What are some crazy and/or impressive things guys have done for love, or to win a woman's hand? [more inside]
posted on May 13, 2008 - 29 answers

Why are there no good books on relationships for teenagers? [I could use one.] [more inside]
posted on May 9, 2008 - 12 answers

Single mom/Single parent: How does one go about building a lasting relationship with a single mother, to show her that you will not only be there for her, but also for her son? (She's 22, and he's under five I'm assuming.) [more inside]
posted on May 5, 2008 - 10 answers

RelationshipFilter - I love her. Life is good. Should I leave? [more inside]
posted on May 3, 2008 - 24 answers

REINCARNATION. Is there any compelling evidence that wouldn't be immediately dismissed by a skeptic? [more inside]
posted on Apr 28, 2008 - 47 answers

Should I have a heavy conscience or is it none of his business? [more inside]
posted on Apr 27, 2008 - 23 answers

Can this relationship/marriage be saved? [more inside]
posted on Apr 22, 2008 - 89 answers

Is there someplace that a hopeless romantic can go to find true love? [more inside]
posted on Apr 22, 2008 - 33 answers

Recommend to me books with romantic relationships (not necessarily romance or chick lit) that I can sigh happily, wistfully over? [more inside]
posted on Apr 21, 2008 - 59 answers

Is it worth telling my best friend, who just got engaged, that I'm secretly in love with her? [more inside]
posted on Apr 17, 2008 - 116 answers

Lovelifefilter: I have a chance to reconcile with my ex, how can I not blow it? [more inside]
posted on Apr 17, 2008 - 33 answers

ok this is going to be long. but bear with me. about 3 years ago, I fell madly in love with a girl I hardly knew. she went through 2 relationships and it's all quite complicated, but to cut the long story short, we're together now. for about 3 months now. and we're crazy about each other. I don't mean that in a puppy love kind of way. she would die for me. and I would too, for her. I'm not saying that to scare you lot. and that certainly isn't the problem that I'm facing. some might find that kind of intensity in a relationship very suffocating but we revel in it. it's just the way we love. we don't know any other way. [more inside]
posted on Apr 13, 2008 - 22 answers

Is timing really so important in dating and relationships? [more inside]
posted on Apr 11, 2008 - 25 answers

Existential crisis: was I born to be alone? [more inside]
posted on Apr 8, 2008 - 21 answers

My SO has told me he loves me countless times. He told me, and I didn't say it back, and he said he's okay with saying it even though I haven't said "I love you" to him yet. This scares me because sometimes I'm afraid I will never be. And he is a wonderful guy and will do just about anything for me. I just feel guilty now that he is in love and I'm not, and I feel uncomfortable having sex with him now because it's as if I'm using him because he is in another level of our relationship that I am not in. How do I make this better for myself and for our relationship? I want to be with him because he cares about me, and I do for him, and I do not want to lose him or give up on our relationship. I would like to know your thoughts and experiences. Thanks in advance.
posted on Apr 3, 2008 - 21 answers

How can I be more relaxed, and less anxious (read: totally flipping out) about dating people I like? [more inside]
posted on Apr 1, 2008 - 8 answers

I recently saw the "Beatles LOVE" show in Vegas and was absolutely blown away. I now have the DVDA disc but am trying to identify all the songs mashed into it by Sir George Martin. Here's a clip I am particularly interested in. [more inside]
posted on Mar 30, 2008 - 8 answers

In an average relationship, how often and how intensely do people express their love for each other (in private)? [more inside]
posted on Mar 27, 2008 - 28 answers

I'm on the cusp of dating someone soon after a breakup. Is it too soon? [more inside]
posted on Mar 20, 2008 - 23 answers

In relationships, I'm very, very afraid of the possibility having to break up and hurting the other person. DTMFA threads like this make me want to hide under my bed. I often don't get into relationships or pre-emptively end relationships quickly -- even if things are going great -- if I can imagine a time in the future when things won't work out. The fear makes it hard for me to know myself how I really feel. So my question to you all: can you give me advice -- maybe links to psychological studies or just from your own life experiences-- on how someone can know if a relationship is worth pursuing. Not looking for guarantees of eternal happiness and marriage, just the knowledge that even if things don't work out, I'm pursing the relationship in good faith... and not being an asshole. [more inside]
posted on Mar 18, 2008 - 27 answers

Psyche is a slippery slope. Advice on dating as a thirtysomething college student? [more inside]
posted on Mar 16, 2008 - 16 answers

How can I best heal emotionally from life threatening surgeries? [more inside]
posted on Mar 16, 2008 - 13 answers

How to accept love? [more inside]
posted on Mar 12, 2008 - 13 answers

What is the right dating etiquette after a good first date? [more inside]
posted on Mar 5, 2008 - 18 answers

Songs about soulmates? [more inside]
posted on Mar 4, 2008 - 16 answers

help me with my psycho ex girlfriend [more inside]
posted on Mar 1, 2008 - 22 answers

