Why am I not in love with my girlfriend? I'm 25. She's 28. We're 7 months in and things are fine, but sometimes I wonder if things should be better. Am I over thinking things? Is more time going to change anything? Answers based off a guy's similar experience would be awesome, but all advice is appreciated.
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posted by yeahyeahyeah
on Jun 8, 2012 -
61 answers
Can you honour your current partner and explore a potential relationship with someone new
without being deceitful?
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posted by anonymous
on May 17, 2011 -
55 answers
I need ways to say "I like you" or "I love you" (to a girlfriend) from various periods in history.
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posted by cmchap
on Jan 17, 2011 -
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My first boyfriend/first love and I recently broke up after nearly four years together. I know this was the right decision, but I feel like I'll never feel this way about anyone else ever again. I realize that sounds dramatic, silly, and naive, but I'd really like to hear from the perspective of someone who's been through it that, yes, life does go on (and maybe get better, in a different way) after a first love.
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posted by gypsyhymns
on Jan 4, 2011 -
24 answers
Is it normal to never fight with your boyfriend/girlfriend? Should I get mad at him for certain things?
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posted by sunnychef88
on Nov 20, 2010 -
38 answers
Looking for a way to deal with the bad feelings, both within me and coming from the ex, after a relationship ended. Problem: I am a massive tool and it was all my fault for cheating on her. How do I say sorry?
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posted by anonymous
on Jun 22, 2010 -
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Should I leave my wife??? I have doubted my feelings for her from day one... story below... This is lengthy, sorry...
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posted by anonymous
on May 20, 2010 -
54 answers
I broke up with my (now ex) girlfriend five months ago. (The breakup surprised her) She went back with the b/f she had before me one or two months after our breakup; if I have the time line right she has now been with her current b/f for about three to four months. I'm still in love with this girl and regret not giving our three month relationship more time before I broke things off... How do I contact her to tell her this and what do I say? Looking for success stories...
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posted by anonymous
on Feb 22, 2010 -
38 answers
When it comes to love . . . where's the line between deserving to have certain expectations fulfilled, and having standards that are too high? In particular I'm curious to know if you ever ended a relationship with someone you were in love with, and then went on to fall in love with someone else in a deeper and more enriching way.
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posted by lblair
on Jan 11, 2009 -
21 answers
I was wondering if anyone can give me any tips on relatively inexpensive things I can do for my GF on our first anniversary. We are both a couple years removed from college if that matters at all....
also, i am not really that romantic so maybe a few things i could do throughout the year to show i care about her.
thanks for your help guys!
posted by l2yangop
on Dec 30, 2008 -
13 answers
I am madly in love with my girlfriend. I want it to last. Am I doing everything I should be doing, as a good boyfriend?
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posted by crunch buttsteak
on Feb 7, 2008 -
32 answers
Met girl abroad, corresponded for several months, met again, got together, started living together as soon as I got back to the states. Now I've moved across the country, and she's set to follow soon. I'm not sure I want her to. What do I do?
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posted by anonymous
on Oct 22, 2007 -
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This last June I picked up the phone and called a friend I went to high school with... I literally hadn't seen or spoken to her for 12 years (since 1995). We went out for drinks and since then we've been spending time together about once a week (maybe a little less), having dinner together and things like that. A little over a month ago I told her that I really like her and asked if there’s any chance that maybe she felt the same... here’s what she wrote back to me in an email:
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posted by wiseduck
on Aug 28, 2007 -
55 answers
Very touchy situation with my ex almost but not quite boyfriend. Any and all insight appreciated.
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posted by anonymous
on Jun 29, 2007 -
23 answers
How do you move past loving someone who is no longer in love with you? (assuming time and space apart are difficult?) or deal with you love for them until they're ready for you?
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posted by anonymous
on Apr 12, 2007 -
19 answers
How do I wish my programming-geek boyfriend "Happy Birthday" and tell him "I love you" using computing code?
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posted by divabat
on Jan 23, 2007 -
25 answers
