tl;dr: Friend likes friend's sister. Friend is very socially awkward and sister is very scared of him for his "creepy" demeanor (according to her words) and the sister needs to know how to make him stop liking her. Ideas discussed include outright rejection, fake boyfriend, fake pictures, which I had mostly disagreed with, and need advice to sort this out.
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posted by JYuanZ
on Apr 8, 2013 -
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My partner just ended our relationship, what strategies can I use to get through the night and next few days?
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posted by Asherah
on Jan 19, 2013 -
34 answers
What's a good song that embodies the feeling of... "you found the person with whom you want to spend a lifetime together... but you're kept from being together (not because there are other people, but other reasons)... and every day it hurts to dream about, in a sweet way."
kind of like a song that would describe Jim and Pam's tentative pre-lationship in The Office season 1 on...
thanks!
posted by dracomarca
on Jan 16, 2013 -
21 answers
I’m considering ending my relationship. Should I give him another chance to make changes?
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posted by Ms.Stocking
on Jan 4, 2013 -
47 answers
Should I pursue a casual FWB relationship with this narcissistic but very intellectually interesting and sexy jerk?
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posted by tamagogirl
on Dec 27, 2012 -
109 answers
How long is too long to still be upset about a break up? It's been 3 weeks for me as of today and while I'm approving a little bit, something is holding me back...
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posted by Autumn89
on Dec 23, 2012 -
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How can I help my adopted cousin learn to love her skin? Have you been part of a transracial family? What did you find helpful or comforting?
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posted by turniphead
on Dec 17, 2012 -
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I have an ex who seems to be be depressed and has sent me a few emails telling me that we are all programmed by the "Source" that free will does not exist, that nothing depends on us etc and that the "Source" has decided that he would always be unhappy in love ! And that if the "Source" has decided that he would be unhappy, unaccomplished, alone then he must be happy with that decision. (He's 55, pianist/composer, not well known, gets by with the financial help of his parents., never been able to commit or live with a woman. His father is bi-polar, been hospitalised a few times for that). This is contrary to my world view, which I told him but I'm rather worried about where his mind is going. Any thoughts, help much appreciated
posted by hopefulmidlifer
on Nov 11, 2012 -
21 answers
When does "I love you" mean something? And is there a way to say "OMGZ I'M HAVING SUPERSTRONG LIMERENT FEELINGS TOWARDS YOU" without sounding quite that weird?
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posted by f3l1x
on Nov 6, 2012 -
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My partner is planning to propose in a matter of a few months. I want have something that I can surprise HIM with when he proposes to me! Is it acceptable for a woman to give a reciprocal proposal gift to the man? And if it is acceptable, would a barbecue be a little too bizarre?
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posted by PuppetMcSockerson
on Oct 9, 2012 -
53 answers
I am looking for more songs similar to
10cc's "I'm not in love". Specifically, songs about attraction or falling in love but feeling conflicted over it or uncomfortable with it or questioning it. Difficulty: Must also be non-venomous, non-hostile, non-accusatory. So I am not looking for songs like "You give love a bad name" or Britney Spears "Toxic".
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posted by Michele in California
on Sep 5, 2012 -
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How long should I wait to tell my friend about my feelings? So here goes (sorry in advance for the very long post, please stick with me). First time around that I ask for advice on any website...
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posted by 560fence_cat
on Aug 29, 2012 -
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I recently met online a former high school boyfriend from 25 years ago. We've seen each other briefly at reunions, but now we are both single and he is over the moon with me before we've even had a chance to meet in person again, which will happen tomorrow. I am confused and overwhelmed by his interest in me, how do I proceed?
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posted by waving
on Jul 17, 2012 -
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Tell me your experiences getting over fear or discomfort with dogs. My wonderful brother, bless him, loves me, but fears dogs. But now I'm getting a second one (German Shepherd puppy), the breed of his nightmares, and he is struggling. He's told me himself he wants to get over it, and I'm sure exposure and puppies will help, but I'd love to hear your own experiences and anecdotes getting past this.
