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	  <title>Ask MetaFilter questions tagged with melancholy</title>
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      <description>Questions tagged with 'melancholy' at Ask MetaFilter.</description>
	  <pubDate>Sun, 28 Sep 2008 10:26:22 -0800</pubDate> <lastBuildDate>Sun, 28 Sep 2008 10:26:22 -0800</lastBuildDate>

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	<title>Vocals + melancholy piano</title>
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	<description>Songs with vocals that have piano primarily as the background - ones that sound similar to Jade McNelis&apos; &quot;Wins&quot; (link provided) Hi, I was watching Grey&apos;s Anatomy this past week, and this song by Jade McNelis called &quot;Wins&quot; (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jONdOVLe30c&amp;amp;feature=related) came on, and I was truly mesmerized.&lt;br&gt;
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Are there any specific songs the Hive Mind could recommend to me that sound similar?  I love the piano background, and it has sort of a darker feel (similar to a Russian composition).  I am looking for things like that.  I know Tori Amos, Sarah McLachlan, Coldplay, etc, all make extensive use of the piano, and I have most of their songs.  &lt;br&gt;
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But if you could offer specific names of songs (obscure and non-so-obscure) that have the kind of darker/melancholy melody of this Jade McNelis song, that would be great!&lt;br&gt;
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My apologies if this has been posted before. I did a search and came up with posts for piano melodies, but nothing really with vocals.</description>
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	<pubDate>Sun, 28 Sep 2008 10:26:22 -0800</pubDate>
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	<category>melodies</category>
	<category>piano</category>
	<category>vocals</category>
	<dc:creator>paperlanterns</dc:creator>
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	<title>Songs about difficult Decembers?</title>
	<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/79456/Songs%2Dabout%2Ddifficult%2DDecembers</link>	
	<description>My sister is having a rough month. She&apos;s toughing it out through a Jerry Springer-scale divorce drama while dealing with potentially serious medical problems. She&apos;s asked me to find songs for a compilation about difficult Decembers to help her get through. It&apos;s fine if it mentions Christmas but it shouldn&apos;t be a Christmas-centered song. She&apos;s already got &quot;A Long December&quot; by Counting Crows, and Merle Haggard&apos;s &quot;If We Make It Through December.&quot; I was thinking about throwing in Tom Waits&apos; &quot;Christmas Card From A Hooker In Minneapolis&quot; and possibly Imogen Heap&apos;s &quot;Just For Now&quot; (thanks to &lt;a href=&quot;http://ask.metafilter.com/78746/From-now-on-well-have-to-muddle-through-somehowSo-have-yourself-a-Merry-Little-Christmas-now&quot;&gt;this thread&lt;/a&gt;), but I&apos;m pretty stumped after that.&lt;br&gt;
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My sister is doing amazingly well considering the circumstances, but it&apos;s a rough time, and particularly tough due to the constant presence of cheery Christmas music. &lt;br&gt;
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I&apos;d appreciate any help you have to offer.</description>
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	<pubDate>Tue, 25 Dec 2007 23:43:22 -0800</pubDate>
	<category>bittersweet</category>
	<category>december</category>
	<category>depressing</category>
	<category>melancholy</category>
	<category>music</category>
	<category>resilience</category>
	<category>songs</category>
	<dc:creator>MrVisible</dc:creator>
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	<title>Where can I find more of the piano music of Yoko Kanno?</title>
	<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/79077/Where%2Dcan%2DI%2Dfind%2Dmore%2Dof%2Dthe%2Dpiano%2Dmusic%2Dof%2DYoko%2DKanno</link>	
	<description>The piano music of Yoko Kanno in &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pDXhQLOIHUg&quot;&gt;this&lt;/a&gt; solo blew me away. Where can I find more of it? Similar artists? A similar question has been asked &lt;a href=&quot;http://ask.metafilter.com/59712/Be-my-Yoko-Kanno&quot;&gt;previously&lt;/a&gt;, however emphasis seemed to be placed on the large jazz compositions of hers, while I&apos;m interested in her solo piano compositions. &lt;br&gt;
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BONUS: If anyone can direct me to sheet music from Yoko Kanno, I would be much obliged.</description>
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	<pubDate>Wed, 19 Dec 2007 13:55:01 -0800</pubDate>
	<category>melancholy</category>
	<category>music</category>
	<category>piano</category>
	<dc:creator>mwang1028</dc:creator>
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	<title>&quot;From now on, we&apos;ll have to muddle through somehow/So have yourself a Merry Little Christmas now.&quot;</title>
