Heterosexual male in his early 30s after a long-term relationship finds himself not really interested in the opposite sex. Is this normal?
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posted by anonymous
on Oct 28, 2009 -
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difficult gift shopping filter: Help me find books, toys, comics, music, etc that provide a broad, varying, and largely non-traditional view of masculinity for my little brother, who is absolutely nothing like me or anyone else in our family. More details than necessary inside!
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posted by ellehumour
on Oct 26, 2009 -
36 answers
What are the best online or print resources in English language about lifestyle and individuality of soshoku-danshi (grass-eating/herbivore men)? Not looking for news articles, thanks!
posted by parmanparman
on Oct 26, 2009 -
5 answers
Can you recommend interesting men's shoe makers? I really (really!) like a lot of Cydwoq shoes, and some Fluevog's. I dislike shoes styled after athletic shoes or old track spikes. I'm most interested in learning about high style, relatively unusual shoes. They can be dress or casual.
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posted by OmieWise
on Oct 8, 2009 -
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Paris help: I am organising a weekend for a group of men in Paris in mid October. We're arriving Friday night, staying at a hostel on rue Mouffetard, doing some activities on the Saturday and heading home Sunday night. I need some advice on locations... and activities... and everything...
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posted by einekleine
on Oct 7, 2009 -
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Looking for an article regarding the fact that single men are responsible for more social breakthroughs than are married men/fathers.
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posted by myodometer
on Oct 3, 2009 -
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My Disgusting Body And You: For reasons I can't divulge, I will be appearing nude in public come November. What can I do in a month so I look my naked best? I don't have a gym and really can't afford one, and my time is going to be pretty tight for the first two weeks in October...
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posted by The Whelk
on Sep 29, 2009 -
39 answers
I'm sartorially clueless. How would you describe
this kind of shirt? It's a "dress shirt", sure, but how would you specify the fabric and cut (particularly that type of collar)?
Here is another example. I'm looking to buy some shirts like these but when I go to department stores I can only find
this sort of thing - which is cut completely differently and uses an extremely thin fabric. Help me articulate the differences.
posted by phrontist
on Sep 29, 2009 -
18 answers
Recommend unique, affordable men's clothing resale stores in Manhattan or Brooklyn? Hipster ok, or vintage. I'm looking mainly for short- and long-sleeve collared shirts.
posted by 4midori
on Sep 27, 2009 -
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How do men's patterns of sexual attraction change as they age? That is, are older guys really attracted to older partners, or are they just being polite/settling for what they can get?
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posted by Bardolph
on Sep 25, 2009 -
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Men's suit-filter: Went to the tailor to get a couple of my suit jackets looked at. They told me that it wasn't that the shoulder was too tight (which I'd thought was the problem), but it was that the there wasn't enough room in the sleeve, in the area around my triceps. And upon opening up the inside of the sleeve, the tailor pronounced that there wasn't enough fabric to make the sleeve significantly bigger.
Is there any way around this? Thanks MeFites!
posted by demagogue
on Sep 1, 2009 -
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Which recording of "Cup of Loneliness" is used at the end of Mad Men season 2 episode 12, "The Mountain King", and where can I get it?
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posted by teem
on Aug 8, 2009 -
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I really like the smell of American Crew haircare products, the
gel in particular. Does anyone know where (or if) a replica line of products is available?
posted by tfmm
on Aug 7, 2009 -
7 answers
Can I use a depilatory cream on my male genitals? or
Non-sharp ball hair removal suggestions.
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posted by anonymous
on Aug 4, 2009 -
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I have been watching the AMC series
Mad Men (set in NYC office setting around 1960) and it made me wonder. Just how accurately does it portray the professional workplace of the period? (Ubiquitous smoking, drinking, degrading comments to women and overt flirting, etc.). In particular, was it ever considered normal to keep a stocked bar in every office/conference room?
I realize things are exaggerated for TV and to contrast with today’s norms... but generally speaking was it really this bad back then? I guess I am looking for responses from those who are familiar with the TV show and worked in an office in this timeframe.
posted by punkfloyd
on Jul 16, 2009 -
38 answers
How accurate are the media portrayals of young people engaging in risky sexual behaviors?
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posted by reenum
on Jul 8, 2009 -
54 answers
Anyone who has been to Australia or talked to any Australian males (sometimes females) will know they frequently call people they have never met before or even people they're angry with: "mate". What other expressions of universal male bonding are used in other countries?
posted by vizsla
on Jun 18, 2009 -
35 answers
For the last several years I have seen an increase in young men (late teens to late twenties) wearing knit caps. Summer, Winter, the season doesn't seem to matter. My question is this. How and where did this "fashion statement" originate? And a secondary question would be, don't they get hot wearing those hats in the middle of the summer?
posted by Hanuman1960
on Jun 10, 2009 -
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Lesbian-dating-a-man-filter. When should I tell a guy that I'm dating that I've only ever dated girls before? And how? And does it even matter?