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posted by Elfasi
on May 3, 2012 -
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Found myself head-over-heels in love with my friend. Our interactions have gotten exceedingly flirtatious. Is she in love, too? What's your opinion? Details after the jump.
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posted by thatgirl1985
on Apr 3, 2012 -
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Do the strategies in "Why Men Love Bitches" really work? I'm almost at my wits end in the dating scene. I'm not clingy or anything of that sort but I could use a little help in self-preservation. Is there a proper way to use the tactics in the book w/o too much manipulation?
posted by InterestedInKnowing
on Mar 27, 2012 -
31 answers
Flying into Dallas Love Field Airport late in evening. How best to get to Arlington, TX?
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posted by anya32
on Mar 18, 2012 -
2 answers
[StoryFilter] I'm looking for a printed or electronic copy of the full text of a story titled simply "Red."
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posted by ArgyleGargoyle
on Feb 9, 2012 -
2 answers
Psychological/Romantic Filter:
I don't know what else to do anymore.
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Not asking for advice on taking rejection.
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posted by Angel of Khaos
on Jan 31, 2012 -
22 answers
As everyone has already reminded me, I asked questions on here before about my bf. He admitted he is not in love with me but cares deeply for me? Still wants to be together?
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posted by Chelsaroo650
on Nov 14, 2011 -
27 answers
I feel like I'm stuck in that awkward phase of a relationship between dating and when things become serious. I'm ready for something more. I'm not sure my boyfriend is, and I'm concerned. Snowflakes abound.
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posted by erstwhile
on Oct 15, 2011 -
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How do I get over an ex girlfriend? No joke, I cannot get over this girl. we met last summer, and shared great times and it lasted for months. It was intense. Then, it just died. She lives in another state and I cannot just go see her, not without her wanting me to do so. We have talked some but that is all. I can accept that it's over, but I just cannot stop thinking about her. Help! I don't want to forget her, but I don't want to have her on my mind always!
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posted by cvoixjames
on Oct 4, 2011 -
11 answers
Should I marry the girl I like having sex with, or the one I like the rest of the time?
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posted by fraac
on Sep 16, 2011 -
102 answers
Struggling with an interracial relationship that conflicts with my parents' wishes, what do I do? I have no clue.
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posted by dearaudge
on Sep 15, 2011 -
36 answers
Besides "The Abyss," what are some other Sci Fi movies in which a demonstration of a protagonist's love (for either spouse or family member) ends up being what saves the world?
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posted by egeanin
on Sep 12, 2011 -
33 answers
I'm trying to remember a quote from a book about relationships where the man tells the woman he can be her rock so that she can be free as a feather or something to that effect.
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posted by Cogito
on Sep 12, 2011 -
2 answers
Can anyone tell me, well, ANYTHING about a person (hypothetically) standing on the sun?
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posted by argonauta
on May 16, 2011 -
44 answers
We're planning on having a
love letter and wine box ceremony for our wedding, but I don't like wine that much (although a sweeter wine that lasts that long could be an option). What else could we put in the box that would last for 25 years and still taste good/be nice to have? Doesn't have to be food or drink, I'm open to anything.
posted by ajackson
on May 1, 2011 -
13 answers
How can an LDR relationship that has spent most every moment together for a long period of time transition into one that allows more freedom for each person.
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posted by ot_refresh
on Apr 11, 2011 -
8 answers
Our dog gives all her love to my husband, but I do the bulk of the work. How do I deal with the hurt feelings?
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posted by mireille
on Apr 9, 2011 -
32 answers
My first boyfriend/first love and I recently broke up after nearly four years together. I know this was the right decision, but I feel like I'll never feel this way about anyone else ever again. I realize that sounds dramatic, silly, and naive, but I'd really like to hear from the perspective of someone who's been through it that, yes, life does go on (and maybe get better, in a different way) after a first love.
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posted by gypsyhymns
on Jan 4, 2011 -
24 answers
Stuck in an impossible dating dilemma: overhaul my entire self, or never have a relationship with a man?
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posted by tamagogirl
on Dec 7, 2010 -
28 answers
