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posted by gergtreble on Jul 4, 2008 - 5 answers

Ok, so I've been in this relationship now for about 9 months, this girl is 8 years older than me. I am in my late 20's. Both of us are recovering alcoholics, both sober almost 1 year presently. We met in "the program," as it were...and I'm having some residual difficulty feeling "committed" to the relationship. I check out other women and think about other women on a semi-regular basis - fantasize about women I see, know, occasional porn, etc. Just recently a woman I work with who I am considerably attracted to, and who has participated in mutual flirting around with at work for a while (minor-type), mentioned to me her desire to meet somebody. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 4, 2008 - 13 answers

For the first time in the 3 years I've been with my fiancé, I'm irresistably attracted to someone else. Of course, I have to work with the object of my lust. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 21, 2007 - 39 answers

Is thinking/fantasizing/looking at someone who is not your partner cheating? What if your partner thinks it is but you do not? What do you expect from your partner in addition to simple fidelity? [more inside]
posted by bluejayk on Dec 10, 2006 - 76 answers

How do I deal (responsibly) with extramarital lust? I'm male, 31, happily married, active monogamous sex life, and yet I have an itching, almost juvenile desire to bang half the women I know. It's wrong, it's degrading, I love my wife more than anything, and I just want to stop feeling this way.
posted by anonymous on Mar 1, 2006 - 51 answers

Has anyone been successful in intentionally ceasing to lust after the opposite sex? [more inside]
posted by psychotic_venom on Aug 18, 2005 - 26 answers