Choosing my penis over the pills. How long will it take my libido to recover after a few months of Zoloft? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 5, 2009 - 16 answers

Depressionfilter: Help me understand a sudden increase in libido and its emotional aftermath. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 5, 2009 - 8 answers

Falling in love pretty quickly. First time for a lot of things. Some issues are coming up. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 19, 2009 - 14 answers

Dead libido at 24? What should I do about relationships? [more inside]
posted by anonymousme on Sep 15, 2009 - 75 answers

Can I safely, healthily lower my libido? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 13, 2009 - 18 answers

I have a low sex drive. When should I bring it up with someone I am dating? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 11, 2009 - 33 answers

Is the theory of sublimation—the idea of channeling sexual energy into creative or physical output—still considered valid? Is there evidence that it "works"? [more inside]
posted by Busoni on May 10, 2009 - 16 answers

I'm a healthy 27 year old guy, but my libido has plummeted just in the past 7 months. No other relevant changes that could explain why, and I feel totally fine otherwise. Any explanations? And how do I fix this? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 9, 2009 - 11 answers

Help us (straight couple in our late twenties) fix our sex life so we can stay together. [more inside]
posted by monkeygenius on Mar 31, 2009 - 33 answers

How do I get my libido back? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 16, 2009 - 24 answers

I am a 30 year old male who wants more sex than my partner, which causes all kinds of frustration and resentment on both sides. What can I do to lower my libido? [more inside]
posted by anonymous account on Jan 6, 2009 - 106 answers

How long did it take for your libido to return to normal after giving birth? [more inside]
posted by otherwordlyglow on Nov 12, 2008 - 11 answers

Is there anything I can do to counteract the negative effect Yasmin is having on my libido? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 10, 2008 - 7 answers

I'm an otherwise healthy 29 year old male who easily gets exhausted and mentally foggy on a regular basis, sometimes seemingly without cause. Not normal-tired, but feeling as if I were 80 years old. It's been like this for at least a year and a half. I have an appointment to see a doctor (endocrinologist) in two weeks, but now that I've finally admitted to myself that I've got a problem... I'm antsy to start figuring out what it might be. Any ideas, hive mind? More details inside... [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 8, 2008 - 31 answers

I seem to have lost all my libido (sex-drive). Mid-forties male, not health related. Advice? More details inside. [more inside]
posted by lndl on May 6, 2008 - 10 answers

The type of guy I like to spend time with isn't the type I like to have sex with. What now? Probably NSFW! [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 5, 2008 - 31 answers

I feel my libido is too high. How can I normalize it healthily and deal with it? [more inside]
posted by StrikeTheViol on Feb 19, 2008 - 32 answers

One often hears about the mid-thirties "sexual peak" for women. I have some questions about that. [more inside]
posted by Ambrosia Voyeur on Jan 22, 2008 - 23 answers

Is there any way to stay on SNRIs but restore libido? Possibly TMI about sex life inside, quite possibly NSFW. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 9, 2007 - 9 answers

Why is it easier for me to achieve sexual arousal now rather than 10 years ago? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 27, 2007 - 12 answers

Girls I might want to befriend are romantically/sexually attracted to me...Are platonic relationships really possible? If so, how do I get out of this pattern of disastrous endings? Most specifically, how do I relate to a new "female friend" in my life without causing pain? [more inside]
posted by consilium on Sep 1, 2007 - 28 answers

Today is my 16th wedding anniversary. In a week I turn 40, so I’m doing a little reflection on my life. I have two kids, one in the final year of high school, the other with two years to go. I’m halfway through a degree – I’ll be done in 18 months, and I work part time. I haven’t had sex in 4 years (and very intermittently in the previous 5) because my husband has absolutely no interest. What should I do? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 23, 2007 - 33 answers

I'm having some sexual problems, my mind wants to but my body doesn't. I love my boyfriend very much and I'm very attracted to him. I really enjoy having sex with him but lately my body doesn't seem to want to cooperate with my desires. [more inside]
posted by missmagenta on Jun 8, 2007 - 16 answers

Hormonal Birth Control woes... [more inside]
posted by sunshinesky on Jun 8, 2007 - 36 answers

What is a good starting point for rectifying a low libido? How can one determine if it is physical or mental? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 7, 2007 - 16 answers

What is the likelihood my girlfriend will ever get any sort of horny? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 23, 2007 - 66 answers

How can I get my doctor to take me seriously about my libido problems? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 4, 2007 - 34 answers

I'm a recently out, gay 21 year-old college student. I recently met someone and things are starting to get serious. Last night he came over and I couldn't get aroused. I've never had a problem with that before. What's going on? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 23, 2006 - 14 answers

The girlfriend has lost her sex drive, and mine is higher than ever. Help! [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 31, 2006 - 66 answers

Help me cure lesbian bed-death. Lesbians and non-lesbians alike are welcome to reply. It's a not-so-funny joke in the gay community that a few months into a serious relationship. lesbians stop having sex. My partner and I have been together for six years now, and, although we talk about sex (especially how much we miss it!) we don't have sex. Maybe once a month, possibly less often than that. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 11, 2005 - 13 answers

Help me wake up my libido! I am a 24 year old female with a very low sex drive. I have a great boyfriend of 4 years, and when we do get physical, it's always wonderful, but often leading up to it I am just not interested at all. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 29, 2005 - 18 answers

Have any of you experienced (or noticed in your male partner) an extremely low libido for long periods of time? How did you and your partner get through it? What did you do to combat it? [more inside]
posted by rhapsodie on Jun 28, 2005 - 53 answers