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Surviving a family holiday with pregnant SIL after a miscarriage.

So this was me a month ago, but sadly my story doesn't have a happy ending. I got pregnant but miscarried shortly after. I'll soon-ish be spending a week on a family holiday with my pregnant sister-in-law and honestly don't know how I'll cope. [more inside]
posted by daybeforetheday on Oct 3, 2016 - 19 answers

Genetic testing options BEFORE becoming pregnant?

Given my family history and recent miscarriages, how can I be proactive about ensuring that my future child will be born healthy? [more inside]
posted by differently on Mar 22, 2016 - 17 answers

Hope for the anxiety-prone?

Husband and I expect to get news a week from Friday (possibly sooner but a week from Friday at the latest) that may either be very exciting and happy or sad. Meanwhile, I am destroying my insides with anxiety. Help me not do that. [more inside]
posted by kat518 on Oct 22, 2015 - 18 answers

My friend lost her baby. I'm pregnant. Should I go to the funeral?

A friend just lost her baby in the second trimester of pregnancy. She's invited me to the funeral. I want to go to support her. I cannot imagine the pain she's going through. But I'm 8 months pregnant and all is going fine. Would this be upsetting for her? [more inside]
posted by Pearl928 on Jun 9, 2015 - 28 answers

How to deal with complicated grief when logic isn't doing the trick?

I recently had a missed miscarriage of a very much wanted pregnancy at 12 weeks. I know logically there must have been a problem that most likely wasn't my fault, that statistically miscarriages happen in 10-20% of known pregnancies....all of that. But this isn't helping my heart - advice? [more inside]
posted by brambory on Apr 29, 2015 - 18 answers

miscarriage number two. so now what?

This was me. It took months to heal then then a few more to get pregnant again. We knew we were pregnant for basically three days before I realized something was wrong. I feel dismissed and I need to be able to advocate for myself better. I am so full of rage. So- people who have experience more than one miscarriage- what do I need to know? What should I be asking? And hey, if you have any nice success stories of babies after more than one loss, that'll be great. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 1, 2015 - 40 answers

Idea's for children's grave

I'm looking for decoration ideas for a children's grave. [more inside]
posted by eternitypost on Jan 20, 2015 - 8 answers

Miscarriage resources?

Some days are ok, some days are just heartbreaking. Where can I look for some support and information after my first pregnancy ended in miscarriage? I'm not sure how to deal with this better. Personal stories are welcome. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 19, 2014 - 27 answers

Seeking an OB/GYN or RE recommendation in greater Seattle area

I'm looking for an OB/GYN or RE in the greater Seattle area after experiencing 3 early miscarriages in the last 10 months. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 7, 2014 - 2 answers

Should we be concerned that misoprostol ended miscarriage symptoms?

My wife was having a miscarriage and was given misoprostol to accelerate the process. She took 4 tablets of 200mg misoprostol under the tongue and 800mg ibuprofen right after that. The signs of miscarriage (considerable pain and bleeding) went away completely after she took the medication. Is this normal? [more inside]
posted by palet on Jan 18, 2014 - 14 answers

Should I tell my boss about my miscarriage?

I was planning to tell my boss I was pregnant after the holidays. Unfortunately I underwent a delayed miscarriage at 13 weeks. I chose to go through the miscarriage naturally and it ended up happening over the Christmas holidays. I am physically almost completely better. I work for a startup and my boss is the CEO. Do I tell him what I have gone through when I return to work on Monday? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 5, 2014 - 37 answers

Advice for broken-hearted 36 y.o. who cannot stay pregnant

My best friend just lost her third pregnancy. She and her husband have been trying to have a baby for 3 years. Her first and second losses were both in the first trimester, causes unknown. This most recent loss was especially horrible - they terminated after profound birth defects (as in: the baby could not survive outside the uterus) were detected on the 20-wk ultrasound. She's 36, and wonders if she'll ever be able to carry a healthy pregnancy to term. Should she give up trying to get pregnant and give birth? Anyone been down this road before and have good advice for her?
posted by hush on Nov 24, 2013 - 28 answers

Please be OK in there, little one...

