Is it possible to get started on an amicable divorce or separation agreement while still living together? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 19, 2009 - 16 answers

Mr LyzzyBee and I have been living together for a good few years. I feel we spend too much time apart on our separate hobbies. He thinks no-one spends that much time together these days, apart from watching TV etc. I think we should come away from the telly and do something where we're interacting with each other. And I don't mean intimate stuff, I mean things to do, fully dressed, downstairs or outside. So - what do established couples, no kids, actually *do* in the weekday evenings? [more inside]
posted by LyzzyBee on May 14, 2009 - 47 answers

Should I tell my fundamentalist Christian parents, who live on the other side of the country, that I'm shacking up with my girlfriend? If so, how? Warning: long. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 5, 2009 - 50 answers

Help me and my girlfriend combine our two lives into one small apartment (mine)! [more inside]
posted by ORthey on Apr 23, 2009 - 31 answers

My SO and I (unmarried) are combining two apartments into one. We both currently have renters insurance of our own, each from our own car insurance company (not the same company). We are not interested in combining our car insurance under one account. Should we get renters insurance for both of us from one of our car insurance companies, or should we each retain our separate renters insurance that covers "my own stuff"?
posted by matildaben on Nov 6, 2008 - 7 answers

How bad a faux pas would it be to move out of a (multi-person) shared house with a new but lovely boyfriend, and into my best friend's house instead? [more inside]
posted by Elysum on Oct 23, 2008 - 28 answers

What should I do in advance to prepare for the end of a short long-distance relationship stint? She's spending 3 months away, and I want the transition back to go as smoothly as possible. [more inside]
posted by marginaliana on Oct 8, 2008 - 10 answers

Living together: questions about money and space [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 23, 2008 - 23 answers

My boyfriend wants me to move in with him. I have agreed to move in with him. We have already been together for 5 years and I am only moving across town. Why am I so terrified? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 5, 2008 - 29 answers

When you moved to live with your partner, or your partner moved to live with you, what helped set the groundwork for a lasting, strong and wonderful relationship? What missteps would you try and avoid? [more inside]
posted by lalochezia on Jul 12, 2008 - 31 answers

I've never initiated a breakup before last night. We live together. What do we do? [more inside]
posted by inging on Jun 4, 2008 - 25 answers

My boyfriend of almost 3 years and I have been living together for a year and a half. About a year ago he decided he wanted to start making his own music, something he never had the chance to do earlier in his life. He's also a very successful grad student in a PHD program, so he thinks that before he graduates is the only time he will be able to devote enough time to making music while still being a good student. And now he's telling me that the only way he can really give this a shot is for us to not live together for a while so he can have some "space" to really discover himself and focus on his music whenever he's not in school. He says he wants to work on it so much that he would seem neglectful if we lived together. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 17, 2008 - 85 answers

Help us work out how we can live together [more inside]
posted by Marzipan on Dec 27, 2007 - 19 answers

[NormalcyFilter] Is it normal for a 37 year old man to be a slob? And what can I do about it? [more inside]
posted by k8t on Jun 6, 2006 - 40 answers

Help me love Miami. [more inside]
posted by bilabial on Apr 12, 2006 - 7 answers

Which neighborhood/apartment complex to choose in North Miami? [more inside]
posted by bilabial on Mar 27, 2006 - 7 answers

Tips for a couple moving in together? What do you wish you had known when taking this step? [more inside]
posted by altolinguistic on Sep 22, 2005 - 27 answers

RelationshipFilter: The boyfriend is moving in. Anyone have any advice that you would have liked to know when you and your significant other started living together? [MI] [more inside]
posted by Meagan on Feb 10, 2005 - 37 answers

What are your house porn rules? [more! inside!] [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 27, 2004 - 19 answers