I'm an otherwise healthy 29 year old male who easily gets exhausted and mentally foggy on a regular basis, sometimes seemingly without cause. Not normal-tired, but feeling as if I were 80 years old. It's been like this for at least a year and a half. I have an appointment to see a doctor (endocrinologist) in two weeks, but now that I've finally admitted to myself that I've got a problem... I'm antsy to start figuring out what it might be. Any ideas, hive mind? More details inside... [more inside]
posted on Jul 8, 2008 - 31 answers

I seem to have lost all my libido (sex-drive). Mid-forties male, not health related. Advice? More details inside. [more inside]
posted on May 6, 2008 - 10 answers

The type of guy I like to spend time with isn't the type I like to have sex with. What now? Probably NSFW! [more inside]
posted on May 5, 2008 - 31 answers

I feel my libido is too high. How can I normalize it healthily and deal with it? [more inside]
posted on Feb 19, 2008 - 32 answers

One often hears about the mid-thirties "sexual peak" for women. I have some questions about that. [more inside]
posted on Jan 22, 2008 - 23 answers

Is there any way to stay on SNRIs but restore libido? Possibly TMI about sex life inside, quite possibly NSFW. [more inside]
posted on Dec 9, 2007 - 9 answers

Why is it easier for me to achieve sexual arousal now rather than 10 years ago? [more inside]
posted on Sep 27, 2007 - 12 answers

Girls I might want to befriend are romantically/sexually attracted to me...Are platonic relationships really possible? If so, how do I get out of this pattern of disastrous endings? Most specifically, how do I relate to a new "female friend" in my life without causing pain? [more inside]
posted on Sep 1, 2007 - 28 answers

Today is my 16th wedding anniversary. In a week I turn 40, so I’m doing a little reflection on my life. I have two kids, one in the final year of high school, the other with two years to go. I’m halfway through a degree – I’ll be done in 18 months, and I work part time. I haven’t had sex in 4 years (and very intermittently in the previous 5) because my husband has absolutely no interest. What should I do? [more inside]
posted on Aug 23, 2007 - 33 answers

I'm having some sexual problems, my mind wants to but my body doesn't. I love my boyfriend very much and I'm very attracted to him. I really enjoy having sex with him but lately my body doesn't seem to want to cooperate with my desires. [more inside]
posted on Jun 8, 2007 - 16 answers

Hormonal Birth Control woes... [more inside]
posted on Jun 8, 2007 - 36 answers

What is a good starting point for rectifying a low libido? How can one determine if it is physical or mental? [more inside]
posted on Jun 7, 2007 - 16 answers

What is the likelihood my girlfriend will ever get any sort of horny? [more inside]
posted on May 23, 2007 - 66 answers

How can I get my doctor to take me seriously about my libido problems? [more inside]
posted on Apr 4, 2007 - 34 answers

I'm a recently out, gay 21 year-old college student. I recently met someone and things are starting to get serious. Last night he came over and I couldn't get aroused. I've never had a problem with that before. What's going on? [more inside]
posted on Jun 23, 2006 - 14 answers

The girlfriend has lost her sex drive, and mine is higher than ever. Help! [more inside]
posted on Mar 31, 2006 - 66 answers

Help me cure lesbian bed-death. Lesbians and non-lesbians alike are welcome to reply. It's a not-so-funny joke in the gay community that a few months into a serious relationship. lesbians stop having sex. My partner and I have been together for six years now, and, although we talk about sex (especially how much we miss it!) we don't have sex. Maybe once a month, possibly less often than that. [more inside]
posted on Oct 11, 2005 - 13 answers

Help me wake up my libido! I am a 24 year old female with a very low sex drive. I have a great boyfriend of 4 years, and when we do get physical, it's always wonderful, but often leading up to it I am just not interested at all. [more inside]
posted on Aug 29, 2005 - 18 answers

Have any of you experienced (or noticed in your male partner) an extremely low libido for long periods of time? How did you and your partner get through it? What did you do to combat it? [more inside]
posted on Jun 28, 2005 - 53 answers