I definitely don’t want, and am not ready for, a relationship. I do want a bit of fun now and then, except insomnia and overstimulation mix with a bit of post-coital anxiety and mess everything up. What are things I can do to soothe myself to sleep, so I can enjoy the evening I had?
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posted by anonymous
on Feb 22, 2013 -
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Early-30s straight guy here. Shy with women, by no means a social butterfly (social moth?), so have little sexual experience - I lost my virginity relatively late and have only had a handful of very brief relationships and one-night stands since. I'd like to have some casual sex as a way of gaining confidence and learning the ropes (oh, and for fun), but haven't had any success finding it so far. Ideas?
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posted by anonymous
on Feb 20, 2013 -
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How legitimate a dealbreaker is weed consumption in a relationship ? A down-to-earth relationship question.
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posted by anonymous
on Nov 14, 2012 -
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What could have happened in 1663 specifically to change the meaning of "decimate?"
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posted by Naberius
on Jun 16, 2011 -
9 answers
Does working in US intelligence or for private firms closely integrated with US intelligence impact future international employment or citizenship?
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posted by anonymous
on Nov 17, 2010 -
8 answers
Was there a story a year or two back about Patriot Act/NSA/FBI surveillance in Las Vegas being used for extortion against a casino? I distinctly remember something about it but can't find anything.
posted by destro
on May 17, 2007 -
4 answers
I'm getting pretty tired of hearing the line "if you've done nothing wrong, you have nothing to worry about" in regards to what's happening right now in Washington. I've heard some long articulate responses to this, but what's a good one or two sentence response that succinctly points out the error in this line of thinking?
posted by WetherMan
on Jun 1, 2006 -
56 answers
how do i say this: "i like you and that other night was great, although slightly weird because you're my friend's really close cousin, but he seems cool about it, so, anyway, do you want to do that again sometime, even though it's been a month since that night?"- without coming across as wanting to be too serious or too casual or too weird?
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posted by twirlypen
on Feb 14, 2006 -
11 answers
Why was Alberto Gonzales not under oath before the Senate Judiciary Committee? Specific legal nuances are what I'm looking for.
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posted by odinsdream
on Feb 9, 2006 -
12 answers
Could the US government's efforts to scan the contents of everyone's email be overloaded by everyone routinely using encryption for every message?
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posted by pracowity
on Dec 21, 2005 -
33 answers
Military Intelligence: I've thought about joining the military for about six years. Now it seems that it might become reality. I'd like to become an intelligence officer because it seems like I'd use a similar skill set to what I do now (I'm a journalist.) But what branch of the service should I check out? Army/Navy/Marines/Air Force/Coast Guard? What about the CIA or NSA? Anybody know people in any of these branches? [more inside]
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posted by Happydaz
on Jul 29, 2004 -
30 answers