So! As a guy, taking a while to get off during sex is fine. But when I wank, I'd prefer to just get it over with. I have no problem watching porn, I'm just sick of it taking at least half an hour to come. [more inside]
posted on Jul 20, 2008 - 10 answers

I can ejaculate, but not orgasm. What could be causing this? [more inside]
posted on Jul 10, 2008 - 10 answers

Should I say or should I come? or, should a girl say that she didn't have an orgasm. [more inside]
posted on Jun 14, 2008 - 34 answers

How to reach a clitoral orgasm? [more inside]
posted on Mar 26, 2008 - 20 answers

I can't get off when someone else stimulates me. help! [nsfw] [more inside]
posted on Mar 10, 2008 - 10 answers

Is circumventing ejaculation with pressure to the perineum harmful? [more inside]
posted on Feb 20, 2008 - 19 answers

Once in awhile, I get a short-lived pounding headache immediately after coming. It usually happens after a really big one. Yesterday the headache was all around my skull, in the back and top and everything. Why oh why?
posted on Feb 11, 2008 - 12 answers

Am I a lousy lover? [more inside]
posted on Jan 29, 2008 - 31 answers

Is there any way to stay on SNRIs but restore libido? Possibly TMI about sex life inside, quite possibly NSFW. [more inside]
posted on Dec 9, 2007 - 9 answers

Sometimes, after I have an orgasm, I feel intensely nauseated for about an hour. Why might this be? (contains somewhat icky sexual details) [more inside]
posted on Dec 9, 2007 - 13 answers

[NSFW] Women of the world...how can I have an orgasm when everything just feels so intense? [more inside]
posted on Nov 16, 2007 - 21 answers

Early sexual/non-sexual odd-experiences filter. How common is a guy climaxing without any sex at all? [more inside]
posted on Nov 8, 2007 - 29 answers

Orgasm problems: my girlfriend can't have one with me. After a certain point, she says it feels "too intense" and she gets scared and makes me stop. She was molested as a child (though this is possibly irrelevant). How can she get past this? [more inside]
posted on Oct 2, 2007 - 20 answers

I think I might have ejaculated the first time I ever orgasmed. I'm a young, reasonably sexually inexperienced (though not a virgin) female. [more inside]
posted on Sep 25, 2007 - 13 answers

I am a female in her 20s who would like to achieve multiple orgasms with her boyfriend. However, one orgasm makes me want to pass out. What to do? [more inside]
posted on Apr 27, 2007 - 13 answers

Okay, we've established that there's postsex blues...what about interrupted-sex blues? [more inside]
posted on Mar 30, 2007 - 14 answers

Uh, Embarrassing-Sexual-Question-Filter? There seems to be some connection between being at the end of my menstrual cycle (that is, days from starting my period) and how easy it is to orgasm (that is... not at all.) Is this Science, or something I'm making up? [more inside]
posted on Feb 10, 2007 - 17 answers

Where has my sex drive gone? [more inside]
posted on Jan 13, 2007 - 23 answers

Can a dog lick themselves to the point of climax? [more inside]
posted on Dec 1, 2006 - 16 answers

I can orgasm, but when my boyfriend's there it takes an hour and a half. What gives? Obviously not safe for work. [more inside]
posted on Sep 29, 2006 - 26 answers

Is it normal for a woman to be unable to orgasm alone or with a (male) partner unless she fantasizes about women? [more inside]
posted on Aug 30, 2006 - 37 answers

Help me attain the big O without…mechanical assistance. [NSFW] [more inside]
posted on Aug 16, 2006 - 14 answers

Help me help my less experienced fella in bed. [more inside]
posted on Jul 7, 2006 - 18 answers

I'm male, in my early twenties. Ever since I popped my cherry, I've had issues orgasming from sex. Condoms make this only a small fraction below impossible; without, it's still very likely I won't be able to come from sex. [more inside]
posted on Jun 24, 2006 - 22 answers

What do I have to do to give my lady friend an orgasm? [more inside]
posted on Apr 21, 2006 - 41 answers

When we have sex it is usually women who utter the most vocal noise. What are the possible evolutionary origins of this? [more inside]
posted on Jan 10, 2006 - 54 answers

SexualFrustrationFilter: Please help me deal with my boyfriend's sexual frustration. [more inside]
posted on Oct 26, 2005 - 79 answers

Soupfilter: I just made the most fan-F***ing-tabulous soup in the history of mankind. Of course, no one else was around to taste it. [more inside]
posted on Sep 2, 2005 - 15 answers

The human orgasm. Myths and questions? [more inside]
posted on Aug 9, 2005 - 16 answers

Heave ... oh. There is no SI unit short enough to measure how little stamina I have in sex. This is frustrating for myself and my partner. What can I/we do to increase my endurance? Only having sex post-refractory period has worked but probably is not a viable long-term strategy. I have only recently become sexually active--will this work itself out?
posted on Feb 1, 2005 - 34 answers

SexFilter: Chaps, how do you postpone the little death? An intriguing office discussion (sparked by a picture of Margaret Thatcher) has brought out the most amazing answers to this...

(Ladies you can play too, although I guess the question is how do you hurry it along?)
posted on Jul 4, 2004 - 41 answers

A question on Anorgasmia. [More inside][TMI?][NSFW?]
posted on Jan 26, 2004 - 24 answers