Seeking Dear Abby, handholding and guidance for Dummies. Yes, this is about a man and yes I'm feeling totally clueless. Help.
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posted by infini
on Feb 20, 2012 -
66 answers
Where do the more fashionable young men in NYC get their slacks? I need some nice pants and I don't want to look like my father. Where can I get some fashionable, slimmer, non-break, pants in NYC?
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posted by Bengston
on Feb 16, 2012 -
21 answers
How do I wear
this blazer and not look like an idiot? I have absolutely no idea how I am going to wear this. I'd like to dress it up, with maybe a white shirt and tie, but what colors? And what color pants? I am totally confused as to why my mom would buy this for me as a gift.
posted by sushi69
on Feb 14, 2012 -
34 answers
Where can I find a non-pinpoint, non-royal, but awesome men's oxford shirt?
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posted by tmcw
on Feb 4, 2012 -
16 answers
Is it a poor idea to let your partner have sex with other people, knowing that you will be hurt by it? Will it be more likely to help or hurt our relationship if he indulges in his fantasies with other women – and is this a reasonable compromise for someone to make?
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posted by labandita
on Jan 22, 2012 -
107 answers
Anecdata search: Do men eat differently than women do? (I'm not talking about WHAT they eat, but about HOW they eat.)
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posted by dlugoczaj
on Jan 9, 2012 -
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What is good sex for men? Once, I was married, in an abusive relationship. I've suddenly realized it is 15 years ago, and that I still haven't moved on. I've been in relationships since, each in their way failed, and each more or less failed because of my inability to get over the trauma of the abuse. Now, I've met someone new, after an almost total abstinence of 10 years. And I need to move on.
The main issue for me, right now, is lack of confidence regarding sex. My ex-husband repeatedly told me I was no good in bed. And now I feel I have no idea what is good in bed.
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posted by anonymous
on Jan 8, 2012 -
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looking for a Bollywood music video that has men dancing while sitting in toilet stalls--the camera is moving around in a locker room or similar setting and it pans across the tops of the stalls and in each one a guy is sitting AND dancing on the toilet. i know there are a MILLION Bollywood music videos, so this may be like looking for a needle in a haystack, but perhaps someone out there may recognize this one--it certainly is a bit weirder than most of them. i saw it on a monitor in an Indian restaurant, but the waiter didn't know anything about where to find it.
posted by cmp4Meta
on Jan 7, 2012 -
5 answers
What books, articles or online resources would you suggest to introduce a well-intentioned guy to feminism?
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posted by peacheater
on Jan 3, 2012 -
12 answers
So I'm a 23-year-old guy with curly hair. My hairstyle has been based almost entirely on neglect since I was born. Time to grow up. How does a guy get away with curly hair in 2011?
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posted by anonymous
on Oct 16, 2011 -
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Is it believable for a young adult male to go to a strip club and say that he doesn't enjoy the entertainment?
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posted by DeltaForce
on Sep 19, 2011 -
88 answers
How much should I tip a hairdresser for a men's haircut in the US? $5? $10? 10%? 25%? How much money signals that you are thrilled with the cut, rather than just okay with it? Thoughts from people who have worked in barber shops and salons would be most appreciated.
posted by mortaddams
on Sep 12, 2011 -
29 answers
I'm wondering about what measures can be taken to increase gender diversity in male-dominated workplaces. For women who work in male-dominated fields - how did your company's culture contribute to creating an appealing work environment for you? What can be done to build and foster this kind of culture?
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posted by remixnine
on Sep 11, 2011 -
25 answers
I'm a large guy in the tropics. How do I dress smartly without having to put on a jacket or a coat?
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posted by micketymoc
on Sep 9, 2011 -
13 answers
What fictional male characters are confirmed bachelors with many female friends and few male friends? I'm especially interested in stories set before 1950.
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posted by Sticherbeast
on Jul 18, 2011 -
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My fiance and her lady friends and family are getting together tomorrow for a bridal shower in our Brooklyn apartment.
That leaves the guys (all different ages and all different interests) in the family with the chance to go hang out and do male-bonding stuff. I'm going to check to see if there are any interesting sporting events on tv tomorrow afternoon, but that aside, what should we do that will be fun and low-key? Bonus if the place is relatively close to a G train stop.
