What are some good SECULAR reads (books or websites are both great) on getting engaged, marriage, etc.? Particularly for those who are not engaged but would like to get engaged in the (maybe not-so-distant) future. Also, some relationship-specific questions inside. Primarily, when's a good time to get engaged? [more inside]
posted by BenS on Dec 18, 2012 - 30 answers

Need book recommendations for improving communication in marriage as a substitute for therapy [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 21, 2012 - 13 answers

I just realized i am dumb. will you please help me? [more inside]
posted by hal_c_on on Nov 27, 2011 - 30 answers

What are some novels in which the plot primarily revolves around a marriage? [more inside]
posted by Nixy on Feb 5, 2011 - 46 answers

What should I (a late-marrying, book-crazy, somewhat institution-of-marriage-wary bride) read on my honeymoon? Inspired (in a way) by this question, I'm looking for novels to help me reflect on, process, and understand marriage. [more inside]
posted by minervous on Apr 30, 2009 - 24 answers

Inexpensive marriage counseling or self-help book suggestions? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 12, 2008 - 16 answers

Can you help me with titles, online shopping sources for 1950s tongue-in-cheek sex/marriage manual? [more inside]
posted by Lesser Shrew on Jun 21, 2008 - 5 answers

Stories about healthy, "normal" marriages? [more inside]
posted by callmejay on Jan 11, 2008 - 41 answers

Can anyone recommend a good relationship book for a marriage on the rocks? [more inside]
posted by SheIsMighty on Nov 22, 2005 - 14 answers