Why can't I quit her? My head says NO but my heart says GO. please HELP! [more inside]
posted by anonymous35 on Apr 30, 2009 - 35 answers

I'm in love with my friend. I'm going to tell him, but not for a few months. A) What do I do in the meantime? B) Any dos/don'ts for when I tell him? C) How do I both hope for the best and keep my expectations in check so I don't get hurt if he's not interested? D) Any way I can feel him out for signs of interest? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 1, 2009 - 42 answers

Looking for happiness. Need advice, thoughts on what i am doing wrong, how to get this girl out of my mind. [more inside]
posted by loser8008 on Jan 10, 2009 - 17 answers

Need help to resolve this situation with my maybe ex-best friend/boyfriend. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 27, 2008 - 18 answers

How bad a faux pas would it be to move out of a (multi-person) shared house with a new but lovely boyfriend, and into my best friend's house instead? [more inside]
posted by Elysum on Oct 23, 2008 - 28 answers

How do I save this friendship? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 6, 2008 - 35 answers

What degree of indepdence is appropriate for a long-term relationship / marriage? [more inside]
posted by sergeant sandwich on Jul 29, 2007 - 49 answers

How do you tell someone that you don't want to be their friend? [more inside]
posted by Kilovolt on Nov 22, 2006 - 21 answers

Two friends agreeing to marry each other if they are single by a certain age: does this really happen in real life? [more inside]
posted by divabat on May 20, 2006 - 47 answers

How do I get over a really wicked crush? [more inside]
posted by heavenstobetsy on Mar 23, 2006 - 27 answers

VDayfilter: Woman I like, have for a while. Close friends for years, and she knows how I feel. Have pretty much stayed away from the old 'nice guy' just hang out stuff for the last year, but we still get together for a drink once or twice a month. Other than the occasional fun here and there, we are both single. [more inside]
posted by SpookyFish on Feb 13, 2006 - 18 answers

I've fallen in love with one of my best female friends, someone I have practically no chance of ever being with, and I'm unsure of how to deal with the situation. Do I cut her off completely and try to get over it? Do I act like nothing's happened and continue to be her friend despite the fact that it gets worse every time I talk to her? Do I ask her to give me space without telling her why? Help me, mefites; this is rotting me from the inside out.
posted by anonymous on Jan 22, 2005 - 46 answers