We have incredible sexual attraction and were best friends to boot, but nothing good will come of this. How to kill it off?
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posted by anonymous
on Mar 21, 2013 -
24 answers
How can I stop thinking about a girl I like, who's too young for me to say anything to, at least enough for me to focus on my work? (Snowflakey details inside.)
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posted by anonymous
on Aug 11, 2012 -
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I am really attracted to someone I know I shouldn't be, when I'm not single and I know he is not the kind of person I should be interested in. We see each other almost every day of the week, and I'm in a new city with not many other friends. How can I find my way out of this feeling?
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posted by anonymous
on Oct 21, 2011 -
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Please share with me your best tips for keeping my raging lust in check while I'm getting to know someone I find very attractive.
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posted by velvet winter
on Jan 5, 2010 -
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Ok, so I've been in this relationship now for about 9 months, this girl is 8 years older than me. I am in my late 20's. Both of us are recovering alcoholics, both sober almost 1 year presently. We met in "the program," as it were...and I'm having some residual difficulty feeling "committed" to the relationship. I check out other women and think about other women on a semi-regular basis - fantasize about women I see, know, occasional porn, etc. Just recently a woman I work with who I am considerably attracted to, and who has participated in mutual flirting around with at work for a while (minor-type), mentioned to me her desire to meet somebody.
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posted by anonymous
on Jan 4, 2008 -
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For the first time in the 3 years I've been with my fiancé, I'm irresistably attracted to someone else. Of course, I have to work with the object of my lust.
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posted by anonymous
on Nov 21, 2007 -
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Is thinking/fantasizing/looking at someone who is not your partner cheating? What if your partner thinks it is but you do not? What do you expect from your partner in addition to simple fidelity?
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posted by bluejayk
on Dec 10, 2006 -
76 answers
How do I deal (responsibly) with extramarital lust? I'm male, 31, happily married, active monogamous sex life, and yet I have an itching, almost juvenile desire to bang half the women I know. It's wrong, it's degrading, I love my wife more than anything, and I just want to stop feeling this way.
posted by anonymous
on Mar 1, 2006 -
51 answers
