SexFilter/LoveFilter: I love her, so why can't I think only of her? [more inside]
posted by the NATURAL on May 13, 2009 - 34 answers

Lesbian monogamy filter: I am really just a hopeless romantic no matter how hard I try not to be? Should I not move right on to the one waiting in the wings? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 25, 2009 - 16 answers

Should I compromise on monogamy? Can I help her compromise? Or should we call the whole thing off? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 11, 2009 - 72 answers

From "just friends" to "more than friends"; and tips for staying true in a monogamous relationship? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 3, 2008 - 24 answers

Received an offer to enter into an open relationship but feel that it will only lead to heartache. It it better to play it safe or live a little? [more inside]
posted by RingerChopChop on Nov 7, 2008 - 38 answers

Are we a monogamous species? [more inside]
posted by netbros on Jul 14, 2008 - 30 answers

I want a boyfriend. But, in the meantime, I could be having sex with people. Should I? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 30, 2008 - 20 answers

After a long time in a lesbian relationship, I'm coming to the realization that I think I'm straight. I don't want to leave my wife (I really love her), but I can't stop thinking about men. Please help me figure this out. Sexually explicit details inside. NSFW [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 21, 2008 - 23 answers

So... if one person wants a monogamous relationship, and the other a more open one, there's some sort of easy solution to this... right? Anyone? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 6, 2008 - 67 answers

Help me sort out my feelings about the relationship I’m in because I just can’t seem to figure it out. (long and complicated - sorry!) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 25, 2007 - 23 answers

Does anyone know of articles or books documenting the lives of happy, monogamous male gay couples and/or statistics on what % of the male gay population resides in relationships of that type? [more inside]
posted by shivohum on Aug 22, 2006 - 8 answers

Given that you are in a monogamous relationship, when is flirting outside of that relationship inappropriate? [more inside]
posted by sequential on Apr 6, 2006 - 42 answers

Are pretty and popular women more likely to cheat than unpopular women? I have always gone for the quiet, shy girl that was pretty, but pretty in the sort of way that most guys wouldn't notice. Are girls that can have any guy they want more likely to cheat? Or are they more faithful because they have trouble finding guys interested in more than their looks or popularity?
posted by anonymous on Oct 12, 2004 - 19 answers

Which species of ducks mate for life? My info tells me so far that most do: Mallards, Mandarins, Whistling Ducks, Maned Ducks, not to mention geese and swans. But Emperor Ducks are not monogamous? Any other species? And I've read that a surviving Mallard will "remarry" if its mate dies. Is this true, true for both sexes, and do the other species do the same?
posted by Shane on Jul 6, 2004 - 10 answers

IS there any evolutionary advantages to monogamy; non-violence; vegetarianism; religion?
posted by Pericles on Mar 8, 2004 - 12 answers