I have two romantic interests in my life: one who adores me and is giving herself to me wholeheartedly, and one who seems to be a better match but lives 850 miles away and is just getting out of a relationship. What should I do?
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posted by sockpuppetryarts
on Oct 14, 2012 -
34 answers
Any resources for healing after a breakup when
you're the one that initiated it? And that doesn't demonise either party?
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posted by divabat
on Oct 6, 2012 -
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Mid-20s, female, sort of starting to wonder if I might maybe be bi, kind of hating on myself over it.
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posted by anonymous
on Jul 10, 2012 -
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I would like help in finding a book mentioned in passing during one of my lesbian literature in English classes in undergrad. This was ages ago in the early 90s. The woman fell in love with a diner.
posted by MidSouthern Mouth
on Feb 13, 2012 -
3 answers
Recommendations for stories about the mentor/protege dynamic that are sexy. Bonus points if both parties are female.
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posted by divabat
on Dec 2, 2011 -
8 answers
[Queer-filter] How do you cope with the ambient heterosexism of everyday life?
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posted by zahava
on Jan 27, 2011 -
33 answers
I have just been seduced by a relatively older, more experienced, kinky woman who's keen to show me the darker side of pleasure. I'm a relatively inexperienced younger woman. What could I do so that *she* gets some fun out of it too?
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posted by anonymous
on Dec 21, 2010 -
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I'm a queer girl who would like to ask another queer girl out on a date. I have never done this before. How do I do this without being stupid?
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posted by anonymous
on Apr 23, 2010 -
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My first lesbian experience quickly became assault. What do I do to take care of myself now?
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posted by anonymous
on Dec 3, 2009 -
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I have a first date with a girl coming up, which is awesome and I'm psyched. Only... I've never dated girls before! Help!
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posted by anonymous
on Nov 3, 2009 -
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Lesbian seeks men's (or men's-like) suit in Montréal ASAP. Other non-location-specific genderqueer shopping advice appreciated.
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posted by anonymous
on May 27, 2009 -
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Where's a nice place for two queer women to hang out, eat, or dance in San Antonio this weekend? We're staying at a hotel about half an hour west of downtown, and we'll have a car.
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posted by expialidocious
on Mar 22, 2007 -
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