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posted by anonymous
on May 30, 2009 -
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It seems to be a commonly acceptably statement that women are better at multi-tasking than men. Is there any research into the opposite? Purely anecdotal evidence suggests that women aren't as hot at single tasking as men, but I've never seen this suggested...
posted by twine42
on May 25, 2009 -
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I'd like to learn to dress well and look sharp... but I've got no natural talent for it. Can anybody help me figure out how/where to start? (more inside)
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posted by captainawesome
on May 17, 2009 -
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"Women are different than men. In a relationship, a man needs to be the one who takes care of a woman when she's angry, who tells her to calm down. A man needs to be more understanding than a woman, and a woman needs to be allowed to have her moods."
Really? I'd like to call bullshit, but I don't quite know how. (Long explanation inside)
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posted by saysthis
on Apr 18, 2009 -
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How to stop married man from flirting when it's reciprocal? I'm a notoriously bad crusher. Even though almost everyone would describe me as a competent, sensible, self-assured and promising young woman, I completely loose myself when someone breaks through to my inner core. It's not that it happens all the time either, but when it does it's with a vengeance. I would definitely describe it as a 'crushing' sensation.
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posted by anonymous
on Apr 14, 2009 -
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I'm a dude; he's a dude. I'm in love with him, and I need to get over him. But I can't. Please help me.
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posted by anonymous
on Apr 12, 2009 -
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I am looking for literature or cinema depicting positive male behavior.
That is, men acting in mature, forward, ways.
posted by ebesan
on Mar 30, 2009 -
47 answers
I'm a guy with fairly long hair (halfway down my back long). Currently I have two styles: Tied back in a ponytail and not tied back. What else can I do with my hair that won't be too feminine-looking? I'm looking for short-term things, not long term things like dreadlocks.
posted by xchmp
on Jan 28, 2009 -
60 answers
In Mad men episode 11 (the jet set) in season 2...what house is that in Palm Springs? I'm an architecture geek and desperately need to know. The best I can figure is that its the
Kaufman House...but it's not quite right. I'm resigned to the fact that its some backlot set.
posted by badkarmaboy
on Jan 13, 2009 -
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As a bisexual woman I've been thinking lately about the strange status of bisexual men in my society (the USA). There are surely plenty of bi men around - I've met several and dated a couple, but I've read very little in depth writing from the point of view of men who date or sleep with both men and women.
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posted by crabintheocean
on Dec 29, 2008 -
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Well, today on the cover of my local paper it said that "1.1 million men have been laid off (in this state) since last year. But, there's now 15,000 more women working than there were this time last year!" WHUT!?!?
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posted by shipbreaker
on Dec 16, 2008 -
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Can you think of any men who write, or have written, or create in any medium, under a woman's name? (I'm excluding transsexuals, and examples such as men in Shakespearean theatre and Japanese Noh Theatre.) There are plenty of women who have written under men's names, but I can't come up with a single example of the other way round. A true situation, or just my ignorance?
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posted by kestralwing
on Nov 25, 2008 -
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Gifts-for-men filter: don't worry, I know
generally what I want to get, I'm just looking for specific item suggestions/brand names for a) a person who needs gloves, and b) a person who occasionally likes cigars.
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posted by EmpressCallipygos
on Nov 25, 2008 -
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Sex is often touted as beneficial for one's health. Is this supposed to be true for both men and women, and how much evidence is there for the claim (apart from calorie expenditure, which is still negligible compared to actual aerobic exercise)? And is it primarily the orgasm that's supposedly healthful, or even sex sans orgasm?
posted by taramosalata
on Nov 10, 2008 -
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4-month long distance "relationship" - he's fantastic when we're together, but "off" when we're apart.. what's up?
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posted by freshsprout
on Nov 10, 2008 -
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Looking for bits and pieces for 'No Country for Old Men' Halloween Costume...Anyone know where I can get a 'Javier Bardem' looking bowl cut wig ?
posted by ashepp
on Sep 29, 2008 -
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He likes me.. says I'm cute, smart and does want to be intimate.. but doesn't want a relationship. What is wrong?
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posted by freshsprout
on Sep 27, 2008 -
38 answers
As a man, does talking to a woman about your adventures with other women put you on the friends ladder?
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posted by harwons
on Sep 5, 2008 -
66 answers
