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Can attraction grow? Great guy, but not too terribly attracted?

Casually dating a great guy. He's smart, funny, we're comfortable with each other. We've been seeing each other for 2 months now. The issue is... I don't find him incredibly physically appealing. Can I overcome it? [more inside]
posted by Chelsaroo650 on Aug 11, 2013 - 65 answers

Can you really be addicted to a certain kind of sadness?

Can you really be addicted to a certain kind of sadness? Ugh...I hate that song. My boyfriend has serious intimacy issues but is trying to work on them. I feel intermittently insecure/frustrated/sad/angry and I don't know how much longer I can take it... [more inside]
posted by entropy33 on Nov 4, 2012 - 14 answers

How to avoid someone you're attracted to you know isn't good for you?

I am really attracted to someone I know I shouldn't be, when I'm not single and I know he is not the kind of person I should be interested in. We see each other almost every day of the week, and I'm in a new city with not many other friends. How can I find my way out of this feeling? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 21, 2011 - 22 answers

one third long distance relationship

my boyfriend goes out of town to deal with difficult things, I miss him: I need to keep these feelings 'normal and healthy' as opposed to 'irrational and demanding' [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 21, 2011 - 17 answers

Your mother is wonderful. Can she come over again this week?

Developing new dialogue strategies in a relationship. Established, late 30s couple seeking hive mind advice on changing the way we speak to each other on important subjects. [more inside]
posted by Funmonkey1 on Apr 30, 2010 - 14 answers

Anxiety? or my gut instinct?

Trust my instincts? or just relationship anxiety? [more inside]
posted by mrspeacock on Apr 18, 2010 - 14 answers

Attraction to New Men vs. Partner

I've been with my boyfriend for three years (living together for half that amount of time). This is my first long-term relationship. Previously, my relationships lasted anywhere from 3-6 months. So I don't have a real point of comparison for anything outside of the endorphine-rush phase. [more inside]
posted by Blazing Star on Mar 22, 2010 - 10 answers

Do I tell my ex how I feel?

My ex-boyfriend is moving out of the state and things feel unresolved. I don't want to regret not expressing my thoughts, but am worried my unloading on him pre-move is unfair. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 4, 2009 - 24 answers

Please make me a better letter writer!

My partner and I have broken up because of a move but have decided to correspond with one another through handwritten letters. Please help me be a better letter writer! [more inside]
posted by SkylitDrawl on May 16, 2009 - 18 answers

Taking a "break".

[relationship filter] How to manage a "break"/"open relationship"? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 16, 2009 - 17 answers

Long distance marriage troubles

My long distance marriage is starting to crumble. I don't know what to do. Any comments would be of assistance. Long story inside [more inside]
posted by midwestguy on Dec 8, 2008 - 62 answers

Jack and Jill

Yet another RelationshipFilter: This is the story of Jack and Jill... [more inside]
posted by ASM on Mar 22, 2007 - 74 answers

Should I talk to my boyfriend about me leaving, or ignore the situation?

Should I talk to my boyfriend about me leaving, or ignore the situation? [more inside]
posted by trampesque on Mar 22, 2007 - 28 answers

I Came, I Saw, I Conquered?

Why am I only interested in long term relationships? [more inside]
posted by Raze2k on Jul 18, 2006 - 16 answers

how to overcome the loss of spark and fear of intimacy

How can my girlfriend and I work past an aversion or barrier to intimacy that has come up in our relationship? [more inside]
posted by aussicht on Oct 31, 2005 - 13 answers

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