538 posts tagged with marriage by Anonymous.
Displaying 301 through 350 of 538.

How can I deal with these doubts?

I have reason to suspect my wife has, and is continuing to cheat on me. What do I do? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 23, 2010 - 26 answers

It bothers me way too much that my wife has stopped reading for fun

My wife has stopped reading for pleasure. I'm a writer. This is really starting to bother me. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 15, 2010 - 91 answers

Help me demystify children

I need to figure out whether or not I want kids, before I accept my boyfriend's proposal. I think that I don't, but I have almost no experience with them. What are some places that might allow me (a stranger with no babysitting experience) to spend time with young kids, so I can start to make up my mind? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 14, 2010 - 46 answers

My marriage is sick. It caught it from me.

How can you be a good partner when you have a debilitating chronic illness? Is it even possible? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 7, 2010 - 16 answers

Making the most of remaining time before baby...

I went to the doctor today and I have confirmation that I'm pregnant. How can I make the most out of the remaining ~32 weeks for me, my husband, and my new child? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 2, 2010 - 29 answers

I want to get engaged, not proposaled.

My boyfriend and I (a woman) have been dating for less than a year. I want to propose marriage to him, but I want to do my due diligence first. What do I need to do, other than wait? In the same way that people say you should focus on the marriage, not the wedding, I want to focus on the engagement, not the proposal. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 21, 2010 - 27 answers

I Screwed Up My Marriage

Help. I screwed up my marriage. I "emotionally" cheated on my wife with an ex-girlfriend and now I'm afraid the damage is done. I'm looking for any help or suggestions. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 8, 2010 - 44 answers

How to talk to a friend who is considering leaving her husband

My friend has asked me to have a conversation with her about whether she should leave her husband for a new man. I have a strong view: should I tell her and can I do so in a way that is constructive? What else should I consider about the content and format of what I say? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 3, 2010 - 27 answers

Am I depressed or just unlucky?

I have had a rough year and my husband thinks I may be depressed, but I think it may just be a rough patch. There are a few things that have happened in my life over the past year or so that are making me bummed out and exhausted almost constantly. What does your experience with depression tell you about my situation? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 27, 2010 - 22 answers

Help me decide whether to get out of a convoluted relationship.

Help me decide whether to get out of a convoluted relationship. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 24, 2010 - 38 answers

Should I leave my wife?

Should I leave my wife??? I have doubted my feelings for her from day one... story below... This is lengthy, sorry... [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 20, 2010 - 54 answers

Proposals/Marriage: Does the subsuming feeling of "I'm lying to myself" mean something's wrong?

Proposals/Marriage: Does the subsuming feeling of "I'm lying to myself" mean something's wrong? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 18, 2010 - 24 answers

How do I build an emotional life boat with 6 months provisions, yesterday?

Help me cope with multiple major life stressors in a situation where I can't seem to see many choices, at least in the short term. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 17, 2010 - 10 answers

How to reignite the spark?

I love my husband but I am having trouble loving my husband. (probably NSFW) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 3, 2010 - 23 answers

talk me down

Scenes from a marriage. I snooped; his behavior was borderline. What now? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 29, 2010 - 36 answers

The Secret Marriage

Two years ago I entered into a marriage of convenience for health insurance. But the person I married was my live-in boyfriend -- someone I already loved and was committed to. He was the one who asked me. It's just that neither of us really wanted to go all the way and be husband and wife. We both come from broken homes and are very cynical about marriage. We thought we could have our cake and eat it too. Now things have changed. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 24, 2010 - 17 answers

Proposal scenario and ring for 'alternative' girlfriend?

Calling all 'alternative' girls! I need some advice on how to propose to my girlfriend (I'm male). Expensive gifts don't impress her, and her tastes are more 'classic' than the norm. I love how she is, but my tastes are much more modern. I'd like to do (and offer) something unique and unforgettable but can't figure out what. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 23, 2010 - 32 answers

I don't want my wedding to get rom-com'd

Getting married in two months. Fiancée's male best friend is officiating. I suspect he still has feelings for her. Tell me I'm crazy (or not) for irrationally worrying that he'll pull a "grand romantic gesture". [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 19, 2010 - 40 answers

Big bad marriage trouble. How can I get us out of trouble and not get fooled again?

I missed the clue train. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 17, 2010 - 75 answers

Can I do anything to avoid having my auto insurer pull a new copy of my driving record when adding my wife to the policy?

I need to add my wife to my auto insurance policy. How can I do this in a way that reduces the chance that the insurer will obtain an updated copy of my driving record? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 15, 2010 - 24 answers

evangelical ex married young

Why am I so bothered about my evangelical ex getting married young? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 4, 2010 - 26 answers

Sanity for Dummies. I'm the dummy.

I'm concerned about my fiancée's mental health. I don't know much about this stuff. Help! Novel-length details within. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 30, 2010 - 46 answers

There is no "traditional" 16th anniversary gift: I need ideas.

There is no "traditional" anniversary gift for the 16th anniversary. I need some ideas. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 12, 2010 - 17 answers

Helping my fiancee learn about money management.

