Are relationships a zero sum game? Is there such a thing as a happy compromise? [more inside]
For the last several years I have seen an increase in young men (late teens to late twenties) wearing knit caps. Summer, Winter, the season doesn't seem to matter. My question is this. How and where did this "fashion statement" originate? And a secondary question would be, don't they get hot wearing those hats in the middle of the summer?
Do women notice a man's shoes and to what extent? [more inside]
Lesbian-dating-a-man-filter. When should I tell a guy that I'm dating that I've only ever dated girls before? And how? And does it even matter? [more inside]
It seems to be a commonly acceptably statement that women are better at multi-tasking than men. Is there any research into the opposite? Purely anecdotal evidence suggests that women aren't as hot at single tasking as men, but I've never seen this suggested...
I'd like to learn to dress well and look sharp... but I've got no natural talent for it. Can anybody help me figure out how/where to start? (more inside) [more inside]
Why do some people's hair on their head and pubic hair not match in color? [more inside]
"Women are different than men. In a relationship, a man needs to be the one who takes care of a woman when she's angry, who tells her to calm down. A man needs to be more understanding than a woman, and a woman needs to be allowed to have her moods." Really? I'd like to call bullshit, but I don't quite know how. (Long explanation inside) [more inside]
How to stop married man from flirting when it's reciprocal? I'm a notoriously bad crusher. Even though almost everyone would describe me as a competent, sensible, self-assured and promising young woman, I completely loose myself when someone breaks through to my inner core. It's not that it happens all the time either, but when it does it's with a vengeance. I would definitely describe it as a 'crushing' sensation. [more inside]
I'm a dude; he's a dude. I'm in love with him, and I need to get over him. But I can't. Please help me. [more inside]
I am looking for literature or cinema depicting positive male behavior. That is, men acting in mature, forward, ways.
Men's moisturizer with SPF or separate moisturizer and sunscreen? [more inside]
Cologne Filter: I like Subtil by Ferragamo. Recommend me something new! [more inside]
Why are these two males acting funny with me? [more inside]
I'm a guy with fairly long hair (halfway down my back long). Currently I have two styles: Tied back in a ponytail and not tied back. What else can I do with my hair that won't be too feminine-looking? I'm looking for short-term things, not long term things like dreadlocks.
In Mad men episode 11 (the jet set) in season 2...what house is that in Palm Springs? I'm an architecture geek and desperately need to know. The best I can figure is that its the Kaufman House...but it's not quite right. I'm resigned to the fact that its some backlot set.
As a bisexual woman I've been thinking lately about the strange status of bisexual men in my society (the USA). There are surely plenty of bi men around - I've met several and dated a couple, but I've read very little in depth writing from the point of view of men who date or sleep with both men and women. [more inside]
Well, today on the cover of my local paper it said that "1.1 million men have been laid off (in this state) since last year. But, there's now 15,000 more women working than there were this time last year!" WHUT!?!? [more inside]
Can you think of any men who write, or have written, or create in any medium, under a woman's name? (I'm excluding transsexuals, and examples such as men in Shakespearean theatre and Japanese Noh Theatre.) There are plenty of women who have written under men's names, but I can't come up with a single example of the other way round. A true situation, or just my ignorance? [more inside]
Gifts-for-men filter: don't worry, I know generally what I want to get, I'm just looking for specific item suggestions/brand names for a) a person who needs gloves, and b) a person who occasionally likes cigars. [more inside]
Sex is often touted as beneficial for one's health. Is this supposed to be true for both men and women, and how much evidence is there for the claim (apart from calorie expenditure, which is still negligible compared to actual aerobic exercise)? And is it primarily the orgasm that's supposedly healthful, or even sex sans orgasm?
Long distance relationship - he's fantastic when we're together, but "off" when we're apart.. what's up?
4-month long distance "relationship" - he's fantastic when we're together, but "off" when we're apart.. what's up? [more inside]
Modern haircut or salon for a guy in pittsburgh [more inside]
Help me resolve a Catch-22 about meeting new people of the opposite sex. [more inside]
Looking for bits and pieces for 'No Country for Old Men' Halloween Costume...Anyone know where I can get a 'Javier Bardem' looking bowl cut wig ?
He likes me.. says I'm cute, smart and does want to be intimate.. but doesn't want a relationship. What is wrong? [more inside]
I'm a girl, getting married in a boy's suit. What shoes do I wear ? [more inside]
As a man, does talking to a woman about your adventures with other women put you on the friends ladder? [more inside]
Does dating through craigslist actually work? [more inside]
I’m a girl. I have zero problems being friends with men. I try to be friends with other women, but they're not having it. I’m doing something wrong. What is it? [more inside]
Got any photos and ideas of what a tall, reasonably fit, 40-year-old man look like with his shirt off? [more inside]
NSFW, graphic question about shaving below the belt. Proceed with caution. [more inside]
[grooming-filter] how do I beat the five o'clock shadow? [more inside]
Looking for examples from film of men nurturing women. [more inside]
Help me learn to dress my husband! Tips/tricks/resources on developing a good eye for men's business attire? [more inside]
I have a question about paying physical compliments to men, especially in the early stages of a relationship. Men compliment women about their appearance often. Do they want these compliments returned, or is there a separate protocol for woman-to-man commentary? [more inside]
I'm a female with this recurring fantasy about two men (my biggest fantasy since I was 15). How do I go about fulfilling it? Wait, there's a catch or two. [NSFW] [more inside]
I need ideas for natural body colognes. [more inside]
What male fashion magazines should I be reading/looking at/purchasing?
Here’s one of those how-do-I-play-this? relationship questions. At the very beginning of a possible relationship (with a touring musician) that I'd really like to give a chance to, but he may be too scared. (explanation inside) [more inside]
Has there been any change in trend of accident rates for men under 25 since insurance companies have charge higher rates? Or has the trend been unaffected by this economic incentive?
How can I be more relaxed, and less anxious (read: totally flipping out) about dating people I like? [more inside]
Looking for a good mens haircut in the Toronto area. [more inside]
Hip men's clothing (stores, boutiques, thrift shops, hole-in-the-walls) in or near Seattle, within an hour's drive. [more inside]
I'm on the cusp of dating someone soon after a breakup. Is it too soon? [more inside]
HaircutFilter: Help me choose a men's haircut/style. [more inside]
What songs are out there about a woman getting good, life changing lovin' from a a man. [more inside]
I keep attracting girls who are incompatible with me. How can I get women who I actually have a future with? [more inside]
My overgrown eyebrows are starting to look ugly and unsightly. On occasion, i've taken to myself to pluck some out. Recently, (many months) i've left the area unattended and now i almost have a unibrow and both brows are really bushy/thick. Where can i go in Chicago to get them worked on? [more inside]
When you do something extra-sweet, thoughtful, or generous for your girl... are you satisfied with her response? What do men need in order to know that their efforts are truly appreciated? [more inside]