female ejaculation filter: I'm so doing it wrong! [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 13, 2009 - 16 answers

How can I make my new partner come?? NSFW details follow. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 20, 2009 - 23 answers

Why did my face go temporarily numb after an orgasm? NSFW. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 11, 2009 - 15 answers

Are my orgasms always going to be this weak? Teach me to do it better! [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 11, 2009 - 24 answers

Questions about male sexual stamina and use of viagra. NSFW more than likely. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 28, 2009 - 17 answers

I'm a mid-20s male, I'm having orgasm problems and I desperately need to do something about it. Any advice would be gratefully received! [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 27, 2009 - 19 answers

Two questions about sex. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 10, 2009 - 9 answers

I'm a 30 year old male who is recently divorced (after a 12 year relationship). I had a few brief sexual encounters in high school (5 partners), but most of my adult sex was spent with my ex-wife. As I begin dating and exploring new sexual relationships, I've realized that my sexual dexterity needs some improvement. My problem is that I had sex with my ex-wife for so long, and learned what she liked so well, that I've forgotten how to have sex with other people. My current girlfriend is an enigma. She's 29 years old and has never had an orgasm (not even via masturbation). She also likes rough play; something that is completely foreign to my gentle nature. I was wondering if anybody could recommend some books on sexual techniques designed to guide men to make a woman climax - especially for those who have difficulty doing so.
posted by anonymous on Sep 1, 2009 - 22 answers

My girlfriend and I have been seeing each other for a couple of years now. We love each other, and have a lot of fun doing things (even hard work) together. When it comes to sex, though, she seems to have inherited a lot of hangups from a previous, long-term relationship. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 18, 2009 - 39 answers

How can I resensitize my penis after excessive masturbating? (NSFW) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 8, 2009 - 15 answers

I'm a girl who hasn't been able to orgasm with a partner. It's been a major issue in my relationships. Is there really any point to having sexual relationships? (explicit but unsexy text) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 25, 2009 - 39 answers

Possibly NSFW question about male masturbation. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 16, 2009 - 14 answers

His cock barely fits in my mouth; how can I give better head? (NSFW) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 9, 2009 - 30 answers

Is there anything I can do to be able to orgasm without a vibrator? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 28, 2009 - 12 answers

Why do I feel like I'm craving sex when I get anxious or stressed out? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 20, 2009 - 12 answers

Over the last year, I've started to cry when I orgasm. While it was an occasional thing at first, it's turned into something that happens every time I come. I really, really hate crying, and feel sick and miserable when I have. It's killing my sex drive--I no longer want to have sex, because I know that it's going to make me cry. How can I stop? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 31, 2009 - 16 answers

I'm male and have a touch of anorgasmia (the inability to have an orgasm during sex) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 31, 2009 - 13 answers

How can I come during sex with my boyfriend? I find it impossible to reach orgasm unless I'm doing it myself, with extreme, violent fantasies. I've tried fantasizing about the same stuff during sex, but it's hard to reconcile with the reality of my gentle, loving boyfriend, even if we have rough sex or (to a degree) act out the fantasy. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 26, 2009 - 21 answers

What would cause me to experience a flash of light in my peripheral visual field during orgasm, and should I be concerned about it? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 20, 2009 - 5 answers

A question about a change in the way a woman tastes during oral sex. NSFW, obviously [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 3, 2009 - 18 answers

More interesting ways to get her off? (NSFW) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 26, 2009 - 23 answers

My girlfriend can't get me to orgasm. Plenty of NSFWness inside. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 22, 2009 - 31 answers

My girlfriend sometimes cries during orgasm. It's not pain crying. The first time it happened it totally freaked me out, but she assured me it was all good, that it was about going beyond a really good feeling to one of being "overwhelmed." It's not just tears, either--it can be full on bawling. It's since become the high water mark of our intimate relations, which are not particularly unusual in any way--meaning we're not doing something really freaky, for which tears might be appropriate. I do my best to take full credit for pushing her climax that far, but it must be admitted that it's most likely when she's the active one. I'm widely experienced enough to think that this is, well, pretty unusual. Is it?
posted by anonymous on Jan 19, 2009 - 41 answers

NSFW Sex Question Inside: I can't orgasm without holding my breath. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 1, 2009 - 8 answers

Happy global Orgasm day! There's your excuse, now - any advice? ;D [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 19, 2008 - 7 answers

Has all my masturbating messed with my sex life? Want too much information? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 16, 2008 - 13 answers

Very NSFW question about female self-pleasure. You've been warned! [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 10, 2008 - 18 answers

So! As a guy, taking a while to get off during sex is fine. But when I wank, I'd prefer to just get it over with. I have no problem watching porn, I'm just sick of it taking at least half an hour to come. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 20, 2008 - 10 answers

I can ejaculate, but not orgasm. What could be causing this? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 10, 2008 - 10 answers

Should I say or should I come? or, should a girl say that she didn't have an orgasm. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 14, 2008 - 34 answers

How to reach a clitoral orgasm? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 26, 2008 - 20 answers

I can't get off when someone else stimulates me. help! [nsfw] [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 10, 2008 - 11 answers

Is circumventing ejaculation with pressure to the perineum harmful? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 20, 2008 - 19 answers

Am I a lousy lover? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 29, 2008 - 31 answers

Is there any way to stay on SNRIs but restore libido? Possibly TMI about sex life inside, quite possibly NSFW. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 9, 2007 - 9 answers

Sometimes, after I have an orgasm, I feel intensely nauseated for about an hour. Why might this be? (contains somewhat icky sexual details) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 9, 2007 - 13 answers

[NSFW] Women of the world...how can I have an orgasm when everything just feels so intense? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 16, 2007 - 21 answers

Early sexual/non-sexual odd-experiences filter. How common is a guy climaxing without any sex at all? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 8, 2007 - 29 answers

I think I might have ejaculated the first time I ever orgasmed. I'm a young, reasonably sexually inexperienced (though not a virgin) female. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 25, 2007 - 13 answers

I am a female in her 20s who would like to achieve multiple orgasms with her boyfriend. However, one orgasm makes me want to pass out. What to do? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 27, 2007 - 13 answers

Uh, Embarrassing-Sexual-Question-Filter? There seems to be some connection between being at the end of my menstrual cycle (that is, days from starting my period) and how easy it is to orgasm (that is... not at all.) Is this Science, or something I'm making up? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 10, 2007 - 17 answers

Where has my sex drive gone? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 13, 2007 - 23 answers

I can orgasm, but when my boyfriend's there it takes an hour and a half. What gives? Obviously not safe for work. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 29, 2006 - 26 answers

Help me attain the big O without…mechanical assistance. [NSFW] [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 16, 2006 - 14 answers

Help me help my less experienced fella in bed. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 7, 2006 - 18 answers

I'm male, in my early twenties. Ever since I popped my cherry, I've had issues orgasming from sex. Condoms make this only a small fraction below impossible; without, it's still very likely I won't be able to come from sex. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 24, 2006 - 22 answers

What do I have to do to give my lady friend an orgasm? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 21, 2006 - 41 answers

SexualFrustrationFilter: Please help me deal with my boyfriend's sexual frustration. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 26, 2005 - 79 answers

Heave ... oh. There is no SI unit short enough to measure how little stamina I have in sex. This is frustrating for myself and my partner. What can I/we do to increase my endurance? Only having sex post-refractory period has worked but probably is not a viable long-term strategy. I have only recently become sexually active--will this work itself out?
posted by anonymous on Feb 1, 2005 - 34 answers