Are there ethical objections to open relationships/polyamory? (If so, list below) [more inside]
posted on Feb 5, 2008 - 33 answers

My long-distance relationship is disintegrating, basically because it is now totally open-ended, and the visa situation is such that only a marriage will keep us physically together.

Our current idea is an open relationship. I'm not sure how I feel about this. Does anyone have any experience? I can't help but think if I wanted to be with the new person I wouldn't be with the old, and it seems somehow wrong to use new people just for sex or short-termism...
posted on Oct 12, 2004 - 15 answers