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How do you get out of being upset/reconnecting after a fight

I find myself spiraling down in negative emotions occasionally and want to learn about actual skills to pull myself out before the fight gets meta and out of hand. [more inside]
posted by monologish on Jul 17, 2014 - 13 answers

Does anybody ELSE manufacture an RFID tag with this spec?

I am looking for a very small, passive UHF RFID tag that works when affixed to containers of liquids. I have spent a long time carefully researching my requirements and I am certain that: - it has to be UHF, not HF and not NFC. - it has to be passive. - it has to be small (the other ones I've found are 14-20cm long which is completely unfit for my purpose). - it HAS to be functional when affixed to containers of liquids. I found a tag with the perfect spec: the Avery Dennison AD-110m5. Now all I have to do is get them to sell it to me. THIS IS THE HARD PART. [more inside]
posted by tel3path on Mar 4, 2014 - 5 answers

How to deal with passive aggressive females?

There is a girl in my circle who has taken to completely ignoring me and making snide remarks in front of me. Let's call her J. For instance, I sat across J during dinner when our group was at a restaurant. J would talk to 1) the people next to her and 2) the people sitting next to me. She never once said so much as a word to me, and when I joined in a conversation J and other people are having, J quickly looks bored and turns away. You'd think from her behavior, we're all in middle school. Nope, we are 21 years old and in college. This is also our church group (ha, ironic). I've pretty much ignored J's antics for the past 5 months, but since she hangs out with us a lot, it's becoming difficult to ignore. I'm wondering when she'll let the phase subside, and if I should even do anything? [more inside]
posted by echoplasm on Jan 8, 2014 - 48 answers

Who pays for the maintenance of financial indexes?

In index mutual funds, many of the decisions on portfolio construction are effectively outsourced to the makers of financial indexes, thereby lowing costs for the fundholders. Doesn't this just push the costs to the publishers of these indexes? Someone has to decide which securities stay in and which ones go out. How do they get paid for this work when anyone can look up the constituents of the S&P 500 and construct a fund that just happens to share the same stocks without using the S&P name? Can Standard and Poor's somehow enforce licensing fees on institutions that do this? Do things work differently for the creators of more specialized indexes?
posted by grouse on Apr 29, 2013 - 10 answers

Opposites have attracted. Now what?

How do I reconcile a basic difference between my live-in-partner and myself about recreation? One enjoys something active now and again, the other always wants something passive. What is a happy compromise? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 4, 2013 - 32 answers

Is my RL a dead horse or does he deserve this chance?

Another question about my LTR: how much should I try to give another chance to my potentially EUM partner? [more inside]
posted by hungry hippo on Dec 29, 2012 - 35 answers

Can My Passive Aggressive Partner Change Enough For Me?

Can my passive aggressive partner change? Breaking up is hard to do. [more inside]
posted by KoiPond on Dec 19, 2012 - 55 answers

Help me get over myself

How do I get over myself and stop holding others to my behavior standards and being passive-resentful when they don't meet them? [more inside]
posted by ichomp on Jul 22, 2012 - 14 answers

Am I too passive under stress? How to fix?

Should I be someone who takes more action when I'm under stress? If so, how do I go about becoming that person? [more inside]
posted by EatMyHat on May 21, 2012 - 9 answers

I'm picturing Homer strangling Bart right now...

Advice and resources for dealing with passive-aggressive people who aren't your SO? [more inside]
posted by lizbunny on Nov 9, 2011 - 22 answers

Control Issues

Control issues: help me find online resources and reading material [more inside]
posted by lover on Apr 17, 2011 - 8 answers

Subverting My Attraction to Negative Passive People

I find myself in a pattern of getting into long-term relationships with people who end up displaying massive passive-aggressive tendancies and negativity. I always think I've found someone who is going to be a great, equal partner and I just end up in the same relationship again and again. [more inside]
posted by aabbbiee on Mar 1, 2011 - 34 answers

Do all of these affiliate marketers make money?

Are all these online affiliate marketers making money and am I jsut being jealous because I haven't done anything like it yet? [more inside]
posted by modoriculous on Oct 12, 2010 - 8 answers

Initiative to learn, but not to create

I love to read and learn, but I can't get myself to start projects, to create something in the real world. I can't figure out why. Does anyone else have this (or managed to overcome it)? [more inside]
posted by thebluesky on Jun 7, 2010 - 34 answers

Is Present Perfect Progessive Passive possible in English?

GrammarFilter: Present Perfect Passive Progressive. Real or a myth? [more inside]
posted by MostHolyPorcine on Feb 26, 2010 - 10 answers

Can you find documentation regarding Windows ftp.exe and passive mode?

The Windows ftp.exe command line program does not support passive mode. Can anyone point me to definitive documentation, preferably from Microsoft, that states this is true? [more inside]
posted by Roger Dodger on Feb 13, 2009 - 3 answers

When should I change my 401K investment strategy from active to passive?

Given today's equity market conditions, when should I change my 401K investment strategy from active to passive? [more inside]
posted by shinybeast on Sep 24, 2008 - 6 answers

Mean teacher or loving educator???

Is there a term for this? A high school honors teacher is being unreasonably hard on my daughter..... [more inside]
posted by winks007 on Sep 19, 2008 - 48 answers

Is there a program/script for finding passively scanning wireless cards?

Is there a way to scan for passively scanning wireless cards. [more inside]
posted by bjtitus on Aug 16, 2008 - 10 answers

Learning assertive communication

Can you guys recommend any resources for learning assertive communication? In my family I learned to avoid conflict at all costs. Therefore, I don't know how to approach "difficult conversations" directly. [more inside]
posted by mintchip on Apr 5, 2008 - 16 answers

How do I know when I'm being self-assertive vs. being a jerk?

How do I know when I'm being self-assertive vs. being a jerk? [more inside]
posted by treepour on Mar 11, 2008 - 11 answers

Japanese Passive Aggressive Bento Blog?

I am looking for a Japanese blog about a woman who left passive aggressive notes for her husband and son as part of the food in the bentos she made them. [more inside]
posted by duckierose on Jan 5, 2008 - 10 answers

passive voice question

He was killed; he got (himself) killed. It was sold; it got sold (possibly out from under me). What sort of semantic difference does using forms of "get" versus "be" in passive constructions convey? [more inside]
posted by kenko on Sep 8, 2006 - 12 answers

What's the truth about passive smoking?

What's the truth about passive smoking?
posted by Acey on Oct 6, 2005 - 27 answers

Passive/Agressive

Please tell me your experiences with passive agressiveness in your relationships. [more inside]
posted by eas98 on May 24, 2005 - 20 answers

Should avoid the passive voice in an undergraduate history thesis?

Grammar/ Style Filter:
I'm writing an undergraduate history thesis. Should I do all I can to avoid the passive voice? [More has been placed inside] [more inside]
posted by PhatLobley on Jan 25, 2005 - 54 answers

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