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posted by Jagz-Mario
on May 27, 2011 -
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This is the sort of AskMe question I thought I'd never ask. I am having big problems with my best friend of 25 years (we are both men), and I think I need to walk away. Help?
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posted by anonymous
on May 21, 2011 -
30 answers
Can anyone recommend a website where I can get input from other men (and I'm not against input from women too) about problems I have with my wife with her excessive moodiness, total lack of interest in physical intimacy, and general verbally hostile and abusive ways? I'm thinking either a traditional forum or a more contemporary Q&A type site.
posted by Dansaman
on May 18, 2011 -
9 answers
Where can I find men's button-fly trousers???
I have searched and searched for men's button fly trousers. Not looking for Levi 501s (those are easy to find).
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posted by corwalch
on May 14, 2011 -
13 answers
Why is the guy who appears to have a crush on me suddenly acting so nervous? Why isn't he contacting me more now that I have expressed interest?
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posted by sunnychef88
on Apr 28, 2011 -
70 answers
My brain needs some fiction reading and I'd like some recommendations based on my tastes in TV/Film: Mad Men, Quadrophenia, Good Fellas, The Krays, There Will Be Blood, Election, Spinal Tap, American Beauty, Eyes Wide Shut, Flashbacks of Fool, The Graduate, Rushmore.
Thanks!
posted by punkfloyd
on Apr 16, 2011 -
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I'm no longer satisfied with 'preppy' clothes. Help me pick some nice clothes?
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posted by past
on Mar 29, 2011 -
15 answers
I'm a guy. I'm 31. I live in San Francisco. I've never really liked dancing in any sense of the word--how can I change this?
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posted by anonymous
on Mar 27, 2011 -
21 answers
Am I being germophobic about the public toilet in my office?
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posted by anonymous
on Mar 17, 2011 -
22 answers
I recently went out on a date with a woman I'm interested in. (I'm an early-30s male.) It's very early in the proceedings, so we're still getting used to each other. Anyway, during this date, she informed me that sexually-aroused men have a particular odor in their breath, and that I'd had it all evening. Later on, she told me that she actually didn't care for the odor at all, which was news to me. This is the first I've heard of this phenomenon, so I'd like to learn more about it.
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posted by anonymous
on Mar 7, 2011 -
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What is the term for the ritual in which men simultaneously enact childbirth in order to take away some of the pain their wives are undergoing?
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posted by tavegyl
on Jan 19, 2011 -
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Need help finding the glasses found in Don's office in Mad Men (as seen on the season 3 dvd/blu ray cover
here and
here).
Just want to buy them, assume similarity with these glasses, not price, is the priority.
posted by Patbon
on Jan 5, 2011 -
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I'm 35 years old. I'm funny, smart, beautiful. I make good money and have a lot of friends. But I've never been in love, nor has anyone told me they loved me. Forever Alone?
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posted by boostershot
on Dec 30, 2010 -
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Shoes for a man. From a woman who knows only the barest bit more about fashion than he does. Difficulty: for an engineer who wears mostly khaki slacks and jeans, wants to look a
little sharper at work, and wants to be more comfortable working out and dancing (resoling for dancing is perfectly fine). Bonus points: men's 11 AAA (yes, that's 3 A).
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posted by bilabial
on Dec 8, 2010 -
17 answers
Stuck in an impossible dating dilemma: overhaul my entire self, or never have a relationship with a man?
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posted by tamagogirl
on Dec 7, 2010 -
28 answers
Is it normal to WANT to be single for a long time or am I [subconsciously] still hurt over a breakup?
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posted by penguingrl
on Dec 6, 2010 -
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I'm in a new relationship with a great guy. Of course there's a but. He has a hard time getting to orgasm, and I'm having a difficult time dealing with that. NSFW
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posted by anonymous
on Nov 19, 2010 -
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How do I overcome my severe trust issues with men? Very long backstory inside, be warned.
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posted by anonymous
on Oct 7, 2010 -
25 answers
Hair-care newb wonders about longer styles for mature men with wild curls - what product to get, how to use it, and should I even?
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posted by Slap*Happy
on Sep 25, 2010 -
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My friend asked if I was bisexual and I am feeling really angry about it. Should I be mad at her?
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posted by anonymous
on Sep 18, 2010 -
39 answers
