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New partner - Ejaculation issues?

I've been dating a guy who I really like for about four months. We have a great time together, laugh a lot, see each other several times a week, and communicate well with one another. We decided to be exclusive about six weeks into dating and started having sex around that time. The issue? He only orgasms about half of the time that we have sex. [more inside]
posted by orangesky4 on Dec 30, 2016 - 27 answers

Sex life after mastectomy, need success stories

NSFW. I had a mastectomy with reconstruction in June, and it appears my ability to have an orgasm went the same way as my breasts. I really need to hear some success stories from women where surgery changed your sexuality, and recommendations/suggestions/anything please. [more inside]
posted by circle_b on Nov 20, 2016 - 7 answers

Help us with our orgasms

My partner can only come in one position (lying on her back with her legs dead straight) and then only sometimes. Do you have any suggestions for us? [more inside]
posted by sinbarambam on Oct 11, 2016 - 39 answers

SSRIs and sexual dysfunction

Looking for advice and experiences regarding anorgasmia as a side effect of SSRI antidepressants, IKYANMD. [more inside]
posted by mymbleth on Sep 16, 2015 - 11 answers

I Don't Orgasm, and I Don't Care

I'm in my 30's, and I don't orgasm during sex. I still like sex - a lot! - but I find myself compulsively "faking it" in every single relationship, and I'm not sure how to stop or if I should. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 14, 2015 - 34 answers

Did you arrive? No, I did not, but I had a very nice time.

Inspired by this thread about unintentional historical double entendres, I'm looking for a science fiction short story that was published twenty or so years ago. [more inside]
posted by infinitewindow on Jun 26, 2015 - 1 answer

How can I (male) delay orgasm?

I'm a mid-40s male and my entire life I've been a hair-trigger. Not a premature orgasm, but over very fast. Google-fu came up with scams and creams, but is there any way to fix this? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 22, 2015 - 14 answers

Help us help our sex life

Early twenties couple fumbling through sex. Him: sometimes can't keep up an erection, or has to keep stopping and starting. Me: can't orgasm and it all feels a bit lukewarm. I'm worried that this will eventually kill our relationship. Sorry for the wall of text but I'm getting a bit desperate. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 2, 2014 - 27 answers

Don't try so hard, but don't NOT try either!

I have trouble achieving orgasm, but it doesn't really bother me. However, apparently it bothers other people a whole lot. How can I explain all this in a way that will make sense to others? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 28, 2014 - 11 answers

Multiple orgasms for men, experience?

I've read The Multi-Orgasmic Man. I find Eastern, energy-based philosophy hard to grasp, because moving energy throughout the body is very much experiential and intangible. It's not not like learning physical movements (sports, martial arts, etc.) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 25, 2014 - 8 answers

Sex Visions (not an R&B album)

I'm looking for information about visions or visuals experienced during sex. Not anecdotes, but 1. rigorous scientific work that contextualizes who gets them and why, and 2. artists, writers, or poets who have used them as inspiration in any way. [more inside]
posted by Ambrosia Voyeur on Mar 21, 2014 - 6 answers

Technology orgasm nightmare

My friend asks: "I once saw a sci-fi film where people had worked out how to record conscious experiences and then others could experience it directly themselves. There's one bit where a guy ends up driving himself into an insane catatonic state when he loops this recording of someone having sex at the point of orgasm and plays it for 12 hours straight." Q: what is that film?
posted by urbanwhaleshark on Mar 15, 2014 - 13 answers

NSFW - what was this white fluid during orgasm?

NSFW TMI: White fluid from my female nether-region accompanying orgasm. Help - Google gives myriad results. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 6, 2014 - 10 answers

It's been a long, long time coming...

My relationship is great, with one small problem - no matter what my girlfriend and I try, I'm not having an orgasm. Oversharing details inside... [more inside]
posted by Ed The Sock on Jan 12, 2014 - 30 answers

“No woman gets an orgasm from shining the kitchen floor. ”

Met a great guy that I fell in love with just when I thought I never would again! Now how do I tell him I've never had an orgasm with him, that I want to do something about it, and that I was faking the ones I "did have" for the first half of our relationship? Sordid details inside! [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 10, 2014 - 17 answers

Why am I experiencing so many new sexual problems in my early 30's?

I've been dating my girlfriend for about two years and we've been living together (with her five year old son) for about four months. Over the last six months or so, I've had several new sexual problems that I've never experienced before. I ejaculate very quickly after penetration, my refractory period is so long that I'm basically "one and done," and my libido has decreased. I'm still very attracted to my girlfriend, and she can still turn me on, but I also have more days when I'd be perfectly happy to cuddle up and watch a movie instead of having sex, which is completely unlike how I felt a year or so ago. I'm not THAT old, and all the other parts of my relationship are going extremely well. Why am I experiencing these problems, and what can I do to solve them? [more inside]
posted by Chuck Barris on Dec 7, 2013 - 11 answers

Birth control pills and ejaculation inside vagina

I would like to know your opinions about ejaculation inside the vagina and the risks of pregnancy, while using birth control. [more inside]
posted by Emily119 on Nov 18, 2013 - 18 answers

For crying out loud, where's my libido?

I have a problem. I am a 39-year old woman whose libido declined over a couple of months when I was 33. I can't seem to get it back. I need help thinking outside the box. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 1, 2013 - 12 answers

NSFW question about strip clubs

I am not a regular strip club attendee, so when I went to one today I had an unusual experience that I don't know if it was normal, and if it is how others handle it. It's NSFW and embarrassing, so details inside. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 14, 2013 - 13 answers

Sit. Stay. Heel. Come.