	<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/78746/From%2Dnow%2Don%2Dwell%2Dhave%2Dto%2Dmuddle%2Dthrough%2DsomehowSo%2Dhave%2Dyourself%2Da%2DMerry%2DLittle%2DChristmas%2Dnow</link>	
	<description>&quot;Emotionally ambivalent&quot; Christmas Songs? An Entertainment Weekly article last year about the song &quot;Have Yourself A Merry Little Christmas&quot; said: &lt;br&gt;
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&quot;&apos;Have Yourself a Merry Little Christmas&apos; manages to be happy and sad at the same time, hopeful but full of melancholy, as all the best Christmas songs are,&apos; says Bette Midler, who sings it on her new CD, Cool Yule. And the song&apos;s fascinatingly tangled history has left it with several very different sets of lyrics, from the near-suicidal to the downright ebullient. There&apos;s even a recent &apos;sacred&apos; rewrite, &apos;Have Yourself a Blessed Little Christmas.&apos; Which one you prefer may be the truest Rorschach test of your yuletide temperament.&quot;&lt;br&gt;
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So, in addition to &quot;Have Yourself A Merry Little Christmas&quot;, I&apos;d like to know which other Christmas songs strike that balance between happy and sad, hopeful but melancholic for you?</description>
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	<pubDate>Sat, 15 Dec 2007 21:12:34 -0800</pubDate>
	<category>carol</category>
	<category>christmas</category>
	<category>emotion</category>
	<category>happy</category>
	<category>melancholy</category>
	<category>mp3</category>
	<category>music</category>
	<category>sad</category>
	<category>songs</category>
	<category>xmas</category>
	<dc:creator>Jaybo</dc:creator>
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	<title>La-la-la means I love you.</title>
	<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/71648/Lalala%2Dmeans%2DI%2Dlove%2Dyou</link>	
	<description>Melancholy love songs required for an unusual playlist. More inside. I&apos;m trying to make a playlist with a very specific criteria. I&apos;m looking fo songs that touch on one or more of the following themes:&lt;br&gt;
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- Doubts about a long-distance relationship&lt;br&gt;
- Commitment issues generally&lt;br&gt;
- Memories of amazing times together&lt;br&gt;
- Hopes for a future relationship&lt;br&gt;
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Don&apos;t worry, I&apos;m not making a break-up CD, I&apos;m not that much of a jerk. Anything you can think of would be great, and just any brilliant melancholy lovesongs you can think of would be useul too. Thanks.</description>
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	<pubDate>Sun, 16 Sep 2007 00:52:17 -0800</pubDate>
	<category>jerk</category>
	<category>lovesong</category>
	<category>melancholy</category>
	<category>playlist</category>
	<dc:creator>greytape</dc:creator>
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	<title>Help me locate this poem:- THE CONCEPTION</title>
	<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/55538/Help%2Dme%2Dlocate%2Dthis%2Dpoem%2DTHE%2DCONCEPTION</link>	
	<description>Poetry filter:- help me identify the author of this poem and maybe direct me to a volume containing it. The title (I think) is THE CONCEPTION... I bought a book of poetry in 1997. It was a collection of poems for each day of the year and I think it had 365 in the title. The poem I am trying to locate was found in this volume. I have tried my hardest to find the book or the poem as I misplaced my book when I moved flat in &apos;97. I memorised the poem (moody teen that I was!) and am pretty sure I still have it word perfect. If you can help me locate the origins of the poem I would be very grateful for info on who wrote it, when was it written and where can I find it in book form?&lt;br&gt;
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Death did not come to my mother&lt;br&gt;
like an old friend&lt;br&gt;
she was a mother and she must conceive him&lt;br&gt;
up and down the bed she fought crying&lt;br&gt;
help me&lt;br&gt;
but death was a slow child &lt;br&gt;
and heavy&lt;br&gt;
he waited and when he was born&lt;br&gt;
we took and tired him&lt;br&gt;
and now he is ready to do his good in the world&lt;br&gt;
he has my mother&apos;s features&lt;br&gt;
he can go amongst strangers and save lives</description>
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	<pubDate>Mon, 22 Jan 2007 13:55:07 -0800</pubDate>
	<category>melancholy</category>
	<category>morbid</category>
	<category>poetry</category>
	<category>themes</category>
	<dc:creator>mycapaciousbottega</dc:creator>
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	<title>Sweet pain...</title>
	<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/44235/Sweet%2Dpain</link>	
	<description>I am head over heels in love with someone who is draining my life from me. Cut to 2 months ago. I was the happiest, most energetic person I knew. I almost always felt alive and vibrant. People would regularly ask me how I had so much energy. One of those annoying people who was ALWAYS cheerful.&lt;br&gt;
