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I have enough male friends.

Men love being my friend but not dating me. Am I doing something wrong? [more inside]
posted by unannihilated on Mar 18, 2012 - 48 answers

Help me not screw things up

How can I keep being my confident and independent self around men I'm seriously interested in? [more inside]
posted by unannihilated on Mar 10, 2012 - 9 answers

Where did 30 years go suddenly?

Seeking Dear Abby, handholding and guidance for Dummies. Yes, this is about a man and yes I'm feeling totally clueless. Help. [more inside]
posted by infini on Feb 20, 2012 - 66 answers

Slim Slacks of the shelf, anyone?

Where do the more fashionable young men in NYC get their slacks? I need some nice pants and I don't want to look like my father. Where can I get some fashionable, slimmer, non-break, pants in NYC? [more inside]
posted by Bengston on Feb 16, 2012 - 21 answers

How do I wear this blazer and not look like an idiot?

How do I wear this blazer and not look like an idiot? I have absolutely no idea how I am going to wear this. I'd like to dress it up, with maybe a white shirt and tie, but what colors? And what color pants? I am totally confused as to why my mom would buy this for me as a gift.
posted by sushi69 on Feb 14, 2012 - 34 answers

Finding an Oxford Shirt that Doesn't Shine

Where can I find a non-pinpoint, non-royal, but awesome men's oxford shirt? [more inside]
posted by tmcw on Feb 4, 2012 - 16 answers

Do you have any advice or testimonials for someone new to wet shaving?

Do you have any advice or testimonials for someone new to wet shaving? [more inside]
posted by Jeff Morris on Jan 25, 2012 - 24 answers

Should I let my boyfriend sleep with other women?

Is it a poor idea to let your partner have sex with other people, knowing that you will be hurt by it? Will it be more likely to help or hurt our relationship if he indulges in his fantasies with other women – and is this a reasonable compromise for someone to make? [more inside]
posted by labandita on Jan 22, 2012 - 107 answers

You are what you eat--are you also HOW you eat?

Anecdata search: Do men eat differently than women do? (I'm not talking about WHAT they eat, but about HOW they eat.) [more inside]
posted by dlugoczaj on Jan 9, 2012 - 51 answers

what is good sex for men?

What is good sex for men? Once, I was married, in an abusive relationship. I've suddenly realized it is 15 years ago, and that I still haven't moved on. I've been in relationships since, each in their way failed, and each more or less failed because of my inability to get over the trauma of the abuse. Now, I've met someone new, after an almost total abstinence of 10 years. And I need to move on. The main issue for me, right now, is lack of confidence regarding sex. My ex-husband repeatedly told me I was no good in bed. And now I feel I have no idea what is good in bed. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 8, 2012 - 31 answers

Bollywood music video with men dancing while sitting on the toilets in lockerroom

looking for a Bollywood music video that has men dancing while sitting in toilet stalls--the camera is moving around in a locker room or similar setting and it pans across the tops of the stalls and in each one a guy is sitting AND dancing on the toilet. i know there are a MILLION Bollywood music videos, so this may be like looking for a needle in a haystack, but perhaps someone out there may recognize this one--it certainly is a bit weirder than most of them. i saw it on a monitor in an Indian restaurant, but the waiter didn't know anything about where to find it.
posted by cmp4Meta on Jan 7, 2012 - 5 answers

Feminism 102?

What books, articles or online resources would you suggest to introduce a well-intentioned guy to feminism? [more inside]
posted by peacheater on Jan 3, 2012 - 12 answers

Orchids

Getting romantic flowers from fiance.. [more inside]
posted by pakora1 on Nov 21, 2011 - 39 answers

How friendly is too friendly with an attached man?

Are you a bad person if your guy friend leaves his girlfriend for you? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 30, 2011 - 56 answers

How to look decent with curly hair

So I'm a 23-year-old guy with curly hair. My hairstyle has been based almost entirely on neglect since I was born. Time to grow up. How does a guy get away with curly hair in 2011? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 16, 2011 - 23 answers

Is it believable for a young adult male to go to a strip club and say that he doesn't enjoy the entertainment?

Is it believable for a young adult male to go to a strip club and say that he doesn't enjoy the entertainment? [more inside]
posted by DeltaForce on Sep 19, 2011 - 88 answers

How much to tip for men's haircut?

