I am looking for thoughts and opinions on Getting the Love You Want : A Guide For Couples, by Harville Hendrix.
I am looking for thoughts and opinions on Getting the Love You Want : A Guide For Couples, by Harville Hendrix. This book was recommended to me by a therapist after our initial session, and now I’m even more confused. [more inside]
Why am I so emotionally attached to someone that I ended a relationship with? Six months ago I broke up with my daughter's father for the third time. The first two break ups happened before my daughter was born so my feelings are not simply for the obvious reason of us sharing a child together. He is such a wonderful person; I look up to him, he is smart, caring, and we have a similiar outlook on life; morals, values. However, whenever we are together, I lose all physical attraction for him and everything he does drives me insane. He has never put an effort into our relationship. We don't share the same sense of humor and I have never felt like he was my partner in crime, something I always hoped my life partner would feel like. [more inside]