Has anyone used the Today sponge (or another contraceptive sponge) and found that their partner noticed a different *taste*? I'm wondering if the spermicide will alter one's natural flavor.
posted on May 11, 2008 - 10 answers

My partner wants a lot more cunnilingus than I can stand. Here's the catch: I'm the girl. How can we compromise? [more inside]
posted on May 2, 2008 - 21 answers

What are oldest known written or visual description of cunnilingus and fellatio? [more inside]
posted on Mar 30, 2008 - 16 answers

Boy meets girl. Boy falls for girl. Girl tells boy she has genital herpes (type 1). Boy says that's OK, I want to be with you. Now boy wants advice on safety. [more inside]
posted on Mar 8, 2008 - 10 answers

My wife is very 'vanilla' when it comes to intimacy. [more inside]
posted on Dec 8, 2007 - 31 answers

Can I learn to enjoy the taste of vagina? I really want to. [more inside]
posted on Jul 14, 2007 - 39 answers

My basic question is how to do the “let’s get tested for STDs” talk/request without turning off the other person. General responses are great, and if you have the patience to read about my experience inside, specific advice and suggestions would be really nice. [more inside]
posted on Apr 22, 2007 - 43 answers

If blowjobs bug me, should I avoid dating men? I'm female. [NSFW] [more inside]
posted on Apr 20, 2007 - 58 answers

I need some tips for giving oral sex to a man who isn't circumcised. [more inside]
posted on Feb 9, 2007 - 9 answers

Having read the ying, I am now curious about the yang: fellatio aficionados, what does it taste like to you?
posted on Dec 16, 2006 - 39 answers

Connoisseurs of Cunnilingus: What does it taste like to you? [more inside]
posted on Dec 1, 2006 - 88 answers

My partner loves going down on me. She loves kissing me once or twice, briefly sucking me like a lollipop, and is uneasy about doing anything more, which ends up being frustrating for both of us. [more inside]
posted on Nov 30, 2006 - 34 answers

Help a girl out with oral sex. [more inside]
posted on May 21, 2006 - 36 answers

What is the relative safety of certain sexual acts with a partner who has had one confirmed outbreak of genital herpes and no subsequent outbreaks? [more inside]
posted on May 11, 2006 - 11 answers

Is it safe to perform oral sex on someone who is taking antibiotics (NOT for an STI)? [more inside]
posted on Jan 27, 2006 - 17 answers

I am a younger male who wants to be a better lover to my new girlfriend, specifically in regards to giving her oral sex. I sense she doesn't like to talk about these things explicitly, and I'm not entirely sure I know what I'm doing. What I'd like to know from MeFites is: what qualifies as good head for a woman? Fast, slow, teasing, aggressive? What feels best? And what things should be avoided as not to spoil the moment? (I'm a little skeptical some female MeFites will feel comfortable offering explicit advice, but I'm pretty sex-positive and I hope some of you are too!)
posted on Nov 5, 2004 - 21 answers