How much should I tip a hairdresser for a men's haircut in the US? $5? $10? 10%? 25%? How much money signals that you are thrilled with the cut, rather than just okay with it? Thoughts from people who have worked in barber shops and salons would be most appreciated.
posted by mortaddams on Sep 12, 2011 - 29 answers

Male-dominated workplaces that work for women - the good, the better and the best

I'm wondering about what measures can be taken to increase gender diversity in male-dominated workplaces. For women who work in male-dominated fields - how did your company's culture contribute to creating an appealing work environment for you? What can be done to build and foster this kind of culture? [more inside]
posted by remixnine on Sep 11, 2011 - 25 answers

Jacketless casual wear for large men in the tropics?

I'm a large guy in the tropics. How do I dress smartly without having to put on a jacket or a coat? [more inside]
posted by micketymoc on Sep 9, 2011 - 13 answers

Setting boundaries with people (men, in particular!)

How do I set boundaries with people while staying true to my accepting, easy going nature? [more inside]
posted by sunnychef88 on Sep 3, 2011 - 9 answers

Is the sexism displayed on the TV show Mad Men even close to accurate? Played up? Toned down even?

Is the sexism displayed on the TV show Mad Men even close to accurate? Played up? Toned down even? [more inside]
posted by Senor Cardgage on Aug 14, 2011 - 77 answers

Can I cure pathetic?

My relationships with men are ruining my ability to advance in my career. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 9, 2011 - 41 answers

Sing O Muse

Who are some literary male muses? [more inside]
posted by miss-lapin on Jul 22, 2011 - 27 answers

Chime in regarding wedding shoes for a guy

Man searching for wedding shoes. Hit a wall in my research. Help out if you can. [more inside]
posted by Jagz-Mario on Jul 19, 2011 - 15 answers

Confirmed bachelors with more female friends than male?

What fictional male characters are confirmed bachelors with many female friends and few male friends? I'm especially interested in stories set before 1950. [more inside]
posted by Sticherbeast on Jul 18, 2011 - 6 answers

I've thick, dark facial hair. How can I get a closer shave?

I've thick, dark facial hair. How can I get a closer shave? [more inside]
posted by GlassHeart on Jun 17, 2011 - 27 answers

My new name: Fabio.

Should I wear axe bodywash? [more inside]
posted by sully75 on Jun 13, 2011 - 97 answers

The ladies are having a bridal shower, the guys are...

My fiance and her lady friends and family are getting together tomorrow for a bridal shower in our Brooklyn apartment. That leaves the guys (all different ages and all different interests) in the family with the chance to go hang out and do male-bonding stuff. I'm going to check to see if there are any interesting sporting events on tv tomorrow afternoon, but that aside, what should we do that will be fun and low-key? Bonus if the place is relatively close to a G train stop. [more inside]
posted by Jagz-Mario on May 27, 2011 - 8 answers

Ending the bromance

This is the sort of AskMe question I thought I'd never ask. I am having big problems with my best friend of 25 years (we are both men), and I think I need to walk away. Help? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 21, 2011 - 30 answers

Where to discuss marital problems with other men?

Can anyone recommend a website where I can get input from other men (and I'm not against input from women too) about problems I have with my wife with her excessive moodiness, total lack of interest in physical intimacy, and general verbally hostile and abusive ways? I'm thinking either a traditional forum or a more contemporary Q&A type site.
posted by Dansaman on May 18, 2011 - 9 answers

Where can I find men's button-fly pants??

Where can I find men's button-fly trousers??? I have searched and searched for men's button fly trousers. Not looking for Levi 501s (those are easy to find). [more inside]
posted by corwalch on May 14, 2011 - 13 answers

Insight as to why this guy who is interested in me is acting nervous?

Why is the guy who appears to have a crush on me suddenly acting so nervous? Why isn't he contacting me more now that I have expressed interest? [more inside]
posted by sunnychef88 on Apr 28, 2011 - 70 answers

Please help this fictional illiterate...

