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I'm having a routine physical first thing tomorrow, including a pap test. Can I have (hetero)sex tonight?
posted by anonymous on Apr 16, 2009 - 16 answers

HPV and sex question.... [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 2, 2009 - 14 answers

Pain is making it impossible for me to get a Pap smear. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 23, 2007 - 33 answers

Should I go to the gynecologist if I'm a virgin?[MI]

I'm 29, have never been to see one, haven't had genital contact with anyone, do not need birth control, and nothing's irregular down there except maybe the occasional period (and not so much this year). So I tend to think no, especially because the membrane in question is still mostly intact and I don't want the first penetration to be by speculum/doctor, or to ever happen. But maybe that latter concern, and my general feeling that the doctor's going to consider me a freak unlike anyone else, is coloring my perception of whether or not I need to go. So, is that a silly reason not to go? I'm pretty sure that the standard medical professional's response would be that I'm long overdue for a such a visit, but what would you do in my situation? Do I really need a pap smear given my background? Is this going to hurt? I posted this at a virgin forum but only got one response from a pro-abstinence guy whose comments didn't have much bearing on my concerns.
posted by anonymous on Dec 19, 2004 - 43 answers