What does the "futch" woman wear to Vegas? And where does she find her clothing? If I'm not feeling the nine-inch heels, where can I find the clothing that will be appropriate for a night on the town
and fit butch-leaning tastes?
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posted by schroedinger
on Jul 15, 2008 -
14 answers
In Denver for a conference and I need things to do and places to eat/drink. Would love Lesbian or queer-friendly suggestions too.
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posted by anthropoid
on Jun 26, 2008 -
15 answers
Why are there so few lesbian bars in the NYC/Brooklyn area when compared to the high number of gay bars?
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posted by Viola
on Jun 19, 2008 -
31 answers
After a long time in a lesbian relationship, I'm coming to the realization that I think I'm straight. I don't want to leave my wife (I really love her), but I can't stop thinking about men. Please help me figure this out. Sexually explicit details inside. NSFW
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posted by anonymous
on Apr 21, 2008 -
23 answers
Can you recommend a good, lesbian-friendly therapist/psychologist/whatever in Kentucky?
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posted by reese
on Feb 22, 2008 -
4 answers
Complicated name-change issues. I am changing my last name, but not due to a legal marriage. Can I get my name changed now, but start using it for everything later?
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posted by fiercecupcake
on Jan 30, 2008 -
11 answers
I'm seeking a wedding location in Central New York, the closer to Syracuse the better. Details beyond...
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posted by wg
on Jan 22, 2008 -
9 answers
Help me sort out my feelings about the relationship I’m in because I just can’t seem to figure it out. (long and complicated - sorry!)
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posted by anonymous
on Dec 25, 2007 -
23 answers
Looking for the film of a trailer I saw a while back: A lesbian couple during World War II. Possibly artists, writers. They live together in a house in Germany. One (or both?) gets captured by the Nazis while stubbornly staying put in the house, instead of making a run for it.
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posted by Xere
on Sep 23, 2007 -
5 answers
Help me locate a VHS documentary filmed in the 90's called "Lesbian Misconceptions". It was filmed by Dinah Holtzman, and submitted to a film festival. It's possible the festival was called "Lesbian Misconceptions," not the film itself.
posted by cameradv
on Jul 18, 2007 -
1 answer
I'm looking for some lesbian friendly indie songs for a mixtape, as well as just regular old indie love songs.
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posted by Suparnova
on Jul 8, 2007 -
32 answers
I identify as a lesbian. Friends have recently begun discussing the fact that they think that that I'm bisexual. I honestly don't know if they're right. Help me find good essays/books/etc, preferably online, that deal with some of these issues...
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posted by anonymous
on May 23, 2007 -
22 answers
[LesbianSongLyricsFilter] There's a lesbian-feminist version of I Want To Be Seduced that refers to a woman making eyes at you while engaging you in discussion of Robin Morgan. Who sang it?
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posted by kika
on Apr 6, 2007 -
4 answers
Has an openly gay man or lesbian ever won an Academy Award (in any category)?
posted by AlliKat75
on Apr 3, 2007 -
29 answers
Please point me toward resources to help me cope with my family and their responses to my impending (gay) engagement. My Google-fu seems to be failing me. There's more details on my specific situation inside.
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posted by fiercecupcake
on Apr 3, 2007 -
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Where's a nice place for two queer women to hang out, eat, or dance in San Antonio this weekend? We're staying at a hotel about half an hour west of downtown, and we'll have a car.
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posted by expialidocious
on Mar 22, 2007 -
10 answers
Are there any
openly lesbian women's basketball coaches in the NCAA?
posted by 10ch
on Feb 17, 2007 -
12 answers
What's the best way to use money to support marriage equality in the US?
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posted by Xalf
on Feb 1, 2007 -
12 answers
Can I help two teenagers in a violent relationship when they don't seem particularly interested in being helped? One of the teenagers lives with me.
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posted by anonymous
on Dec 3, 2006 -
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For a student of mine: Is it a good idea or a bad idea, on a law school application, to disclose past drug use and rehabilitation, sexual orientation, and family issues to explain why one has a problematic academic history?
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posted by k8t
on Sep 26, 2006 -
27 answers
Are there any documented cases of gay men or lesbians moving to Massachusetts to take advantage of our marriage laws? Has anyone written profiles of people or couples who have done this?
posted by alms
on Jul 11, 2006 -
10 answers
Can a non-Canadian man donate sperm to a Canadian lesbian couple and use that child as justification to apply for immigration? Furthermore, once his immigration goes through, can the non-carrying lesbian adopt the child and be a legal parent?
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posted by anonymous
on Apr 15, 2006 -
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Are there organizations that report on the human rights of gays and lesbians around the world?
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posted by Amizu
on Jan 6, 2006 -
6 answers
Recently I found out that my 10th grade flame is not only doing well, but has ditched a potential husband and come out. She looks great.
I wouldn't think anything of it, except that my first true love and the first girl I ever kissed also decided they were gay after seeing me.
What're the odds? Am I recruiting for the other team?
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posted by anthill
on Oct 30, 2005 -
28 answers
Help me cure lesbian bed-death. Lesbians and non-lesbians alike are welcome to reply.
It's a not-so-funny joke in the gay community that a few months into a serious relationship. lesbians stop having sex. My partner and I have been together for six years now, and, although we talk about sex (especially how much we miss it!) we don't have sex. Maybe once a month, possibly less often than that.
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posted by anonymous
on Oct 11, 2005 -
13 answers
How did you come out to your parents / friends / family?
posted by anonymous
on Apr 21, 2005 -
34 answers
I am a hetero male. Why am I attracted to lesbians? I know it's a fairly common thing for guys, but I just don't understand where it comes from, and this disturbs me -and hurts my hetero relationship.
posted by anonymous
on Feb 6, 2005 -
28 answers
I'm toying with opening a site based upon the MeFi model for LGBT issues and community building. What software programs do MeFi and other online communities use to administer the system? I've really only installed MT and other simple programs before, so I'm looking for ease of install as well as ease of use... Thanks in advance!
posted by moonbird
on Dec 19, 2003 -
9 answers