My brain needs some fiction reading and I'd like some recommendations based on my tastes in TV/Film: Mad Men, Quadrophenia, Good Fellas, The Krays, There Will Be Blood, Election, Spinal Tap, American Beauty, Eyes Wide Shut, Flashbacks of Fool, The Graduate, Rushmore. Thanks!
posted by punkfloyd on Apr 16, 2011 - 20 answers

How am I going to look like I just rolled out of bed now?

My favourite hair product has been discontinued - is there a similar replacement? [more inside]
posted by sleepcrime on Apr 9, 2011 - 9 answers

revise image

I'm no longer satisfied with 'preppy' clothes. Help me pick some nice clothes? [more inside]
posted by past on Mar 29, 2011 - 15 answers

How can I learn to like dancing?

I'm a guy. I'm 31. I live in San Francisco. I've never really liked dancing in any sense of the word--how can I change this? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 27, 2011 - 21 answers

How sanitary are the insides of public toilets?

Am I being germophobic about the public toilet in my office? (possibly gross details within) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 17, 2011 - 22 answers

Distinctive smell of sexually-aroused men's breath?

I recently went out on a date with a woman I'm interested in. (I'm an early-30s male.) It's very early in the proceedings, so we're still getting used to each other. Anyway, during this date, she informed me that sexually-aroused men have a particular odor in their breath, and that I'd had it all evening. Later on, she told me that she actually didn't care for the odor at all, which was news to me. This is the first I've heard of this phenomenon, so I'd like to learn more about it. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 7, 2011 - 75 answers

How do you solve a problem like Roberto?

Should I just give up? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 15, 2011 - 45 answers

Dress like an adult, in Houston

Where to shop in order to dress like an adult, in Houston. [more inside]
posted by bumpkin on Feb 4, 2011 - 6 answers

Making childbirth easier

What is the term for the ritual in which men simultaneously enact childbirth in order to take away some of the pain their wives are undergoing? [more inside]
posted by tavegyl on Jan 19, 2011 - 3 answers

Don Draper's drink glasses?

Need help finding the glasses found in Don's office in Mad Men (as seen on the season 3 dvd/blu ray cover here and here). Just want to buy them, assume similarity with these glasses, not price, is the priority.
posted by Patbon on Jan 5, 2011 - 5 answers

I'm 35 years old. I'm funny, smart, beautiful. I make good money and have a lot of friends. But I've never been in love, nor has anyone told me they loved me. Forever Alone?

I'm 35 years old. I'm funny, smart, beautiful. I make good money and have a lot of friends. But I've never been in love, nor has anyone told me they loved me. Forever Alone? [more inside]
posted by boostershot on Dec 30, 2010 - 93 answers

“I still have my feet on the ground, I just wear better shoes.” Oprah

Shoes for a man. From a woman who knows only the barest bit more about fashion than he does. Difficulty: for an engineer who wears mostly khaki slacks and jeans, wants to look a little sharper at work, and wants to be more comfortable working out and dancing (resoling for dancing is perfectly fine). Bonus points: men's 11 AAA (yes, that's 3 A). [more inside]
posted by bilabial on Dec 8, 2010 - 17 answers

Stuck in an impossible dating dilemma: overhaul my entire self, or never have a relationship with a man?

Stuck in an impossible dating dilemma: overhaul my entire self, or never have a relationship with a man? [more inside]
posted by tamagogirl on Dec 7, 2010 - 28 answers

Post Quarter Life Crisis....now what?

Is it normal to WANT to be single for a long time or am I [subconsciously] still hurt over a breakup? [more inside]
posted by penguingrl on Dec 6, 2010 - 30 answers

Orgasms for a man who lasts hours (to days)? NSFW.

I'm in a new relationship with a great guy. Of course there's a but. He has a hard time getting to orgasm, and I'm having a difficult time dealing with that. NSFW [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 19, 2010 - 32 answers

Advice for Sleeping Beauty with Atrophied Wings

Older women, younger men; is there hope for a sleeping beauty? [more inside]
posted by sleeping beauty on Oct 28, 2010 - 25 answers

Basic boring black shoe?

Suggest a basic black leather men's shoe to wear with jeans? [more inside]
posted by smackfu on Oct 13, 2010 - 25 answers

She must have Daddy Issues.

How do I overcome my severe trust issues with men? Very long backstory inside, be warned. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 7, 2010 - 25 answers

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