I missed out on buying tickets to the only London gig my favourite artist is playing this year (and on top of this he hasn't toured in three years) so I ended up asking my disabled friend if she'd come with me if I paid her ticket. This meant I was able to get tickets to the already sold-out gig after the standard tickets had long gone. While booking, I also realised that the disabled seats area is a prime spot in the venue and very near the stage. Was it immoral that I would "use" my friend's disability to enable me to go see this gig (in a better spot than I could've ever hoped), albeit with her consent/blessing?
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posted by mrsh
on May 3, 2013 -
28 answers
Are there any books that discuss morals as a kind of social norm?
posted by Pants!
on May 12, 2012 -
6 answers
I'm in a panic because of a moral crisis. How can I justify owning anything recreational when others have nothing?
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posted by meta x zen
on Sep 24, 2011 -
48 answers
Give me horror films that purposefully defy or invert the traditional conservativism of horror movie conventions.
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posted by shakespeherian
on Aug 16, 2011 -
33 answers
Suggestions, please, for provocative, informative, hilarious, and/or disturbing documentaries about religion and social/moral/ethical issues?
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posted by devotion+doubt
on May 27, 2011 -
24 answers
I'm making a mod for Amnesia: The Dark Descent, set in Prussia around the turn of the nineteenth century (late 1700s or early 1800s), and I'm looking to add short written excerpts on the theme of abstract justice versus the collateral human cost of achieving it as notes for the player to pick up.
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posted by Tubalcain
on Jan 10, 2011 -
4 answers
Looking for thoughtful criticism (either pro- or anti-) on WikiLeaks, in particular works that explore WikiLeaks' moral dimensions and/or historical context.
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posted by TayBridge
on Dec 21, 2010 -
7 answers
Is it fair to win a contest’s grand prize by exploiting an obscure loophole and cut-throat competition?
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posted by SamFrancisco
on Nov 26, 2010 -
40 answers
How do religious folk who practice food storage as part of preparedness beliefs and customs deal with actual instances of widespread food shortages?
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posted by Ahab
on Oct 12, 2010 -
12 answers
I'm looking for a vaguely-remembered quote to the effect of "I only believe in restrictions that are forbidden to all." The meaning was that man-made injunctions don't carry as much weight as universal ones. Sorry, I can't even recall the author! Maybe Spinoza?
posted by growli
on Aug 9, 2010 -
2 answers
What is a good argument for the immorality of
terribly sadistic but ultimately consensual sex, from a secular perspective?
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posted by limon
on Jan 2, 2010 -
61 answers
Do hotels or motels refuse to rent rooms to unmarried couples anymore? I took my girlfriend on a romantic getaway to the beach this weekend, and while I was not very concerned about it, I did wonder if it would be a problem.
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posted by smoothvirus
on Sep 28, 2009 -
27 answers
Is health care a Ponzi scheme? I'm trying to work out my feelings about the health care debate, and our moral obligations to take care of each other. Will improved health care just lead to larger populations and longer life spans, and more and more expenses to take care of them all? Am I a bad person for thinking this? I smoke, so I'll probably check out early without consuming all your future resources on my elder care. Does this mitigate my xenocidal tendencies or make them worse?
posted by Area Control
on Sep 13, 2009 -
25 answers
Please suggest movies, TV shows and books that feature unrepentant, amoral characters
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posted by reenum
on Jun 10, 2009 -
71 answers
How can I morally justify spending money on luxuries while others lack necessities? Many reputable charities offer ways to save or vastly improve the lives of people in extreme poverty for small donations. What type of person am I if I spend $10 on a movie ticket, for example, that could be spent on mosquito netting to protect a poor child from malaria or to vaccinate dozens of children against measles? I don't see how giving a fixed percentage of my income, such as tithing, absolves me of further moral responsibility.
posted by espertus
on Feb 22, 2009 -
66 answers
[ethicsfilter] two of my friends are getting it on. one of them has herpes. should I tell the other?
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posted by krautland
on Oct 9, 2008 -
70 answers
Someone quoted to me a quote last night that was along the lines of, "War is a brutal and horrible thing, and the more brutal and horrible it is, the faster it's over." He used this both in defense of using nuclear bombs in WWII and in support of a similar approach for Iraq. I don't agree.
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posted by devilsbrigade
on Aug 18, 2007 -
30 answers
What is the risk of buying stolen or otherwise morally questionable goods from a pawn shop?
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posted by ThinkNut
on May 5, 2007 -
33 answers
Art Relationship Morality Filter – Have recently discovered my newly wed wife has lied to me about the contents of a painting that takes pride of place in our small flat.
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posted by anonymous
on Feb 6, 2007 -
41 answers
Jimmy (my friend/roommate/landlord) and I both like to have a sparkling clean apartment. He thinks it's lazy and morally objectionable to hire a maid. I think my free time is valuable so I don't want to spend it cleaning bathrooms.
Since cost isn't a concern, how do I convince my roommate that we should just leave the cleaning to the professionals and hire a maid?
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posted by santry
on Aug 5, 2006 -
50 answers
You're a single mother, with no living relatives except your twin daughters, who are both dying of kidney failure. You have one kidney to donate. Is there a moral/ethical philosophy that deals with such rock/hard place dilemmas?
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posted by grumblebee
on Jun 2, 2006 -
24 answers
Philosophical question regarding opposition: When is it appropriate to leave or boycott an organization when one disagrees with its policies, as opposed to actively working with or within the organization to change its policies to your liking? Recent posts regarding
gay ministers and
Boy Scouts make me wonder whether boycotting organizations is the best approach, or whether one should remain within an organization in an effort to reform it?
posted by Doohickie
on Dec 3, 2004 -
28 answers