I need a major friend refresh/revamp. What are actionable steps I can take to find like-minded people, and in particular people that will both give/take in the fun department?
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posted by anonymous
on May 17, 2013 -
12 answers
I caught up with a good pal and sometime boss last night and I learned something new and interesting. She said on first meeting I can come off as distant, focused on the job and not in a warm way. Looking for tips on how to change this.
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posted by mooza
on Mar 13, 2013 -
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I have been an introvert for as long as I can remember. I do have a few good friends that I enjoy talking to, but usually they were the ones who befriended me, instead of the other way around. Now, because of changes of circumstances in my life, I would like to bring more new people into my life, more actively this time. Dear hive mind, please give me some tips on how I can do it.
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posted by clair-obscur
on Jan 28, 2013 -
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Help! I’m having trouble adjusting to college and accepting myself, and it’s stressing me out. What can I do to fix this? Lots of details inside.
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posted by anonymous
on Jan 16, 2013 -
14 answers
What are some structured activities where I (early 30s, male) can meet women in their 20s/30s? I'm specifically looking for activities that involve an ongoing group with structured interaction between participants, because I'm not good at starting up conversations on my own.
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posted by zeri
on Dec 28, 2012 -
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I've been in Austin for a little over a month now. I've been trying to find things to and trying to meet people. I could use some advice, some tips, or really just some encouragement.
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posted by Modica
on Jul 16, 2012 -
24 answers
What are some good social clubs / activities / volunteer-type things in the Seattle metropolitan area? I want to make more friends.
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posted by lockstitch
on Nov 21, 2011 -
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Despite my efforts (meetups, work), I don't really have a reliable circle of friends here. Any advice for meeting people?
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posted by anonymous
on Jul 20, 2011 -
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I need to improve my social and relationship skills. Can anyone recommend a behavior therapist in NYC who does social skill training and takes Empire Blue Cross/Blue Shield?
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posted by anonymous
on Mar 28, 2011 -
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I'm in an odd situation in a new town. I need to make new friends, but I have to worry about taking care of my dad.
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posted by anonymous
on Jan 4, 2011 -
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I want to make friends, I keep getting dates. I'm not interested in an exclusive relationship with anyone at the moment. How do I turn a first date into a friendship without bruising egos?
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posted by ista
on Sep 20, 2010 -
35 answers
I've been cooped up and dealing with excessive work and depression for a while. I'm on the mend, and doing better than I've been in a while, and I'm looking for ways to meet more people. I hear all kinds of great things about volunteering, and while it appeals to me, I haven't had very good luck with it. (More inside.)
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posted by anonymous
on Oct 13, 2009 -
20 answers
What are some suggestions for coordinating a "dating game" or fun "speed dating" activity at an outdoor camping event this weekend? The general intent of the activity is to laugh, get people more familiar and comfortable with each other (platonically or romantically), and maybe even make some matches. Attendees will be grown women and men of assorted social persuasions.
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posted by anonymous
on Apr 27, 2009 -
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I am a semester into college and extremely dissatisfied with my social life. Please help me set some tangible, reachable goals and create specific New Year (New Semester?) resolutions that will allow me to reach them.
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posted by anonymous
on Jan 3, 2009 -
28 answers
Currently, I have few friends. I've always had problems making friends. I've had even bigger problems keeping them. I don't know where to start, or how to remedy. .......
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posted by anonymous
on Nov 23, 2008 -
14 answers
Do people with under-developed social skills know that their skills need work? If so, how?
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posted by anonymous
on Jan 14, 2008 -
23 answers
I'm going to my first conference and am looking for some general tips/advice from veteran conference goers
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posted by saraswati
on Oct 2, 2007 -
11 answers
About six weeks ago I moved to Fort Lauderdale, Florida for work. I'm just about completely settled in and now have the difficult task of meeting people. What can I do?
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posted by Green With You
on Sep 23, 2007 -
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How can I be less misanthropic and get people to like me more?
I'd like to know strategies for becoming less annoyed with people and thus increasing my desire to interact with them more.
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posted by anonymous
on May 24, 2007 -
17 answers
moving back to dc, and looking to meet new people - but trying to stay AWAY from the mass of transient young professionals everywhere.
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posted by jare2003
on Nov 28, 2006 -
15 answers
Male introverts, homebodies, and my nerdy brethren, how did you meet your female friends? Your female significant others? How can I?
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posted by anonymous
on Mar 11, 2006 -
49 answers