I met a girl at a bar and I want to know how to avoid chatting with her all week before our first date.
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posted by Atlantic
on Mar 31, 2013 -
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I have had a few fledgling relationships that have gone from awesome platonic friendship --> sexual tension ---> hook-up (instigated by the guy)--> awkward, painful attempt at going back to friendship (also instigated by the guy).
I'm really confused and bitter and angry. Can you help me decipher what's going on and figure out if these friendships are salvageable?
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posted by calcetina
on Feb 11, 2011 -
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i'm absolutely smitten by this girl. i find myself constantly thinking about her. but what are the signs of that she may an interest back?
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posted by sniperantics
on Nov 23, 2009 -
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Can cynical old me still find passionate love? Or should I readjust to some kind of grown-up relationship?
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posted by anonymous
on Jun 14, 2009 -
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Is it reasonable to not pursue 2nd dates unless you're infatuated? I've gone on several dates recently. While I've encountered several intelligent, nice, and not particularly ugly prospects, I haven't been thrilled, excited, infatuated, enamoured (and I'm certainly capable of that feeling). As a result, I haven't followed up. Is mine an immature or unrealistic expectation?
posted by shivohum
on Dec 4, 2007 -
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I'm in NY for the summer, in my 20s, a graduate student, and gay. I want to hang out with chill, smart, nice, gay people my age in the NY area. Ideas?
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posted by shivohum
on Jun 29, 2006 -
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I'm an still-in-the-closet (but perhaps soon to be out) gay man in his early 20s. What are the best ways to meet good-hearted, intelligent, and personable gay men in Boston (or generally), people who are interested in relationships and not just quick hookups?
posted by anonymous
on Dec 8, 2005 -
17 answers