I'm just about 8 weeks pregnant (very much on purpose) for the first time. Physically, I feel almost normal - symptoms have been extremely mild and fleeting. The combination of worry, gratitude, disbelief and excitement is overwhelming. How did you navigate this uncertain yet sweet time? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 22, 2013 - 26 answers

miscarriage choices

I went for an eight week ultrasound today and my doctor found that the embryo had stopped growing a week ago. She gave me three options: D&C, RU486 (the abortion pill), or to wait things out naturally. She was against the D&C because she was afraid at this early she might not get all the tissue and also the possibility of scarring. I trust her so I have ruled out the D&C. So that leaves the two other options. Even though it's supposedly very painful, I'm leaning toward the RU486. I just want this over. I'm just wondering if there's anything else I have not considered. Thankfully, I have nothing important going on at work (no meetings etc.) until March 25th. But I do need to go out of town for a meeting in Arizona on the 25th, so that's another reason for wanting to get things over with. Just wondering if there's anything else I should take into consideration when making this choice that I haven't thought of. Thank you.
posted by anonymous on Mar 14, 2013 - 31 answers

No fetal heartbeat detected w/ultrasound; 6-8 weeks pregnant. What now

That's pretty much the situation. Depending on how the pregnancy date is calculated, my wife is 6-8 weeks pregnant. Otherwise, the midwife said the amniotic sac and embryo looked OK. We are going out of town for two weeks, so can't get a follow-up until then. Should be be worried? What should we expect? [more inside]
posted by soulbarn on Mar 4, 2013 - 24 answers

Do I need to tell the hiring manager that I'm NOT pregnant?

This fall, when I was unemployed and job hunting, I discovered I was pregnant, kind of like this person: http://ask.metafilter.com/207069/Should-I-reveal-my-pregnancy-in-job-interviews. I did not mention this during interviews, but when I got an offer, I brought it up with the hiring manager as part of my negotiation. I was very pleased that it did not seem like a liability, and he promised I'd be made eligible for their paid maternity leave even though I would have only been there about six months. He also said he'd leave it up to me to tell my boss and team with at least 4 months advance notice. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 27, 2012 - 21 answers

how to recover from stillbirth

Three weeks ago we lost our baby at almost 6 months pregnant. Due to complications I was in and out of the hospital for much of the 3 weeks and it's all just hitting us now. I don't know anyone who has had this experience and would love to hear some suggestions on how to get through this time. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 29, 2012 - 14 answers

How can I win his heart back?

please help me gain back his trust and love - i feel like i'm dying [more inside]
posted by canadiantuxedo on Nov 1, 2012 - 65 answers

How can I get over my miscarriage?

How can I get over having had a miscarriage when there's a strong chance we'll have to make the choice not to have another child? [more inside]
posted by christinetheslp on Jun 25, 2012 - 22 answers

Should I send my condolences in hard-form?

My cousin's wife just lost her baby at 4 months along. This is her second miscarriage (one full-term pregnancy in between, daughter is now 1.5 y/o). I would like to send a card or have flowers delivered, but is it appropriate? [more inside]
posted by kthxbi on Apr 27, 2012 - 27 answers

So why don't you just adopt?

Adoption after infertility and loss: how did you reconcile the grief of not conceiving a biological child and come to find joy in the process of adopting? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 29, 2011 - 14 answers

Searching for a "letter" written by a father to his miscarried baby

Searching for a narrative I heard on the radio years ago (sometime between 1997 and 2007, I think). It was basically a father's letter to his unborn child, whom he lost in a miscarriage. At one point in the narration, I believe he refered to his baby - or simply the embryo's size - as a grain of rice. I think I may have heard it on NPR... I know this is terribly vague, but since my recent miscarriage, I have been desperate to hear/read it again. Does this ring a bell with anyone? If so, can someone tell me where I can access it - or at least offer me more specific search terms?
posted by mishmish on Oct 31, 2011 - 5 answers

Pet miscarriage

Pet miscarriage. More detail inside.. [more inside]
posted by jassi on Jul 14, 2011 - 7 answers

Need help coping with multiple miscarriage

Help me get over my miscarriages. I know logically that there's nothing I did that made them happen, but I can't seem to shake the feeling that a) I caused them through bad thoughts or actions, and b) that this negativity means that even if we do conceive again, I'm going to lose the next one as well because I can't make those thoughts go away. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 22, 2011 - 26 answers

How can I tell if my baby is still okay in there?

How can I tell if my baby is still okay in there? [more inside]
posted by Omnomnom on Sep 8, 2010 - 21 answers

What can I get for my friend who just had a miscarriage?

What can I get for my friend who just had a miscarriage? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 24, 2010 - 13 answers

I didn't want a baby, anyway.

(How) Do I tell my boyfriend I had a miscarriage? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 8, 2010 - 32 answers

how do you tell a secret like this one?

We broke up. Then, I had a miscarriage. It's been several months, but I'm beginning to feel really guilty. Should I tell him? If so, how? (maybe a little NSFW, better safe than sorry) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 20, 2009 - 41 answers

Miscarriage questions - please advise.

Need help diagnosing miscarriage/blighted ovum, specifics inside. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 7, 2009 - 15 answers

Pregnancy after miscarriage - how do I cope?