My fiancee has issues with finances. How best can I help her/us in our pending marriage with respect to her general frustation with finance issues, money management, savings and debt repayment? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 4, 2010 - 18 answers

Recovery from debt in an unequal income relationship

Looking for success stories on financial recovery from debt acquired in an unequal income marriage with some abusive behaviors.… [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 3, 2010 - 7 answers

Advice needed on an amicable separation.

Advice needed on an amicable separation. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 2, 2010 - 17 answers

try to reunite or let him go

Divorce remorse... or something more? Can I try to make up with my ex-husband? Sad details to follow. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 17, 2010 - 14 answers

How do you get out of the habit of treating someone else poorly?

How do you get out of the habit of treating someone else poorly? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 11, 2010 - 17 answers

Arranged Marriage: My wife prefers tradition over me

I agreed to a long-distance arranged marriage to the woman who is now my wife and I think I made a mistake. How do you know when to cut your losses? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 9, 2010 - 37 answers

Applying for citizienship and getting married to a non-American

I'm applying for citizenship (USA, sending in the forms in the next few days) and also possibly getting married (not to an American) in March. Does this effect my application and/or is it a bad idea? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 8, 2010 - 11 answers

Does this qualify for an annulment or divorce?

YANA(or my)L: does it looks like this marriage would qualify for an annulment or a divorce? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 2, 2010 - 13 answers

I don't want to be left for Kate Beckinsale, Serendipity-style.

John Cusack and Lori Gottlieb are kind of stressing me out a tiny bit and leading to some messy, anxiety-filled thinking. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 1, 2010 - 30 answers

If I only want to get married if we're poly, should we still get married?

I think I want to marry my partner, but only if I can still have the possibility of other intimate relationships. Is this a healthy desire for a polyamorous approach to relationships, or is it a sign something's wrong in the primary relationship that might come back to haunt us if we go forward this way? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 22, 2010 - 42 answers

I want to be more kinky and less thinky.

My hang-ups are stopping me enjoying kinky times with my wife. I want to find a way to get over them because they're driving me crazy. (Very NSFW details inside.) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 22, 2010 - 19 answers

How do I broach the subject of marriage with my unsuspecting boyfriend without scaring him off?

How do I broach the subject of marriage with my unsuspecting boyfriend without scaring him off? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 22, 2010 - 50 answers

Convince family being single is okay?

I love the single life, but my family seems to think there's something wrong with me. How can I get them to just accept this is who I am? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 2, 2010 - 24 answers

Why am I in love with my husband's best friend?

I have an excellent relationship with my husband. So why am I in love with his best friend? And what, if anything, should I do about it? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 17, 2009 - 30 answers

Why doesn't my spouse let me see his/her facebook pictures?

Is this normal? Would you be worried if your spouse blocked you from seeing his/her pictures on facebook? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 16, 2009 - 94 answers

Am I inappropriately worried about his drinking?

I get annoyed with my husband when he drinks. Is this the beginning of a drinking problem, or just MY problem? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 8, 2009 - 70 answers

How do I tell my husband about my secret savings account?

Before we were married, I set aside money because I thought I might have to leave him. He changed and I stayed. Now we have an emergency and we need to use the money. How do I tell him where it came from? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 8, 2009 - 29 answers

Can't find the wife.

How can I find out if I am still married? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 7, 2009 - 16 answers

Grow up or build a time machine?

How do I make it feel like home? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 14, 2009 - 16 answers

Divorce, even if nothing is bad?

I (male) have been married for a number of years (~10). Nothing is necessarily bad about our marriage, but I've felt that we've been lacking passion since before we were married. It just never seemed to matter enough to be worth a divorce.. except that it does matter in the end. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 24, 2009 - 34 answers

Tired of all the cliche's

Harry and I got married when I was 42. Ours was a rocky relationship at its worst and absolutely riveting at its best. Even today the passion we share and yes, even the fights we occasionally have are intense, but all the laughter, that is what kept us together. We are sharing our 25th wedding anniversary on our wedding day this December. We are writing vows and I wanted to know what are the little things in relationships that made you love someone the most? I feel like all the things I want to say are cliche I need inspiration. I don't want to disappoint him.
posted by anonymous on Oct 16, 2009 - 13 answers

My heart is betraying me.

I am in (long-term, abiding) love with more than one woman. I am marrying one, but I need to deal with my feelings for the other. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 12, 2009 - 30 answers

How do I come to terms with my boyfriend's refusal to marry me?

So my boyfriend and I had the marriage talk; he said no. I'm having difficulty coming to terms with it. Help! [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 5, 2009 - 54 answers

Looking for a Kick-ass Marriage Counsellor

Help me save my family. I am looking for a really good marriage counsellor in Edmonton, AB. Complications inside. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 29, 2009 - 7 answers

I'm getting therapy. He refuses. Now what?

I'm trying to "detach with love" and get therapy. He's stuck and resistant. What next? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 23, 2009 - 15 answers

I don't want to force the issue, but if I don't it will never happen.

I want to get married. He doesn't. We're at an impasse. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 23, 2009 - 72 answers

What do I do for our first anniversary?

I have no idea what to do for our first wedding anniversary. There are time and money complications. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 23, 2009 - 9 answers

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