How to Cultivate Altruism and Love the Hard to Love? [more inside]
posted on Feb 25, 2008 - 5 answers

I need help with my behavior regarding my boyfriend. He's absolutely great, but when he's not around I worry myself sick, to the point of incapacitation. What can I do to stop this? [more inside]
posted on Feb 24, 2008 - 16 answers

I have two best friends. I was about to confess my love to one, when he told me he was dating the other. Coping mechanisms? [more inside]
posted on Feb 19, 2008 - 15 answers

What do I take away from a messy breakup? [more inside]
posted on Feb 18, 2008 - 9 answers

I am working on branding a newsletter that will offer love advice, statistics, and bites of information related to dating in general, online dating and relationships. What's a clever (but not cringeworthy) name for it? [more inside]
posted on Feb 14, 2008 - 19 answers

Thinking about my newest tattoo idea, it's been brewing for months...now I need the help of strangers. I have most of the elements fleshed out, but I'm looking for a saying about love, preferably in a foreign language, to incorporate. Nothing too long, it has to fit on a banner on my forearm. Idioms are best, or something that is a little more obtuse than "forever love." [more inside]
posted on Feb 12, 2008 - 30 answers

My husband of five months and I have different attitudes towards money. He’s more money conscious that I am, at least, that’s what he calls it. I think of his “money-consciousness” as a cross between minor cheapness and money obsession. I am right now at a crossroads in the relationship and I don’t know how to solve it or whether I should even continue it. [more inside]
posted on Feb 8, 2008 - 55 answers

I am madly in love with my girlfriend. I want it to last. Am I doing everything I should be doing, as a good boyfriend? [more inside]
posted on Feb 7, 2008 - 32 answers

Help with a Valentine's Gift. [more inside]
posted on Feb 5, 2008 - 13 answers

Can I still hang out with my best friend even though I'm in love with him? [more inside]
posted on Feb 3, 2008 - 35 answers

Quotefilter: help me find a quote that speaks of both love and writing.... [more inside]
posted on Jan 30, 2008 - 10 answers

I dropped the ball on this one....year anniversary. Is there anyway to win her back? [more inside]
posted on Jan 28, 2008 - 31 answers

I recently broke up with my girlfriend. The reason I ended it was because I realised that I had been gradually developing strong feelings for one of her close friends (and it’s very possible that her friend had feelings for me). My feelings for her friend were not going away and this was causing me a lot of hurt. I felt that the right thing to do was to break up and walk away from the whole situation. Will the truth allow my ex to move on or will it just upset her unnecessarily? [more inside]
posted on Jan 27, 2008 - 31 answers

I'm trying to define the difference between a loving, helpful action and a romantic action. How would you define romance, and what would you consider to be romantic? [more inside]
posted on Jan 26, 2008 - 17 answers

I would like to have something fun delivered to my SO at their office on V-Day. What sort of fun things could I get delivered in NYC? [more inside]
posted on Jan 21, 2008 - 7 answers

Should I give up getting back together with her? [more inside]
posted on Jan 21, 2008 - 36 answers

Help me convince the man I love that he doesn't have to marry someone else. [more inside]
posted on Jan 18, 2008 - 61 answers

The only thing scarier than the thought of being without my wonderful boyfriend in ten years... is the thought that I WILL still be with him. Help me make sense of this feeling! [more inside]
posted on Jan 15, 2008 - 40 answers

How does one fall in love in one's late 30's, when one's head is full of mortgage payments, favorite restaurants, and past ex's? What does it mean to fall in love? (A bit complicated) [more inside]
posted on Jan 13, 2008 - 24 answers

Stories about healthy, "normal" marriages? [more inside]
posted on Jan 11, 2008 - 41 answers

I am looking for a magazine that would be interested in a story I've written about being in love without sexual attraction. Nerve is the only magazine that I can think of, but from the looks of things, I doubt they accept anything from writers outside of sunny California. My story isn't sexual explicit, but I don't think a mainstream/family-friendly publication would be interested in this. Does anyone have any suggestions for a Nerve-esque magazine (or zine) that accepts non-fiction that isn't supposed to make you horny?
posted on Jan 10, 2008 - 13 answers

AMgoldFilter: On Rod Stewarts classic um.. deflowering mantra "Tonight's the Night", what is Britt Ekland saying in french at the end? [more inside]
posted on Jan 9, 2008 - 8 answers

It’s that time - the beginning of the last semester before I graduate from collee. It’s time to find a job or graduate school program and plot out the rest of my life. A renewed interest in charity and decreased interest in psychology, my chosen field of study, have led me to question my planned life course. Open my mind to what I might be able to do with my life. [more inside]
posted on Jan 7, 2008 - 9 answers

love, doubt, & alcohol : is it worth going back anyway ? [more inside]
posted on Jan 5, 2008 - 22 answers