How do I deal with this pregnancy, after a recent miscarriage? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 6, 2009 - 11 answers

Incompetent Cervix: Information/Advice/Experiences?

I have an incompetent cervix, and I have lost two babies because of it. My husband and I are now trying to decide if we should try to get pregnant again. Help me find treatment options and good sources for second opinions. [more inside]
posted by TEA on Mar 16, 2009 - 10 answers

Husband miscarriage woe

Post-miscarriage expectations. [more inside]
posted by jimmythefish on Jan 31, 2009 - 18 answers

Keeping My Big, Pregnant Mouth Shut

I'm pregnant, and very likely to miscarry. Telling the father that I'm pregnant will open up a gigantic can of worms, something I'd much rather avoid if I am going to miscarry anyway. How long can I ethically wait to notify him about my situation? [more inside]
posted by iliketrafficlights on Nov 7, 2008 - 45 answers

How soon to try again after a miscarriage?

How soon to try again after a miscarriage? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 29, 2008 - 13 answers

Miscarriage recovery

I recently had a miscarriage (at 11 weeks), and had a D&C. That was two weeks ago, and now I can't sleep at all during the night. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 18, 2008 - 14 answers

medical history

is there any way to know for sure if i was pregnant/miscarried several years ago? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 23, 2008 - 8 answers

Periods after Miscarriage

Periods after Miscarriage? I had a miscarriage on 10-28-07. The first period after that was November 28 through December 3rd. It was complete and there was no D & C. I had a follow up with my OB 11-28 . Before the pregnancy and miscarriage my body was more predictable. Can a miscarriage change my body and periods? [more inside]
posted by Snoogylips on Dec 26, 2007 - 7 answers

Can't be a mommy yet.

I had sex for the first time, and less than a week later I had period-like cramps and some blood spotting in my underwear. Was I, or am I now, pregnant? We took every possible precaution... [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 29, 2007 - 55 answers

What can I say to a newly pregnant woman?

A while ago, one of my work colleagues had a miscarriage. Now, she's pregnant again. Woohoo! [more inside]
posted by Solomon on Oct 8, 2007 - 9 answers

How I can support a friend who miscarried?

A very dear friend had a miscarriage earlier this year. Suddenly our friends are getting pregnant, and I think it's difficult for her. Are there any extra ways I can support her? [more inside]
posted by thehmsbeagle on Oct 3, 2007 - 11 answers

How to help a young couple come to terms with a miscarriage?

How do I help a young couple who have recently (within the past 10 days) suffered the trauma of a miscarriage? Baby was due in just over a month. [more inside]
posted by Solomon on Mar 11, 2007 - 23 answers

Using acupuncture to treat recurring miscarriages?

Last week, I had my second early miscarriage. In addition to a battery of tests I'm trying to convince my ob/gyn to give me, I'm also considering treatment with acupuncture. [more inside]
posted by discokitty on Dec 13, 2006 - 19 answers

Bye-bye baby

How long will it take for my body to return to normal after a miscarriage? How about my mind? [more inside]
posted by arcticwoman on Oct 3, 2006 - 20 answers

How do I stay sane while I try to conceive after a miscarriage?

How do I stay sane while I try to conceive after a miscarriage? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 11, 2006 - 31 answers

Is the baby alive?

A friend who is 8 weeks pregnant recently had an ultrasound. The computer said that she was only 6 weeks pregnant. She suspected that the baby might have died two weeks ago, which is why it has remained at a 6 week size. However, the levels of hormones in her blood continue to rise as if she were pregnant. Is more likely the the baby is just somehow undersized, or that the baby has died but the pregnancy has continued?
posted by stray on Mar 11, 2005 - 22 answers

How likely is it that this person lied to me about a miscarriage?

A young woman of my acquaintance told me last week that she was pregnant. (No, I'm not the father). This morning she told me that she'd miscarried. She has lied to me in the past, and I'm a bit suspicious she might have made the whole thing up. There are a couple of minor-but-strange inconsistencies in her story, which I haven't pressed her on in the interest of being supportive. We communicate mostly by instant-messenger, so cues like tone of voice and body language aren't available.

When she told me she'd miscarried, she wrote "I was using the bathroom...and there was blood...and I saw it." ("It" presumably meaning the fetus). Is that plausible? Her last period was just before Christmas so she was at most six weeks pregnant at the time, with four being more likely. Would there be a visible fetus at that point, and would it actually be ejected from the body during a miscarriage? I don't intend to castigate her, especially if there's even a remote chance that there's truth to this. I'll probably never even mention that I know she lied. I would just like to know.
posted by anonymous on Feb 5, 2005 - 12 answers

Miscarriage Advice and Support

Miscarriage advice. [more inside]
posted by sgt.serenity on Jul 9, 2004 - 9 answers

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