How can I make my new partner come?? NSFW details follow. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 20, 2009 - 23 answers

Why did my face go temporarily numb after an orgasm? NSFW. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 11, 2009 - 15 answers

Are my orgasms always going to be this weak? Teach me to do it better! [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 11, 2009 - 24 answers

Questions about male sexual stamina and use of viagra. NSFW more than likely. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 28, 2009 - 17 answers

I'm a mid-20s male, I'm having orgasm problems and I desperately need to do something about it. Any advice would be gratefully received! [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 27, 2009 - 19 answers

After 3 years boyfriend tells me he thinks he may have a sexual dysfunction. [more inside]
posted by lwclec072 on Oct 19, 2009 - 39 answers

Two questions about sex. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 10, 2009 - 9 answers

I'm a 30 year old male who is recently divorced (after a 12 year relationship). I had a few brief sexual encounters in high school (5 partners), but most of my adult sex was spent with my ex-wife. As I begin dating and exploring new sexual relationships, I've realized that my sexual dexterity needs some improvement. My problem is that I had sex with my ex-wife for so long, and learned what she liked so well, that I've forgotten how to have sex with other people. My current girlfriend is an enigma. She's 29 years old and has never had an orgasm (not even via masturbation). She also likes rough play; something that is completely foreign to my gentle nature. I was wondering if anybody could recommend some books on sexual techniques designed to guide men to make a woman climax - especially for those who have difficulty doing so.
posted by anonymous on Sep 1, 2009 - 22 answers

My girlfriend and I have been seeing each other for a couple of years now. We love each other, and have a lot of fun doing things (even hard work) together. When it comes to sex, though, she seems to have inherited a lot of hangups from a previous, long-term relationship. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 18, 2009 - 39 answers

How can I resensitize my penis after excessive masturbating? (NSFW) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 8, 2009 - 15 answers

I'm a girl who hasn't been able to orgasm with a partner. It's been a major issue in my relationships. Is there really any point to having sexual relationships? (explicit but unsexy text) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 25, 2009 - 39 answers

Possibly NSFW question about male masturbation. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 16, 2009 - 14 answers

I'd like to know what other people think about while masturbating and how that differs from what they think about while having sexual intercourse. [more inside]
posted by krautland on Jun 29, 2009 - 29 answers

I come to you today with an age-old question. Many have tried to answer it, and all have failed, but I am confident that the mighty MeFi will succeed. That question is: What the hell is Pete Shelley singing in the classic Buzzcocks song "Orgasm Addict"? [more inside]
posted by DecemberBoy on Jun 18, 2009 - 22 answers

His cock barely fits in my mouth; how can I give better head? (NSFW) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 9, 2009 - 30 answers

Why do B-complex vitamins and zinc enhance orgasm? [more inside]
posted by WolfDaddy on Apr 29, 2009 - 11 answers

Is there anything I can do to be able to orgasm without a vibrator? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 28, 2009 - 12 answers

Why do I feel like I'm craving sex when I get anxious or stressed out? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 20, 2009 - 12 answers

When I practice my shakuhachi (bamboo flute) I'm usually easily distracted, unfocussed, and lacking energy. However, I have excellent practice after orgasm. How can I replicate this without having sex with my wife before each practice/performance? [more inside]
posted by zachawry on Apr 14, 2009 - 12 answers

Over the last year, I've started to cry when I orgasm. While it was an occasional thing at first, it's turned into something that happens every time I come. I really, really hate crying, and feel sick and miserable when I have. It's killing my sex drive--I no longer want to have sex, because I know that it's going to make me cry. How can I stop? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 31, 2009 - 16 answers

I'm male and have a touch of anorgasmia (the inability to have an orgasm during sex) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 31, 2009 - 13 answers

How can I come during sex with my boyfriend? I find it impossible to reach orgasm unless I'm doing it myself, with extreme, violent fantasies. I've tried fantasizing about the same stuff during sex, but it's hard to reconcile with the reality of my gentle, loving boyfriend, even if we have rough sex or (to a degree) act out the fantasy. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 26, 2009 - 21 answers

What would cause me to experience a flash of light in my peripheral visual field during orgasm, and should I be concerned about it? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 20, 2009 - 5 answers

A question about a change in the way a woman tastes during oral sex. NSFW, obviously [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 3, 2009 - 18 answers

