I think I may have a hormone deficiency. I plan to see a doctor. What should I expect? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 22, 2009 - 7 answers

Choosing my penis over the pills. How long will it take my libido to recover after a few months of Zoloft? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 5, 2009 - 16 answers

Depressionfilter: Help me understand a sudden increase in libido and its emotional aftermath. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 5, 2009 - 9 answers

Falling in love pretty quickly. First time for a lot of things. Some issues are coming up. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 19, 2009 - 14 answers

Can I safely, healthily lower my libido? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 13, 2009 - 18 answers

I have a low sex drive. When should I bring it up with someone I am dating? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 11, 2009 - 33 answers

I'm a healthy 27 year old guy, but my libido has plummeted just in the past 7 months. No other relevant changes that could explain why, and I feel totally fine otherwise. Any explanations? And how do I fix this? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 9, 2009 - 11 answers

How do I get my libido back? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 16, 2009 - 24 answers

Is there anything I can do to counteract the negative effect Yasmin is having on my libido? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 10, 2008 - 7 answers

I'm an otherwise healthy 29 year old male who easily gets exhausted and mentally foggy on a regular basis, sometimes seemingly without cause. Not normal-tired, but feeling as if I were 80 years old. It's been like this for at least a year and a half. I have an appointment to see a doctor (endocrinologist) in two weeks, but now that I've finally admitted to myself that I've got a problem... I'm antsy to start figuring out what it might be. Any ideas, hive mind? More details inside... [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 8, 2008 - 31 answers

The type of guy I like to spend time with isn't the type I like to have sex with. What now? Probably NSFW! [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 5, 2008 - 31 answers

Is there any way to stay on SNRIs but restore libido? Possibly TMI about sex life inside, quite possibly NSFW. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 9, 2007 - 9 answers

Why is it easier for me to achieve sexual arousal now rather than 10 years ago? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 27, 2007 - 12 answers

Today is my 16th wedding anniversary. In a week I turn 40, so I’m doing a little reflection on my life. I have two kids, one in the final year of high school, the other with two years to go. I’m halfway through a degree – I’ll be done in 18 months, and I work part time. I haven’t had sex in 4 years (and very intermittently in the previous 5) because my husband has absolutely no interest. What should I do? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 23, 2007 - 33 answers

What is a good starting point for rectifying a low libido? How can one determine if it is physical or mental? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 7, 2007 - 16 answers

What is the likelihood my girlfriend will ever get any sort of horny? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 23, 2007 - 66 answers

How can I get my doctor to take me seriously about my libido problems? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 4, 2007 - 34 answers

I'm a recently out, gay 21 year-old college student. I recently met someone and things are starting to get serious. Last night he came over and I couldn't get aroused. I've never had a problem with that before. What's going on? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 23, 2006 - 14 answers

The girlfriend has lost her sex drive, and mine is higher than ever. Help! [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 31, 2006 - 66 answers

Help me cure lesbian bed-death. Lesbians and non-lesbians alike are welcome to reply. It's a not-so-funny joke in the gay community that a few months into a serious relationship. lesbians stop having sex. My partner and I have been together for six years now, and, although we talk about sex (especially how much we miss it!) we don't have sex. Maybe once a month, possibly less often than that. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 11, 2005 - 13 answers

Help me wake up my libido! I am a 24 year old female with a very low sex drive. I have a great boyfriend of 4 years, and when we do get physical, it's always wonderful, but often leading up to it I am just not interested at all. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 29, 2005 - 18 answers