Do I bear-up being alone for the next six months to a year, or...? [more inside]
posted by paulg on Nov 28, 2009 - 40 answers

The world is full of lonely people. I'd like to bring some of them together... at least the ones in my general vicinity. But I need your help in finding the best ways to go about this. [more inside]
posted by Ziggy Zaga on Nov 22, 2009 - 13 answers

Lonely and depressed...need advice [more inside]
posted by loser8008 on Nov 20, 2009 - 17 answers

Lonely, hungry for intimacy, ravenous to be touched, coddled or stroked. I'm old, sick and unattractive, I used to be smoking hot but men don't look at me any more, nor do they even acknowledge my presence. The area I live in is sparse for dating, and I've even tried one night stands. I have given up. What are some other ways to get the physical needs I have for the human social intimate relationship I do not have? I've done the CL casual encounters, internet dating etc.... Going for a massage now to see if it helps, and yes I have a loving and much loved pet....but I need more. Any resources? I'm sure there are others like me out there.
posted by ~Sushma~ on Nov 6, 2009 - 15 answers

My cat is used to getting a lot of attention, but is now left home alone for most of the day. How can I ensure she doesn't feel too lonely? [more inside]
posted by reenum on Oct 13, 2009 - 15 answers

I need a temporary low-maintenance, but social, 'after work' place/thing/something to do while I try to get my health in order. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 24, 2009 - 26 answers

I have a problem that has been stuck with me for as long as I can remember. I can't connect personally with anyone I meet at all -- I don't think it's a matter of bad social skills, but more of a matter of not really having any common interests...but I'm not sure about that either, which is why I'm here. [more inside]
posted by formaltide on Jul 22, 2009 - 29 answers

I'm in a relationship but unhappy where I live and planning to move. My boyfriend may not wind up joining me. Is it better to cut off the relationship or pursue a long distance relationship again for a little while? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 13, 2009 - 17 answers

How can I make myself feel better when I'm feeling lonely and depressed? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 3, 2009 - 30 answers

I'm stuck in Texas! [more inside]
posted by pjern on Feb 28, 2009 - 10 answers

What to do when the degree of lonliness is too much? I am in a long distance relationship which is starting to get to me. I'm trying to make friends here but it's very hard to do in the DC metro area. Do you guys have any suggestion in keeping one occupied? [more inside]
posted by LilSoulBrother85 on Feb 5, 2009 - 7 answers

My mum has just retired at 61. She has four kids who all live in different cities, each over 5 hours away. My dad still works full time, and I don't think my mum knows what to do with herself. Ideas and suggestions for fulfilling ways to pass the time, plans to make, etc from other retirees greatly appreciated! [more inside]
posted by beccyjoe on Jan 26, 2009 - 15 answers

Ideas for things to do with my husband before he goes off for three months of job training? He's leaving in two weeks. [more inside]
posted by itesser on Dec 27, 2008 - 4 answers

I need evidence! I want to change two of my core beliefs about myself: (1) I will not find someone I love as much as the last girl and (2) I will not be truly happy until I find someone else. If you are single and do not believe these things about yourself, what evidence would you say backs up those beliefs for you? [more inside]
posted by Ringo on Jul 5, 2008 - 20 answers

How do I deal with loneliness? How do I accept being single? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 26, 2008 - 42 answers

I get bored and lonely on weekdays. What can I do? [more inside]
posted by sixcolors on May 6, 2008 - 13 answers

How do I stop spending energy on being sad and be productive instead? [more inside]
posted by youcancallmeal on Feb 7, 2008 - 18 answers

can you save my roomies puppy from being strangled? [more inside]
posted by krautland on Oct 31, 2007 - 38 answers

WANTED : Laptop for a gorilla. [more inside]
posted by zaebiz on Oct 24, 2007 - 12 answers

I'm out of the country with my family for the next few weeks, and don't want my boyfriend to get too lonely back home. How can I schedule pre-written emails to be automatically sent to him? [more inside]
posted by yellowbinder on Jun 20, 2007 - 15 answers

How to alleviate homesickness? Extra difficulty: first time out, alone. [more inside]
posted by Meifa on Mar 16, 2007 - 15 answers

Why does eHarmony think I am destined for a life of loneliness? [more inside]
posted by thebrokenmuse on Mar 14, 2007 - 39 answers

Where -- in South Central Wisconsin -- are the best places to hang out, if you are a divorced, middle age, overweight, woman who recently decided to proactively search for short term companionship? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 9, 2007 - 20 answers

sameoldrelationshipstuff filter: Like many of us, I have fears about my relationship. Does she really love me? etc. One thing that's starting to drive me crazy is that I want more affection than she wants to give. I know everyone is different, blah blah blah, but just so I can have some perspective, can you guys tell me: how often do you smooch your sweety? Do you tell him you love him every day? Do you expect a hug when he gets home from work? If he asks you for some attention - do you give it to him, or run the other way? Help me understand what is normal - or at least average!
posted by anonymous on Nov 7, 2006 - 17 answers

Should I get a dog? [more inside]
posted by teststrip on Aug 8, 2006 - 30 answers

Lonely flight attendant...Help me! [more inside]
posted by thesiameseffect on Apr 10, 2006 - 29 answers

Chronic health challenges and relationships. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 22, 2006 - 10 answers

I am always bored on the weekends. I like to be really busy all of the time, but I am not very good at finding things that I enjoy that aren't also expensive (I have very little disposable income). Also, I dislike doing things alone, but I'm single and most of my friends are in relationships and hang out with their sig other on the weekend. What do YOU do on the weekends? I'm one of those people who likes work-type things more than play, but I don't really want to get a part-time job or anything. I guess what I'm saying is that I like things that are challenging and "suck you in."
posted by mintchip on Jan 29, 2006 - 28 answers

I'm new to Minneapolis, fresh out of college, working at a job where my co-workers are much older than me, and I'm feeling a bit stumped over how to go about finding some new friends. I enjoy rock shows, bike riding, indie movies etc., but I feel shy going out all by myself. What are some good ways to find a niche and some good pals in a new town? [more inside]
posted by bonheur on Apr 7, 2004 - 14 answers