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Then I met my now boyfriend. Tall, gorgeous, intense chemistry. Within 48 hours of meeting eachother, we were having the best maekout of my life. It literally lasted 6 hours while we madeout on every surface of my apartment.&lt;br&gt;
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We start spending every waking moment together. TUrns out he not only lives around the block from me, we also work for different satellites of the same company.&lt;br&gt;
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I fell in love, quickly.&lt;br&gt;
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Slowly it becomes apparent that he has issues with depression. Good reasons for being depressed (bad breakup, abusive childhood, pressure at work, etc.) but sad most of the time nonetheless.&lt;br&gt;
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I really love him. But because I love him so, his sadness is making me sad. I just walked home crying from his place.&lt;br&gt;
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He treats me very well. He takes me out to nice places and restaurants. He&apos;s smart. He has his life together financially and career-wise. It&apos;s just this aura of melancholy that pervades his life.&lt;br&gt;
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Me, I&apos;m less organized financially and career-wise. I&apos;m just holding it together. But I&apos;ve always been happy, energetic, cheerful, and optimistic to the core.&lt;br&gt;
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I yearn to spend time with him, but I feel so drained every time I do. We see eachother about every other day. I feel like he sucks all the happiness and energy out of me. He&apos;s nice. He&apos;s just sad.&lt;br&gt;
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I love him, and leaving him forever would make me really sad too. He&apos;s seeking therapy and it should start in a couple weeks. I don&apos;t want to leave him, but maybe I should. Please help me.</description>
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	<pubDate>Sat, 12 Aug 2006 00:11:26 -0800</pubDate>
	<category>boyfriend</category>
	<category>depression</category>
	<category>energy</category>
	<category>happiness</category>
	<category>life</category>
	<category>melancholy</category>
	<dc:creator>skj&#xf8;nn</dc:creator>
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	<title>Help:  weed related sloth / amotivational syndrome .</title>
	<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/24163/Help%2Dweed%2Drelated%2Dsloth%2Damotivational%2Dsyndrome</link>	
	<description>Help:  weed related sloth / amotivational syndrome . So, I have this friend who lives in a country where marijuana use is tolerated. He&#8217;s happy as a clam. The drug enhances his creativity, makes sex, eating and simpsons watching way more enjoyable and is a pleasant indulgence every other week or so.&lt;br&gt;
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 The problem happens over the next few days: the following day, he is in a torpor. Can&#8217;t be bothered to get out of bed. Not a hangover of headaches, etc, but just plain sloth &#8211; slightly heavy limbs, fuzzy thinking. If he has to get out of bed, no problem (i.e. for work) &#8211; but woe betide any weekend that sees MJ use the night before. Similarly,  for the next couple of days, a mild melancholy decends on him where he&#8217;s a tad more miserable than usual.&lt;br&gt;
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Are there any pre / during / post chong activities or remedies this person can use to remove the listlessness and blueness from his post pot persona?</description>
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	<pubDate>Sat, 17 Sep 2005 09:47:49 -0800</pubDate>
	<category>depression</category>
	<category>drugs</category>
	<category>indolence</category>
	<category>laziness</category>
	<category>melancholy</category>
	<category>pot</category>
	<category>sloth</category>
	<category>weed</category>
	<dc:creator>lalochezia</dc:creator>
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	<title>Please recommend some extraordinary, elegiac, darkly funny, or otherwise wintry books.</title>
	<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/14496/Please%2Drecommend%2Dsome%2Dextraordinary%2Delegiac%2Ddarkly%2Dfunny%2Dor%2Dotherwise%2Dwintry%2Dbooks</link>	
	<description>Melancholy fiction for a dark season: here in the Northeast U.S. we&apos;re in the midst of a particularly miserable January. I&apos;m looking for some contemporary fiction that echoes the bleakness of the weather. What extraordinary books have you curled up with recently that are elegiac, darkly funny or otherwise &lt;i&gt;wintry&lt;/i&gt; in tone?</description>
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	<pubDate>Thu, 27 Jan 2005 14:40:15 -0800</pubDate>
	<category>fiction</category>
	<category>melancholy</category>
	<category>recommendations</category>
	<category>weather</category>
	<dc:creator>killdevil</dc:creator>
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