You are a woman. You frequently go to concerts alone. You like rap and/or metal. What do you wear and what do you do at rap/metal shows to minimize molestation?
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posted by koucha
on Jun 13, 2012 -
33 answers
What to do in London this Friday? My brother is coming to London for some male bonding and mantime. I haven't spent any time working out how to fill the day with fun.
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posted by MuffinMan
on Apr 24, 2012 -
10 answers
Online dating never seems to progress past the smalltalk stage. What am I doing wrong? Most men who message me never ask me out. I've sometimes done the asking, but nothing has come of it. I've had to repel a lot of unsavory advances, but other than that, I get no offers. And lately, nobody has messaged me at all.
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posted by windykites
on Apr 9, 2012 -
22 answers
Do the strategies in "Why Men Love Bitches" really work? I'm almost at my wits end in the dating scene. I'm not clingy or anything of that sort but I could use a little help in self-preservation. Is there a proper way to use the tactics in the book w/o too much manipulation?
posted by InterestedInKnowing
on Mar 27, 2012 -
31 answers
Seeking Dear Abby, handholding and guidance for Dummies. Yes, this is about a man and yes I'm feeling totally clueless. Help.
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posted by infini
on Feb 20, 2012 -
66 answers
How do I wear
this blazer and not look like an idiot? I have absolutely no idea how I am going to wear this. I'd like to dress it up, with maybe a white shirt and tie, but what colors? And what color pants? I am totally confused as to why my mom would buy this for me as a gift.
posted by sushi69
on Feb 14, 2012 -
34 answers
Is it a poor idea to let your partner have sex with other people, knowing that you will be hurt by it? Will it be more likely to help or hurt our relationship if he indulges in his fantasies with other women – and is this a reasonable compromise for someone to make?
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posted by labandita
on Jan 22, 2012 -
107 answers
looking for a Bollywood music video that has men dancing while sitting in toilet stalls--the camera is moving around in a locker room or similar setting and it pans across the tops of the stalls and in each one a guy is sitting AND dancing on the toilet. i know there are a MILLION Bollywood music videos, so this may be like looking for a needle in a haystack, but perhaps someone out there may recognize this one--it certainly is a bit weirder than most of them. i saw it on a monitor in an Indian restaurant, but the waiter didn't know anything about where to find it.
posted by cmp4Meta
on Jan 7, 2012 -
5 answers
My fiance and her lady friends and family are getting together tomorrow for a bridal shower in our Brooklyn apartment.
That leaves the guys (all different ages and all different interests) in the family with the chance to go hang out and do male-bonding stuff. I'm going to check to see if there are any interesting sporting events on tv tomorrow afternoon, but that aside, what should we do that will be fun and low-key? Bonus if the place is relatively close to a G train stop.
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posted by Jagz-Mario
on May 27, 2011 -
8 answers
Why is the guy who appears to have a crush on me suddenly acting so nervous? Why isn't he contacting me more now that I have expressed interest?
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posted by sunnychef88
on Apr 28, 2011 -
70 answers
What is the term for the ritual in which men simultaneously enact childbirth in order to take away some of the pain their wives are undergoing?
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posted by tavegyl
on Jan 19, 2011 -
3 answers
Need help finding the glasses found in Don's office in Mad Men (as seen on the season 3 dvd/blu ray cover
here and
here).
Just want to buy them, assume similarity with these glasses, not price, is the priority.
posted by Patbon
on Jan 5, 2011 -
5 answers
Stuck in an impossible dating dilemma: overhaul my entire self, or never have a relationship with a man?
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posted by tamagogirl
on Dec 7, 2010 -
28 answers
Which cardinal rule of dating am I breaking? If I don't know what I'm doing wrong, how can I stop doing it? (Perhaps mildly NSFW).
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posted by motsque
on Aug 17, 2010 -
59 answers
Is it okay to construct a professional wardrobe from minor variations of the exact same outfit every day? I'm thinking same kind of white shirt and jeans daily, varying only my jacket.
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posted by eduke
on Jun 2, 2010 -
24 answers
What was the music from the Men of Honor trailer and from the WaterWorld live show opening?
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posted by JTKestrel
on Mar 13, 2010 -
3 answers
I am looking for non sticky/oily/shiny facial cream with high sun protection (15 SPF or higher) that I can apply every morning before I leave home.
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posted by neworder7
on Mar 8, 2010 -
25 answers
Can you recommend some stylish men's shoes in brown and black for a graduate student with a variety of needs?
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posted by SNWidget
on Mar 4, 2010 -
23 answers
Another "what book is this" query relating to a sci-fi book from the late 80s/early 90s concerning a society wherein the sexes live in different compounds and the males engage in ultra-violent rituals and war-type activities.
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posted by notcomputersavvy06
on Dec 27, 2009 -
8 answers
Can you recommend interesting men's shoe makers? I really (really!) like a lot of Cydwoq shoes, and some Fluevog's. I dislike shoes styled after athletic shoes or old track spikes. I'm most interested in learning about high style, relatively unusual shoes. They can be dress or casual.
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posted by OmieWise
on Oct 8, 2009 -
12 answers
Which recording of "Cup of Loneliness" is used at the end of Mad Men season 2 episode 12, "The Mountain King", and where can I get it?
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posted by teem
on Aug 8, 2009 -
3 answers
I really like the smell of American Crew haircare products, the
gel in particular. Does anyone know where (or if) a replica line of products is available?
posted by tfmm
on Aug 7, 2009 -
7 answers
How accurate are the media portrayals of young people engaging in risky sexual behaviors?
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posted by reenum
on Jul 8, 2009 -
54 answers
For the last several years I have seen an increase in young men (late teens to late twenties) wearing knit caps. Summer, Winter, the season doesn't seem to matter. My question is this. How and where did this "fashion statement" originate? And a secondary question would be, don't they get hot wearing those hats in the middle of the summer?
posted by Hanuman1960
on Jun 10, 2009 -
24 answers
I am looking for literature or cinema depicting positive male behavior.
That is, men acting in mature, forward, ways.
posted by ebesan
on Mar 30, 2009 -
47 answers
Gifts-for-men filter: don't worry, I know
generally what I want to get, I'm just looking for specific item suggestions/brand names for a) a person who needs gloves, and b) a person who occasionally likes cigars.
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posted by EmpressCallipygos
on Nov 25, 2008 -
13 answers
I’m a girl. I have zero problems being friends with men. I try to be friends with other women, but they're not having it. I’m doing something wrong. What is it?
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posted by zoomorphic
on Aug 28, 2008 -
51 answers
