What should I do about my mother? I don't get along with her or like her, nor can I afford to have her live with me. Yet she has nowhere to go. I'm in Canada. What are my options?
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posted by j1sh
on Apr 8, 2013 -
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Getting into law school and passing the bar in California with two instances of questionable moral turpitude.
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posted by anonymous
on Jul 16, 2010 -
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Who benefits from an unexpected advantage of a purchases on behalf of another?
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posted by Akeem
on Jul 9, 2010 -
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Should I tell my parents that their cat, which I am looking after, has gone missing, considering that they are about to go on holiday for a few weeks and so won't be able to do anything about it except worry?
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posted by larkery
on Apr 23, 2010 -
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Please suggest movies, TV shows and books that feature unrepentant, amoral characters
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posted by reenum
on Jun 10, 2009 -
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Should I notify an acquaintance about a (non-obvious) faked, sexually-explicit photo of her I saw on the web? Without going into graphic detail, it doesn't render her in the nude in any way, but does depict her, well, with something on her face. I know it's faked because I've seen the original, undoctored photo. Should I leave well-enough alone, or tell her?
posted by anonymous
on Apr 12, 2009 -
27 answers
My dog has damaged (bitten through the skin) 3 other dogs and was just diagnosed with heartworm. I know it's a bit impersonal to ask online, but can help me figure out when it is time to consider putting down my pet?
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posted by anonymous
on Nov 17, 2008 -
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I'm having a bit of an ethical dilemma about a work/pay situation.
An acquaintance and I were hired as consultants by The Company for a 7 day project which required a 2 person team doing 2 different tasks. Task A was less technical than Task B and thus received a lower pay rate than B (with a lower overtime rate also).
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posted by anonymous
on May 1, 2008 -
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What are your "good," "ethical," or "moral" criteria for spending your money? Organic? Fair Trade? Made in America? No Animals Harmed in the Making Of This ____? For the dollars you spend on goods and services, what values do you consider other than the value to yourself? Explain why.
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posted by k7lim
on Nov 19, 2007 -
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I sent my supposedly authentic Italian music manuscripts to Sotheby's of London (after their music manuscripts expert authenticated them in person in NYC) to be auctioned. After they received them in London, they told me they weren't sure if they were authentic and they wouldn't auction them. Problem is, it's going to cost me a lot to get them back, and it already cost quite a bit to mail them to London. More details within.
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posted by FlyByDay
on Oct 14, 2007 -
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How do you give a stranger warning that the new woman in their life is really a bad person?
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posted by jtoth
on Dec 26, 2006 -
29 answers
I'm making a list of 'wise sayings' that contradict eachother. Examples:
Many hands make light work.< -->Too many cooks spoil the broth.
Look before you leap.< --> He who hesitates is lost.
Absence makes the heart grow fonder.< --> Out of sight, out of mind.
More, please, but not from 'pop culture'; rather, phrases more established in literature and ethnic/cultural history. Morals from Aesop's fables? Biblical quotes? >>>
posted by pgoes
on Sep 12, 2005 -
22 answers
On public transit last night, I watched a man tell off a panhandler with such vitriol I found it roundly disturbing. Yet, I did and said nothing. How do you all, and how should I in the future, handle these moments of small scale injustice?
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posted by verysleeping
on Jun 9, 2005 -
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I'm looking for fresh examples from literature (short stories, poems, or parts of larger works) that involve characters who stick to a set of good principles and are admired, even though sticking to the principles may involve some sacrifice for everyone else. A good example would be Le Guin's "The Ones Who Walk Away from Omelas". I'm also looking for examples in which people stubbornly stand by good principles when they are clearly getting in the way of some greater good. [MI]
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posted by ontic
on Jan 17, 2005 -
28 answers