A NSFW question about achieving a particular female orgasm... [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 4, 2013 - 26 answers

Boyfriend can't ejaculate

Help me deal with my boyfriend's ejaculatory impotence -- it's reaching a breaking point for me. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 5, 2012 - 29 answers

Help a mental case when it comes to sex

Help me understand the psychology of Orgasm. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 17, 2012 - 11 answers

How do I stop masturbating to violent images?

I am a woman who is deeply ashamed of what sexually excites me and need help or resources in learning to stop my porn/masturbation problem. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 22, 2012 - 24 answers

Will learning to orgasm through masturbation help me through my divorce?

Will learning to orgasm through masturbation help me through my divorce? Female, been married 10 years, left because of verbal abuse, disturbed by reawakening of my sexuality now I'm "old" (nearly 40) and unloved. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 10, 2012 - 12 answers

Help me help my girlfriend have her first orgasm

My 35 y/o girlfriend has never had an orgasm... [NSFW details] [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 21, 2012 - 32 answers

As a male, I've never orgasmed from sex, teach me how

As a male, I've never orgasmed from sex, teach me how [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 15, 2012 - 14 answers

very painful orgasms

I love the whole process of sex, but as soon as I'm getting ready to orgasm, my ladyparts explode into pain and burning and it makes me super sad. [more inside]
posted by iLoveTheRain on May 6, 2012 - 25 answers

I can't cum far anymore.

My semen barely shoots any distance out of my penis anymore. What can I do about this? Should I be concerned? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 2, 2012 - 15 answers

How come it's clear? (do you see what I did there)

NSFW question about male orgasms. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 10, 2012 - 15 answers

Please help me be less of a clingy and unsatisfied girlfriend.

I'm becoming a clingy girlfriend, and I think it's partially because of my low self-esteem -- and partially because I'm unable to orgasm. [more inside]
posted by themaskedwonder on Feb 2, 2012 - 24 answers

give it to me baby, uh huh uh huh

Sex Filter: How do you decrease the length of your refractory period? [more inside]
posted by iLoveTheRain on Jan 7, 2012 - 16 answers

Not tonight, I've got a headache- for real.

Another orgasm headache question. [more inside]
posted by shelayna on Dec 10, 2011 - 10 answers

Honestly, guys: are you REALLY sexually satisfied without her orgasm?

They pretty much all want it and I'm feeling very discouraged. Are there HONESTLY men out there who are sexually satisfied if their partner does NOT have an orgasm? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 1, 2011 - 41 answers

Right there... oh... OHH... oh :-/

I love sex, foreplay but it takes forever to climax. [more inside]
posted by InterestedInKnowing on Oct 24, 2011 - 13 answers

Can you make me come?

Help me improve sex with my boyfriend. NSFW of course. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 12, 2011 - 15 answers

Female premature orgasm

Any advice or tips for a woman who orgasms prematurely? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 12, 2011 - 17 answers

How Many Men Have the Ability to Climax from Frenulum Stimulation?

How common is it for a man to be able to reach an ejaculatory orgasm just by stimulating the frenulum of his penis? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 9, 2011 - 13 answers

Got on the pill, but can't get off

Hormonal birth control is screwing up the sexy time. Alternatives? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 4, 2011 - 26 answers

What happened to my orgasm?

Can an orgasm change? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 20, 2011 - 8 answers

Literary depictions of that special moment.

Help me find orgasms in literature. [more inside]
posted by hungrytiger on Jul 23, 2011 - 22 answers

sensate focus resources/ORGAZMS ALL NIGHT LONG!!!!!!!

Are there any books with a reasonably useful description Master's and Johnson's sensate focus method? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 14, 2011 - 2 answers

Why can I orgasm using my feet?

For as long as I can remember, I've been able to "orgasm" using my feet. [more inside]
posted by Solomon on Mar 8, 2011 - 18 answers


After talking about it a while ago and deciding to let it happen, my girlfriend had a 50 minute orgasm without any genital stimulation. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 2, 2011 - 42 answers

How do I stop hyperventilating during masturbation?

Help me figure out how to orgasm without hyperventilating! [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 22, 2011 - 4 answers

Please Help She Bop

I can only orgasm in one specific way. I blame a decade and a half of one type of masturbation. I’m 27, female, and a special snowflake. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 8, 2011 - 16 answers

Getting her over the edge

How do I get her off? She rarely orgasms, and I feel like I'm letting her down. NSFW. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 28, 2011 - 29 answers

How can I delay female orgasm?

SexFilter: I am a woman who is orgasming too soon, too powerfully, such that it's interfering with my boyfriend's ability to do the same. What do we do? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 10, 2011 - 12 answers

Please sir, can I have some more?

How do I get him to last longer in bed? [more inside]
posted by oceanview on Dec 27, 2010 - 15 answers

The spirit is willing, but is the flesh tired?

I know I'm tired -- but to the point my genitalia are falling asleep? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 2, 2010 - 9 answers

Unplugging and reconnecting

Wando the Reliable has carried me through multiple relationships and alone times, but I think it's time. Help me break up with my Hitachi Magic Wand. [more inside]
posted by sphallolalia on Nov 27, 2010 - 10 answers

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