the end of the year.
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posted by crunchysalty
on Feb 8, 2013 -
16 answers
My wife and I are planning to start trying to conceive in the next few months, and being academic bookish types, would like some books on the whole process. Specifically, we're interested in fertility issues (we're in our mid-30s) and generally the logistics of the whole process - prenatal nutrition, choosing a doctor and a hospital, preparing for the kid, and so on. My personal preference is for books that are more detailed (citations to back things up are great) rather than touchy-feely.
posted by pombe
on Jan 23, 2013 -
11 answers
I am currently 21 weeks pregnant and my wife is not getting the attention, congratulations or support I get from others. How can I help others see her as a parent now and when the baby comes?
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posted by livlab
on Jan 22, 2013 -
20 answers
My bestest good friend of 20 years is pregnant! YAY! I'd like to get her something simple but awesome to commemorate this. What should I send?
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posted by youandiandaflame
on Jan 19, 2013 -
14 answers
We're pregnant! But we're on the fence about finding out the baby's sex. Parents: what did you decide? Did you regret your decision or love it?
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posted by anonymous
on Jan 3, 2013 -
92 answers
If I can only see the fleas on one cat, what is my best anti-flea protocol? Complications: apartment building full of pets, possible interaction with pregnant lady.
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posted by feets
on Dec 29, 2012 -
15 answers
This fall, when I was unemployed and job hunting, I discovered I was pregnant, kind of like this person: http://ask.metafilter.com/207069/Should-I-reveal-my-pregnancy-in-job-interviews. I did not mention this during interviews, but when I got an offer, I brought it up with the hiring manager as part of my negotiation. I was very pleased that it did not seem like a liability, and he promised I'd be made eligible for their paid maternity leave even though I would have only been there about six months. He also said he'd leave it up to me to tell my boss and team with at least 4 months advance notice.
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posted by anonymous
on Dec 27, 2012 -
21 answers
I'm currently 22 weeks pregnant and am wanting to start some kind of muscle building exercise to help prepare me for (a hopefully unmedicated) childbirth. I have some health problems which place limitations on the types of exercise I can do.
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posted by pennypiper
on Dec 26, 2012 -
16 answers
Can someone help explain my boyfriend to me? Special snowflake, yadda yadda, you are not my (or his!) therapist, etc.
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posted by domo
on Dec 13, 2012 -
55 answers
Revolting Pregnancy Stuff Filter: Stomach acid has ripped my throat to shreds and I need some easy home remedies to soothe the burn.
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posted by Jilder
on Dec 7, 2012 -
22 answers
I'm pregnant, and I'm getting married. Any advice for finding a beautiful, non-cutesy maternity wedding dress, or super luxe evening gown?
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posted by LolaCola
on Nov 29, 2012 -
13 answers
My wife and I are trying to get pregnant. We've resorted to IVF (in vitro fertilization). But meanwhile, my wife is going to pieces, "terrified" that she might never have a natural child. Anyone been through this? Any advice?
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posted by Anonymousness
on Nov 28, 2012 -
28 answers
How did you accept the fact that giving birth would totally change everything you know?
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posted by sockorama
on Nov 14, 2012 -
54 answers
I am interested in getting a referral to a physical therapist after pregnancy--I have some questions about how to go about it.
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posted by Ideal Impulse
on Nov 13, 2012 -
10 answers
I have gestational diabetes, am on insulin, and cannot seem to get a grip on my fasting sugars. Please help.
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posted by anonymous
on Nov 4, 2012 -
8 answers
i am five months pregnant, in NYC and just got fired from my job... now what?
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posted by sabh
on Oct 23, 2012 -
17 answers
Diagnosed 3 months ago with incurable (but treatable) lymphoma. Deciding on children - Has anyone decided to have kids post cancer diagnosis?
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posted by inquisitrix
on Oct 15, 2012 -
21 answers
A friend of mine just found out that his ex-girlfriend is several weeks pregnant, very likely with his child. It's a very messy situation. He is panicked and doesn't know what to do. He needs guidance, but none of his friends are equipped to provide it to him. Who can he turn to?
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posted by anonymous
on Oct 12, 2012 -
22 answers
YANMD, but does my doctor need to know about a previous vaginal birth in order to insert an IUD?
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posted by anonymous
on Oct 1, 2012 -
26 answers
AdviceFilter: What life experiences (or fun things) should my partner and I make time for, before having a baby?
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posted by amoeba
on Sep 19, 2012 -
19 answers
My sister-in-law is somewhere in NSW, Australia, pregnant, and a US citizen ... are we supposed to be freaking out? Links to pages of how a US citizen gets healthcare in AUS appreciated.
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posted by Risingfenix
on Sep 15, 2012 -
27 answers
I'm about two weeks away from the birth of my first child. I am emphatic about breastfeeding, but more importantly pumping breast milk for when I have to go back to work. Help me figure out the Affordable Health Care Act (crassly called Obamacare) and how I can get my hands on the necessary supplies and support that I'll need very, very soon.
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posted by ThaBombShelterSmith
on Sep 10, 2012 -
20 answers
24 weeks pregnant, facing bedrest and woefully underprepared for the birth of this surprise baby. FMLA, bedrest and c-section questions inside.
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posted by anonymous
on Sep 9, 2012 -
24 answers
How do I help a very pregnant friend whose support network is falling apart before my eyes?
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posted by Vervain
on Aug 21, 2012 -
12 answers
