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Back to school with Fs in sex and social life.

I just started an intense school program and I have very little sex drive or social drive. This is frustrating for my boyfriend. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 8, 2013 - 8 answers

Damn you, timing.

After a year of therapy, intense self-exploration, and work on myself, I've met a fantastic man. Complication: I'm moving. [more inside]
posted by sevensnowflakes on Aug 29, 2013 - 15 answers

Yet another "should we breakup" question

Yet another "should we breakup" question [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 21, 2013 - 40 answers

If I don't miss my ex, then why do I care that he has a new girlfriend?

Hi. I dated my ex for three years and we broke up a little over a year ago. At first I was very hurt and depressed, missed him terribly, was counting on getting back together, and couldn't imagine ever being attracted to or dating anyone again. Now I don't miss him at all and have no desire to be with him, and no longer compare every guy I meet to him. I thought I was over everything, but then last week I found out he's finally dating someone else and I can't help but feel hurt, like I've been replaced. I keep thinking about what she's like and why he likes her even though I do not want to be with him at all. To make matters worse my ex and I work together, so it's possible we might all run into each other, and that makes me want to vomit. I feel like I'm moving ten steps backward in my healing process. How do I proceed?
posted by thank you silence on Jul 28, 2013 - 10 answers

Should I stay and give a new relationship a chance, or move for a new job?

A year ago, I moved across the country for a new job, and unfortunately, I ended up hating it and quitting recently. Now my lease is about to expire, and I have a job opportunity back in the city I left (3,000 miles away). I would go back, but I've just started a new relationship and don't know what to do... [more inside]
posted by three_red_balloons on Aug 2, 2012 - 23 answers

Fixing a Relationship I Broke

Broke up with my girlfriend, but want her back. She's moving away. Some inter-faith drama as well. Thoughts? [more inside]
posted by kilbasar on Jun 17, 2012 - 35 answers

Salvage this breakup or let it go and move on? Is she mature enough for this relationship?

Am I doing the right thing with this breakup? Is there hope or do I need to push through it? [more inside]
posted by ot_refresh on Apr 6, 2012 - 27 answers

Should I stay or should I go.

Should I stay in the city unhappy, or take a big risk and move to the mountains with a wonderful but very new boyfriend? Lots of background inside. [more inside]
posted by Emms on Dec 9, 2011 - 50 answers

I think I need to communicate, but how?

New guy moving away in a few weeks--how do I tell him what I think? [more inside]
posted by queens86 on Sep 6, 2011 - 22 answers

Help me leave my boyfriend quickly and safely

I'm in a bad relationship and I've decided to leave. We live together, and I'm having some trouble plotting the logistics of getting out. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 9, 2011 - 68 answers

From cohabitation to nohabitation

I have lived with my boyfriend of 4 years for 2 of those years and now I am moving out. How can I make this transition smoothly? [more inside]
posted by WeekendJen on Feb 1, 2011 - 9 answers

He's moving, I'm not. How do we ride it out to the end?

Help me make the best of the last two months we have together? He's moving, not dying. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 26, 2010 - 13 answers

My entire life is up in the air

I feel empty and unfulfilled in every major aspect of my life. Please help me see a way out. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 21, 2010 - 12 answers

how to live together in a healthy way

lovers moving in together filter: looking for some practical tips. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 3, 2010 - 30 answers

How to choose a grad school while balancing loans, career paths, and a serious relationship?

Do I go to grad school, and if so, where? Struggling with the best approach to the decision-making process. [more inside]
posted by pants on Apr 5, 2010 - 15 answers

Long distance to short distance?

What are some best practices for taking a relationship from long distance to not? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 9, 2010 - 11 answers

talking about Big Plans in a relationship

Talking Big Plans in a relationship -- how do I distinguish the excitement of approaching life for two from the prudence to not jump the gun, so to speak? [more inside]
posted by elephantsvanish on Mar 2, 2010 - 7 answers

Should I stay or should I go?

LifeFilter: bright lights, big city: I know that geographic relocation is often used by people who are unhappy where they are for reasons other than locale. However, I think that I am truly unhappy where I am. But I have a LTR here, my only relative (Mom) is here, and that's about it. I might be able to do my job telecommuting or at least come to the office only a couple days/week or days/month. *sigh* [more inside]
posted by sio42 on Jul 15, 2009 - 21 answers

I'm probably moving. Do I stay in this relationship or do I go?

I'm in a relationship but unhappy where I live and planning to move. My boyfriend may not wind up joining me. Is it better to cut off the relationship or pursue a long distance relationship again for a little while? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 13, 2009 - 17 answers

We both want to live close to our families, except they live 1,200 miles apart.

We both want to live close to our families, except they live 1,200 miles apart. [more inside]
posted by lolalivia on May 27, 2009 - 14 answers

Should I stay, or should I go?

I'm in love, but I'm going to college. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 31, 2009 - 33 answers

Snoop snoopy snoop

Relationship woes! He wants a relationship, then he doesn't, then he does again. I want this to work out, and seemingly so does he, but I have my doubts after finding "a letter" to some other girl... what to do? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 6, 2009 - 32 answers

Should I move out of boyfriend's, and into best friend's?

How bad a faux pas would it be to move out of a (multi-person) shared house with a new but lovely boyfriend, and into my best friend's house instead? [more inside]
posted by Elysum on Oct 23, 2008 - 28 answers

He may be moving away geographically, should I be moving away emotionally?

Is my relationship going nowhere? And how might I go about asking him what his intentions are without freaking him out? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 23, 2008 - 30 answers

Helpful Hints for the First Time Mover?

Me and the significant other are moving out in about 2 weeks time to our first 1 bedroom apartment. Rent is looking about 1/3 of total income including water, gas and trash (not bad for Southern California) and most of our major furniture/appliance costs seems to be taken care of already. Is there anything we should consider, highlight, or otherwise be aware of before we live the life of paupers?
posted by ilikebike on Jan 5, 2006 - 13 answers

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