More interesting ways to get her off? (NSFW) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 26, 2009 - 23 answers

My girlfriend can't get me to orgasm. Plenty of NSFWness inside. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 22, 2009 - 31 answers

My girlfriend sometimes cries during orgasm. It's not pain crying. The first time it happened it totally freaked me out, but she assured me it was all good, that it was about going beyond a really good feeling to one of being "overwhelmed." It's not just tears, either--it can be full on bawling. It's since become the high water mark of our intimate relations, which are not particularly unusual in any way--meaning we're not doing something really freaky, for which tears might be appropriate. I do my best to take full credit for pushing her climax that far, but it must be admitted that it's most likely when she's the active one. I'm widely experienced enough to think that this is, well, pretty unusual. Is it?
posted by anonymous on Jan 19, 2009 - 41 answers

NSFW Sex Question Inside: I can't orgasm without holding my breath. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 1, 2009 - 8 answers

Happy global Orgasm day! There's your excuse, now - any advice? ;D [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 19, 2008 - 7 answers

Has all my masturbating messed with my sex life? Want too much information? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 16, 2008 - 13 answers

NSFW: question about faking orgasms, relationships, and how to fix everything. [more inside]
posted by Heidelberg on Dec 2, 2008 - 23 answers

Tell me about electrical stimulation sex toys (NSFW, obviously). [more inside]
posted by fracas on Nov 17, 2008 - 9 answers

Very NSFW question about female self-pleasure. You've been warned! [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 10, 2008 - 18 answers

Sex is often touted as beneficial for one's health. Is this supposed to be true for both men and women, and how much evidence is there for the claim (apart from calorie expenditure, which is still negligible compared to actual aerobic exercise)? And is it primarily the orgasm that's supposedly healthful, or even sex sans orgasm?
posted by taramosalata on Nov 10, 2008 - 20 answers

What are the underlying processes occurring during an orgasm that are the biological causes of the pleasurable sensation we associate with it? Is the sensation of orgasm a function of the nervous system, or is it something neurochemical in the brain, or both, or neither? Is the reason that certain masturbatory and/or sexual acts feel good because of nerve concentration in the erogenous areas, or is it something different or more in nature? [more inside]
posted by WCityMike on Sep 2, 2008 - 9 answers

So! As a guy, taking a while to get off during sex is fine. But when I wank, I'd prefer to just get it over with. I have no problem watching porn, I'm just sick of it taking at least half an hour to come. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 20, 2008 - 10 answers

I can ejaculate, but not orgasm. What could be causing this? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 10, 2008 - 10 answers

Should I say or should I come? or, should a girl say that she didn't have an orgasm. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 14, 2008 - 34 answers

How to reach a clitoral orgasm? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 26, 2008 - 20 answers

I can't get off when someone else stimulates me. help! [nsfw] [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 10, 2008 - 11 answers

Is circumventing ejaculation with pressure to the perineum harmful? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 20, 2008 - 19 answers

Once in awhile, I get a short-lived pounding headache immediately after coming. It usually happens after a really big one. Yesterday the headache was all around my skull, in the back and top and everything. Why oh why?
posted by pieliza on Feb 11, 2008 - 12 answers

Am I a lousy lover? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 29, 2008 - 31 answers

Is there any way to stay on SNRIs but restore libido? Possibly TMI about sex life inside, quite possibly NSFW. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 9, 2007 - 9 answers

Sometimes, after I have an orgasm, I feel intensely nauseated for about an hour. Why might this be? (contains somewhat icky sexual details) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 9, 2007 - 13 answers

[NSFW] Women of the world...how can I have an orgasm when everything just feels so intense? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 16, 2007 - 21 answers

Early sexual/non-sexual odd-experiences filter. How common is a guy climaxing without any sex at all? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 8, 2007 - 29 answers

Orgasm problems: my girlfriend can't have one with me. After a certain point, she says it feels "too intense" and she gets scared and makes me stop. She was molested as a child (though this is possibly irrelevant). How can she get past this? [more inside]
posted by trystero on Oct 2, 2007 - 20 answers

I think I might have ejaculated the first time I ever orgasmed. I'm a young, reasonably sexually inexperienced (though not a virgin) female. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 25, 2007 - 13 answers

I am a female in her 20s who would like to achieve multiple orgasms with her boyfriend. However, one orgasm makes me want to pass out. What to do? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 27, 2007 - 13 answers